Ive been dating my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and we plan on getting married in a couple of years. Ever since day one taht we started dating, there has always been drama! i feel like i am still in high school! girls want to fight me and spread rumors and all this immature stuff and its really bugging me. im not sure if i should just shake it off and continue to date my boyfriend or to just break up with him becuse of all the drama. weve evn broken up a few times becuase of some of this stupid drama! what should i do>? i know im a solider for putting up with it for 3 years, but sometimes, im sick and tired of being sick and tired............a person can only take so much....
2007-02-04 17:02:55 · 11 answers · asked by kim k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're a soldier because you put up with crap from people for 3 years?
HAHAHAH LMAO!
then wat are men and women who are fighting their lives off in iraq?
2007-02-04 17:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a situation like this, you should follow your heart. I can't tell you to stay with him because you've invested 3 years into the relationship and keep putting up with the drama. I can't tell you to leave him either. This is one of those situations that you have to dig deep into your heart and find out what it's telling you. Do you really love this guy enough to stay with him through the thick and thin along with all the drama you're going through? Think about that. Honestly, life is too short to be going through alot of unnecessary stuff like this. This is only my opinion.
2007-02-04 17:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by Essence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I went through the same exact thing with my boyfriend. I got pregnant at a young age by him, but we've been together for almost ten years now. When we were younger we used to have SO much drama! Just like you, girls would be calling me, he would cheat on me, I would cheat on him, crazyness! But after I had my son I grew up, he didnt. I broke up with him and he came crawling back. I took him back and then he grew up. Now we're in our early twenties and we have a smart, sweet ,kid we own our own home and there is no more drama. So for people who say it'll never work, NEVER SAY NEVER.
2007-02-04 17:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by Princess Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what u need to do!!! When you're ready you'll leave. You just have to wait till your strong enough. Being tired of being tired is not a sign of having a strong secure relationship. Some guys just don't do it for u...good luck! And don't feel bad that you have standards. He needs to understand that what you want is important and its time for the games to end.
2007-02-04 17:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by Benny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling this way, I would say break up with him. Things aren't likely to change if you have been with him for 3 years and have broken up several times. If you stick around it will just be more of the same.
2007-02-04 17:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in my opinion i think that if you really like him then you wouldnt break up with him and if you know that the rumors are all lies then keep on with your life and the men your dating doesnt believe you then move opn because he doesnt trust you at all the realtionship is all aobut trusting each other and about a person can only take so mucjh well ive experience that and well thats true because they were things that were rumors and there were things that were true but the matter of the fact is that if you know is all lies then go on with life.
2007-02-04 17:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by tonyhawk_2500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 1/2 years is a lot to throw away because of other people. think about this hard, if the other people weren't in the situation would you and your boyfriend still be happy? if you love eachother, and other people are making it bad, take them out of the equation so that your happy. just make sure you think hard, and dont do something silly in the heat of the moment.
2007-02-04 17:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by whyy_nottt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And this is the person you are planning to marry. All the best of luck to you, because you're going to need it.
2007-02-04 17:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama in a real relationship sure can spoil it.
2007-02-04 17:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are always going to talk, you can't change that. They might just be jealous. DO NOT LET THEM WIN! show them that you are strong enough to get through this!
2007-02-04 17:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋