We have broken up and gotten back together over a hundred times. Just recently this person broke up with me for 3 weeks of December and then wanted me to come back. Then, when I came back things were ok then i was feeling like this person would tell me certain things instead of everything. And they weren't showing me that they loved me, doing things to make me feel special or wanting to have sex like before. And I tried to confront this person in a calm nice way but they didn't try to change and always thought i was just trying to start arguments. Then they broke it off with me again last monday and i went away for a week then came back to our apt and this person was still like they feel the same way and never wanna be wit me again. I love this person soooooo much and got so much plans for us and nothing but good intentions. I know i did a whole lot of things to hurt this person in the past but i need for them to forgive me and move on from that. I don' wanna be without this person.
2007-02-28 16:14:36 · 8 answers · asked by nextkobe1986 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like the issues of the past have never been fully resolved.The two of you need to do some serious talking.And you need to be 100% honest when you do.Other wise the cycle is just going to continue.
2007-02-28 16:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by bjustnape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!
Take it from someone whose husband did the same thing. They are only using you for what they can get from you. Most likely they are sleeping with someone else who is playing the same games. It sounds very much like the revolving door that my husband did to me and our son. When things aren't going their way they come crawling back. When they start to get what they want they run.
Get out of the relationship. Spend some 'me' time and get over this person. Find out something that you really love about yourself and work on you. Once you are happy being alone then you can work on being with someone else again.
2007-03-01 00:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by laraiyne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time you guys break up, you are both single for that time. When you are both single, you can meet new people and have new feelings. Those don't go away when you get back together. The more you break up, the more outside baggage joins your relationship. Either stay together and make it work, or call it quits. This game will have a nasty spill one day if you don't fix it!
2007-03-01 00:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Happy Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you two like the drama and excitment of breaking up and making up in your relationship. Seriously can you see yourself doing this married with a mortgage, kids and other important things that need stability? Like it or not your best bet is to move on from this relationship full of turmoil
2007-03-01 00:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by fyrechick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a toxic relationship. Not a good way to go. He's got you on an emotional string and you'll stay there as long as you allow this cyclic garbage to continue.
2007-03-01 00:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not love it sounds like you guys have a comfort thing with each other every time you guys just need to stop wasting your time with each other because this is not a good relationship good luck
2007-03-01 00:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by LifesJourney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your have s-x with him that answers your question.If not .You both have issues. Putting up with on off on off.
Bet you can remember if your on or off.The light has burned out.Replace it .Good luck.Just my thought.
2007-03-01 00:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for another lover or you will be doing this all your life
2007-03-01 00:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋