My bf and I have been together for 2 years. He's in Georgia and I'm in MS, last time we've seen each other is Thanksgiving. I feel like we are meant to be but I also feel like I'm the only one really fighting to hold on to the relationship. I'm really fed up. We've been through extra stress lately... I think I may be pregnant and I'm in the process of trying to find out for sure. Lately he's been acting like he doesn't want to call or talk to me. I understand that he is stressed (I have no question that he will take care of our child even if we are not together) Should I give him the benefit of the doubt or just take this as the opportunity to get out of this relationship (which Im starting to lose faith in)?
2007-02-28 15:38:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first you should talk to him about what you feel is going on. second you need to realize that when it is more work to have the relationship than it is to enjoy maybe you need to let go if only for a little while. if yall have a child together then you are gonna be apart of eachothers lives forever and maybe that can help yall work things out or it can be the straw that breaks the camels back. talk to your bf honey and listen to your heart. always gp with your first instinct the first thought is the right one
2007-02-28 15:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by peachez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't make any decisions until you know for sure about your pregnancy. It could mean the diff btwn him wanting to stay or go. It's understandable that he's stressed about the situation, and maybe that's making him back off a bit. But he might just step up if the tests are positive.
You are the one with the most to worry about tho. You may need his help soon. You don't want to cut him loose if there's a chance he'll come around. No doubt it's hard for you to face this w/out him being around, even emotionally, but it will be worse in 9 months if you pushed him away just when he was ready to come thru. See what the doc says then talk it over w/him.
2007-02-28 23:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is hard to say why he is or isn't wanting to speak to you...maybe wait a bit..and try again..and tell him how important it is to you, that you speak to him...and ask him, if he really wants to stay in this relationship or call it quits...you also have to let him know whether or not he will have a baby on the way...but, I would first ,wait...then talk to him...and then wait and see what goes on with him....
2007-02-28 23:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you both feel about each other, and if you are both wanting the same thing.
Do not stay together though just because you find out that you actually are pregnant
2007-02-28 23:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hard to maintain a long distance romance, it very hard, but
the biggest question you need to find out if you are pregant'
then you can go from there, you and he may need to really
find out if you can make this work if there is a child involved.
2007-02-28 23:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋