Singles & Dating - 4 February 2007

Ive been dating my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and we plan on getting married in a couple of years. Ever since day one taht we started dating, there has always been drama! i feel like i am still in high school! girls want to fight me and spread rumors and all this immature stuff and its really bugging me. im not sure if i should just shake it off and continue to date my boyfriend or to just break up with him becuse of all the drama. weve evn broken up a few times becuase of some of this stupid drama! what should i do>? i know im a solider for putting up with it for 3 years, but sometimes, im sick and tired of being sick and tired............a person can only take so much....

2007-02-04 17:02:55 · 11 answers · asked by kim k 1

Recently I met this guy. he's very cool and attractive. i started seeing him as an aquaintance, i never imagined that id end up seeing him in a romantic way, -1 because he's 31(doesnt look like it though) and im 18 and 2- because he lives far away. i dont really want a relationship with him, but i do feel sexually attracted to him. to the point that i really wanna act on it. he's going back to the state he lives in and while we're still going to keep in touch, we wont see eachother for a while if not ever again. i have felt tension between us and i think he feels sexually attracted to me too. my question is to all of you who have been in the same or similar situation before is, should i act on it? Is the age difference such a big deal if i just want an intimate encounter and then just keep being aquaintances? how did it work out for you? What do you think? Please mature answers only.

2007-02-04 17:00:48 · 21 answers · asked by ♥ 4

In September my fiancee and I split up after 7 1/2 years.
I am now 28 and torn between two routes.

1 is to live alone for a while and have a relationship with someone 3 years younger than me that has a body do die for and not looking for much commitment.
2 is to move in with a friend who says he has fallen for me and wants to have a future with me (has hinted at marriage). He is 6 years older than me , not bad looking and lives in another part of UK.

I was thinking have some fun with number 1 then when that ends go with number 2 but that isnt fair on number 2.

This is a curiosity question, please no insults.

2007-02-04 17:00:48 · 22 answers · asked by Emma 2

I NEED ALL THE DETAILS AND WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR TONGUE! PLEASE...

2007-02-04 17:00:29 · 5 answers · asked by jack m 1

2007-02-04 16:59:26 · 9 answers · asked by .......... 4

Me and this guy have been flirting for a few weeks. I could never figure out if he liked me for sure or not but the other night he kissed me. We were leaving the bar after a few hours ( he had only had three beers) and I walked to my car and he was walking to his but as I was looking for my keys he suddently walked up and said I have been wanting to do this for a while. Then he kissed me. Not like a peck but a really deep kiss. Afterwards I told him I had been wanting him to do it for a while. He kissed me again and I said goodnight and got in my car. That was tuesday but he still hasn't called me or messaged me. What is up with that?

2007-02-04 16:58:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-04 16:58:27 · 5 answers · asked by collegedebt 3

go to another guy's house, cook lunch for him, and watch movies with him on his bed by yourselves? QUESTION IS FOR GIRLS. thanks.

2007-02-04 16:57:43 · 11 answers · asked by space monkey 2

My gf and me have been wanting to get more physical but she says that i cant do anything to her yet because she needs to go to the doctors about something with her lady parts she says thats is also the reason she has stomach aches a lot she is a virgin and has no stds (her and i are very honest but this is something that i cannot ask her cuz it is very personal) any ideas?

2007-02-04 16:57:07 · 4 answers · asked by thescarsarethere 1

I have a girl friend and intimate fried (he is my best fried for long period) usually we will be together on weekends in my Apartment. But some times I am busy with my job and I will not be in my home. But they met and spend a lot time in my home even with out my knowledge. I am not comfortable with such type of relation, because, if a guy and lady spend long time together things may change. I think like this. Am I correct or wrong? Even Some times after we spent a lot in my home she go with him (left me alone). What shall I do to stop their relation? I fear if I upset both of them if they are not engaged in such type of activities. Please tell me the truth?

2007-02-04 16:57:07 · 7 answers · asked by HOke 1

My boyfriend has that problem, and I'm not sure what to do. Sometimes they get really long. I think he's just lazy about it. Any suggestions what to say or do?

2007-02-04 16:55:29 · 7 answers · asked by petunia 1

Here we go; I am sixteen years old and the girl I might still like is fifteen. I understand when you ask the popular question: "Will you go out with me?" is generally a yes or a no. When she said "no" (obviously not "no" but something like "that is really sweet but i dont feel i am ready for that") she was scared that I would never talk to her again. She told me that she didnt want me to never talk to her again and wanted to remain really good friends. I asked her out about a week ago and ever since she has said "no" to me, she has become closer to me, wanting more intention, always initiating conversations and enjoying them even more with me. I told her I would never ask her out again, and I wont. DONT get the impression that she is playing hard to get; I know forsure she isn't. My question is what should I do now? And why is she doing this? PLEASE do not give a simple "move on man" as an answer; think about it . The more input and advice the better; this means alot, thanks a million!

2007-02-04 16:54:46 · 12 answers · asked by Justin K 1

is it trie that girls don't like boys they like cars and money?

2007-02-04 16:53:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend Pam is an amazing woman, she has aheart of gold, wears her heart on her sleeve and will give you the shirt off of her back if someone needed it. She is a mom of two children a 15 year old boy and a highly intelligent 10 year old daughter.She has extremely low self esteem and I think it would be nice if I could get her to go out with someone, just to have a nice evening out. She deserves. Are there men out there whom are not superficial? Remeber the movie "Shallow Hal"? This is the kind of woman that Pam is and she is so sweet. She has so much love and kindness to give but men just treat her cruely because of her weight. She has a hard time loosing weight because of all of her medical problems....can someone help her? Is there men out there that truly love bigger woman and who would treat her like gold?

2007-02-04 16:52:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

valentine's day is just around the corner.........dere is this girl i really like but i have no idea how to ask her to be my valentine!!!!.......can somebody please help me!!!
THANX!!

2007-02-04 16:51:48 · 10 answers · asked by HI! 2

Ok here is the story

I have a boyfriend with whom im staying with he is realy nice and i do like him very much we get along very well and we understand each other

Ok so where is the problem.....

There is this guy at work, we started flirting and chatting through messenger. A little flirt wont hurt anyone i figured.
He is on training the whole week so i wont see him around and i miss him i havent seen him 2day at all and i miss him i miss talking to him i miss looking over my should and see his face

Why is this happening im realy happy with my boyfriend
Am I only over reacting or what?

2007-02-04 16:48:52 · 6 answers · asked by SAgirl 5

My boyfriend and I have gone out for about four months. His family loves me, and my parents like him. Back in sixth grade, his mother called my mother at 10 at night and yelled at my mother over an incident my BF & I had at a dance. My mother was shocked, and offended.

After six years, we met up and began dating in Oct. My mother has always liked him as a person, but now she is constantly asking when I'll break up with him, why I still stay with him, etc. She especially hates the fact that we are Christian and he is Muslim.

Today she told me if I didn't break up with him soon, she wouldn't pay for my top choice -- an out-of-state university -- and would instead send me to a community college here. I told him that we'd fake a breakup after V-Day, since she doesn't mind us hanging out, she simply doesn't want us dating. He's very upset about this, but I don't know what else to do. I think my mother is still upset about the phone call. What's the best way to get through this?

2007-02-04 16:48:49 · 11 answers · asked by Roni L 1

I am a teacher and this year I will be teaching sex ed to a group of 14 year olds.
I know they are going to ask a lot of questions about when they should lose their virginity and what "first times" are like and I would like to be able to give them a well-rounded and informative answer, based on both the male and female perspective.
If there is anyone out there who would like to share their story and experiences for this cause I would love to hear about it.
Knowing kids they'll want details, but please only give those you are comfortable sharing.
Thanks!

2007-02-04 16:48:03 · 11 answers · asked by Jodes 3

Don't you hate when the person you are with ask that question? Do you think that it is just a way to jump start a conversation? If so, why do they get mad when you tell them what you are thinking and its silly? Like..."I should have wore my hat with this outfit".

2007-02-04 16:47:08 · 16 answers · asked by pan2fly 2

Let’s say you have a friend who is an adult who is disabled—on disability checks and he had a girlfriend who is also an adult but is independent and works. He wants to marry his girlfriend but has to talk to her dad first. Will there be conflicts since he doesn’t work? What should he do?

2007-02-04 16:47:07 · 6 answers · asked by Josh 1

this girl is 18 she occasionally shaves her pits and legs, doesn't bathe very much (you can tell in certain intimate situations trust me) she does EVERYTHING her mother tells her to do no matter what. if her mother says to be home at 8 she will try to be home at 5. she never ever wears underwear, she hangs out with emo's and flirtatious women (avoiding the s word for yahoo) and plays guys for a long time until she finds another one she thinks is better. what is this kind of girl?

2007-02-04 16:46:06 · 28 answers · asked by U.S MARINE GREG 2

Can someone tell me how?

2007-02-04 16:46:02 · 9 answers · asked by free love 1

Im 21 and in November my fiance split up with me. We had afew fights and it wasnt working out for us. We had a block of land together and i made all the repayments on it since we had it cos he was sorting his life out seeing a therapist. And after we broke up i said for him to make repayments cos i couldnt deal with it anymore. And we had an argument. cos he didnt want to have the responsability. I found out recently that his mate asked my friend " Why does nat555 have to be such a b**** to my ex fiance". I was sooo hurt because he had been telling people that i wasnt nice and i never ever hurt him like that i always respected him and told people good things about him. Does anyone have any good advise they can give me?

2007-02-04 16:45:08 · 12 answers · asked by Nat555 2

2007-02-04 16:44:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you have an apology to make? Have you hurt someone? Do you have a dirty secret? Let it out here and feel better.

2007-02-04 16:43:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am not full figured neither thin but i attracted to tall masculin guys with strong thick bone structure !but the only guys attracted to me are so thin light and same height as me?
i dont know the reasone?:(
i would rather guys answer me?

2007-02-04 16:42:58 · 10 answers · asked by karen 2

ok so the guy i was crushing finds out that i thought he was attractive and its not a big deal for me, but then when i tried to follow some advice...he made me feel like a complete idiot. i tried to talk to him like how i would before i even liked him and then he asked "why are you calling me?" in a very disrespectful tone of voice. i was shocked because i have never heard him talk that to me or any other girl. i told him i was looking for someone’s number and was wondering if he could help but it turned out bad. now i have to go and see him tomorrow. can anyone give me advice on how i can handle this situation.

2007-02-04 16:38:27 · 17 answers · asked by meme 1

What are they about,why do they ask the things they ask and then run away from the answers and why do they think men are monsters? Jenni O this one is for you.

2007-02-04 16:38:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in love with this guy, and have been for almost 2 years now. it's been 13 months since we broke up, and we only were togehter for a short 3 weeks, but something clicked, and i knew then and there he was the one. since then we have dated on and off, and other friends (ex friends) have dated him. we are still kind of friends, talking occasionally. but he is an ***, and i can't seem to move on. I know he doesn't love me back, not anymore atleast, but is it worth it to wait it out. (this guy is a man-whore who plays every girl, but i thought me and him might be different). i have waited this long, would it kill me to wait any longer?

2007-02-04 16:36:55 · 10 answers · asked by chickpea726 1

Do couples in serious relationships love each other the same—or does one have a higher percentage and the other a low percentage. For example one loves 90% and the other 85%.

2007-02-04 16:36:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous