ok hear is sum bakstory . last weak i was at a party wthi girls and boys (i aim school btw). my grilfeind was already there she came with a gyu named TREVRO. trevor is a JREK. he is very mean to hre and treats her bad but she alwyas is with him.
i was their with myf riend jayson. jayosn and i r have ben friends since 2 years ago. he said i shuld tlak to her so i did we talk ed for a while but trevro caem up and said "ITS TME TO GO" so i said good night to her and him.
the next daay her friend was talking to a girl in my class and siad she had SEX with trevor. i m not sure who to believ.
PLEASE HEP I FEEL HORIBLE ABOUT THIS.
2007-02-28 16:32:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I honestly think that you would do well to move on. There are other girls and the pain will lessen with tiime. Your sanity and safety is worth keeping.
2007-02-28 16:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from what you said I'd say yes is your answer. If she's your girlfriend then 1. why did she come to the party with some other guy ans 2. why did she leave with him and not you? Granted second hand information is just that second hand, if you want the real story then ask the real person involved. Also, no girl is worth crying over nor worthy of your time if she's just going to cheat on you and break your heart.
2007-02-28 16:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by amberraven2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you have been dating very long, and by your grammar, I am guessing you are about 12.
Talk to your girl, she shouldn;t be spending time alone with another guy, why did she come to the party with him and not you? She also left with him? Move on, why put yourself through this crap?
It doesn;t sound like she can be trusted, I think you are dating a two timing hoe. Life sucks sometimes, but you need to move on.
2007-02-28 16:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, let's take this point by point....
1. she went to the party without you.
2. she went with some other dude.
3. a)she left when he said so.
b)she left with him.
4. girls usually don't bullshit each other over gossip, the truth is always juicier.
not to be a dick or anything, but was this chick ever your girlfriend in more than your fantasies? obviously she doesen't think so.
do yourself a favor and find a chick who isn't a skank.
and PLEASE learn how to spell.
2007-02-28 16:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask the girl if she is having any relationships with that guy, if she said no then ask her what type of relation she wants from you weather it is long term relation, if she says yes then tell her she has to be honest with you psychologically, physically and mentally,
if you dont get the positive response from the girl live the girl and do mind there is sure someone in this world made for you
2007-02-28 16:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by AMS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, if she really had feelings for you she would had left with you that night. Plainly she does not care that much so try your best to get over her. You can. Don't try anything like retribution on her or both. I am on your side you can do it you are bigger than that. I know the hurt feelings like yours. You have to get over her and move on. Good Luck.
2007-02-28 16:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if she is your girlfriend, why did she go to the party with trevor???
she shoulda gone with you. and the part were u told her and trevor goodnight, if she is your girl why would u let her leave with another guy???? move on like nothing happened. get another girl. i bet any money that she'll come running back to u!!!!!!
2007-02-28 16:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by fatt_and_juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry buddy butt she has had sex with him. Believe it or not but girls like the jerks....the mean ones...y i dont know i was the jerk type with my ex when we first got together and after about three years i turned into the guy who actually cares....three years later she is now with a jerk.
2007-02-28 17:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by mckinlyjoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did she arrive at and leave the party with Trevor? I would say yes she is cheating..
2007-02-28 16:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by michael H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first why is trevor taking her home why not you second her friend is probally right or why would it even be brought up.learn to ask the horses mouth i mean ask her why she left and did she sleep with him,go from there.
2007-02-28 16:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋