the looks more or the personality and tell me why
2007-02-28 16:31:10 · 13 answers · asked by lilmed4ever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personality, of course.
i like guys who treat me nicely, has manners, a sense of humor, brains, maybe a bit romantic.
sometimes good-looking people are too far up their own butts. and if they don't have a nice personality, then what are you going to do on your date? just stare at them?
i'd rather take personality any day.
2007-02-28 16:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by wordsofapoet 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The thing that drew me to my husband was his honesty, integrity, compassion, love, caring. He wasn't pushy. It was 6 months or more before he held my hand or gave me a gentle kiss. He is still a gentleman. It's the little things he does for me. He knew before we were married that I had some nasty health issues but he loved me anyway. He also has a great sense of humour and a practical joker. We were best friends before we got married & still are. It was a little more than a year after we met that we were married. We never did anything fancy or expensive and still don't; I am one very happy wife. If you treat each other right you can't go wrong. Let love come naturally and in it's own time. You'll be happy you did. He has personality and good looks.
2007-03-01 00:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by Garnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Providing no emotional trauma drains the personality dry, that's what usually lasts. Looks fade. My Mr. Me should me smart and well read..above all, he should be funny or at least, understand the restorative powers or laughter.
I like chivalry...manners. too. He should be well spoken and poised and confident enough to be able to handle himself in any situation. I like bodies that are lived in. Personally, I find that there's a certain shallowness to those who strive for physical perfection only. Washboard abs are pretty, but for me, that's just not enough. I don't want some big gelatinous tub of goo either.
I appreciate physical moderation.
I like men who refuse to say "yeppers" and ".no worries" and begin and/or end every sentence with "Dude".
I like men who type real words in their emails. None of this cyber short hand crap for example, "R U happy" or
"lmao". What the hell is that?
The other day there was a young man--around 25 or so and he was being interviewed on some network news show and I swear he used the words "like" and "actually", 11 and 14 times, respectively, in a 12-minute span. It actually made me sick at my stomach.
I used to work with several 20-year olds who also spoke like that.
It was like, very difficult to handle actually.
2007-03-01 00:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by I am Laurie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl, but I'd like to chime in. From my experiences, it depends on where you meet your girls. Let's say you're in a club, bar, party, etc. Places where guys are hitting on every girl. If that's your first time meeting a girl and ya'lls interaction will only be a few minutes, then looks matter more. But let's say you take a class with a girl one semester, or go to the same church, or have mutual friends, you know, in a situation where you have continuous contact then personality will reign supreme. Both matter, but remember every woman has their own taste in what they like, so don't stress and be yourself.
2007-03-01 00:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by bernard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gonna lie, looks do matter, but personality is so much more. If a guy can't hold a real conversation with me, there is no point in a relationship. You can only look at a cute face for so long before you get bored... I need substance aka personality. That's just me though. : )
2007-03-01 00:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personality because its the personality of the guy that speaks to a womans heart really. Well thats my opinion anyways.
2007-03-01 00:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say balance , because personality very important and look too(he does not have to be really hot, he can be good looking guy that would be my type, or very not attractive to others but looks attractive for me). If the guy is very hot and his personality sux(jerk, disrespectful to others), his loOKs would not matter. If he is the guy who is ok(cute) looking, his wonderful personality would make him look very attractive(hot)
2007-03-01 00:42:51 · answer #7 · answered by M A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many girls will say personality pretending like looks dont matter.
but the truth is that personality matters most but you have to feel some sort of attraction towards the guy aswell.
2007-03-01 00:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by dahyahnah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The personality, of course... because who wants to be with a really good looking person who can't talk to you or make you laugh? I'd rather have someone who could be my best friend AND lover/boyfriend/whatever....
2007-03-01 00:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well look and personality...looks are not everything, you have to have the personality too. And talk to us...men do not like to talk much. and have fun...it is not just one thing, it is the whole package. Also we know when you are a fake, so do not even try it.
2007-03-01 00:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋