Whenever I start dating someone new, it's great for a few weeks & then I find myself subconsciously pulling away. I always try to make sure I don't seem more into him than he is into me or "too clingy." I still play too much "hard to get" even when we've established that we like each other. When there is mutual attraction between me & a guy, my initial preconceived assumption is always just have fun, it's not going to go anywhere. I rarely give guys a chance & rarely allow myself to have feelings for someone. Even with guys I really like I can't seem to let them know I do. When I really like a guy I'm dating, I act like I don't care for him & when he gets distant, I get mad & end up becoming really attached to him for a long time! (If this was commitment phobia, wouldn't I not like the same guy for so long?)
I'd like to be in a relationship but I seem to subconsciously keep sabotaging it! Why do I do this? How can I get myself to stop? (if this helps, I'm only 23 and a girl!)
2007-02-28
15:24:50
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laughterisnaturescure
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