Singles & Dating - 1 February 2007

2007-02-01 11:43:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend just broke up with her boyfriend and is really suicidal right now. he was diagnosed with sever depression from a doctor so i really think he might do something to harm himself. what should i say to him?

2007-02-01 11:42:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i dated this boy and we broke up twicw but went back together now we dont go together but yet he wants to have sex and wants me to do oral on him(i do it too) but he doesn't a relationship with me. he knows that i care about him and that i want to be with him but yet he says let time take its course. he tells me that he likes me and all that other stuff. while he tealls me this stuff i still feel likes he's using me. I remember the day when he left me at his house after we did it. he told me that he had to go make money and that he would be right back but yet i waited for 2 hours. i was so hurt. we were going out at this time. he told me it was a mishap. he makes me feel like im not good enough. i feel as if im just no good. he uses me so bad. I give him money too because i see it as being there for him seeing that his parents wont give him money. i need help and advice. with him sometimes i feel pretty and sometimes i dont. im so insecure now. please help me.

2007-02-01 11:41:42 · 21 answers · asked by smfan 1

he is a really shy guy but he talks to me a lot. the other day he came up to me after school and asked me for gum so i gave him some i was with my friend and he started talking about how nice i am. he heard my scream one day and ever since then he has fake screamed like me so today i asked him why are you macking fun me? he said im not so i said then what are you just screaming like me to annoy me but he said the only reason he did it was because he likes it. he also said that he likes my laugh and he always says hi to me whenever he sees me hes a really nice guy but im not shure if he likes me so plz HELP

2007-02-01 11:39:00 · 9 answers · asked by mokèlé mbèmbé 2

okay so my friend asked me if i wanted to b his g/f right? and i told him that i would think about it over night. i decided that i didn't want to. so today he seemed all happy like he knew i was going to say yes, or more like i did say yes. i told him that i didn't think that i was supposed to b doing that right now. and he said that that wasn't an answer. i think he got his hopes up. how do i let him down easy.

2007-02-01 11:37:56 · 10 answers · asked by ☠Rockerchick☠ 7

a guy to answer my calls???

2007-02-01 11:36:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

seriously, y do u think that? im plenty faithful, and so is almost every guy i know. i admit, there are a few players out there, but most guys are more faithful than u girls give us credit for!1 why??
why dont u trust us?

2007-02-01 11:35:27 · 24 answers · asked by Food For Thought 3

2007-02-01 11:35:17 · 11 answers · asked by brother from QG 3

2007-02-01 11:35:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a girl i like named Danielle who i think is way outta my league. But i really like her so how do I pull this off.

2007-02-01 11:34:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

when my boyfriend is really tired (which is like 80% of the time), he tends to give me dirty looks. it really bothers me...i dunno why i take it really personal. does anyone else have this problem?

2007-02-01 11:33:50 · 10 answers · asked by LaLaLaa♥ 5

There is this guy and we have been flirting with eachother for about a year. He always seems to take my calls and is happy to hear for me, but today I called him and He did answer saying, "Hello babjos" really happy, and said he would have to call me later because he was getting ready for a meeting. Do you think if he didn't like me he would have just let my call go to voice mail other than picking up the phone knowing it was me?

2007-02-01 11:33:11 · 10 answers · asked by Kemma 3

there is a guy and he isnt physiclly attractive and he is really nice if i went out with him everyone would make fun of me. He says he would do anything for me and i am his best friend. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!

2007-02-01 11:33:06 · 20 answers · asked by k-la 2

ive been with my boyf for over 2 years now and he has never given me any reason to think he would cheat. he tells me so many times how much he loves me etc but all i think is "your lying, you can't". If i see him talk to an attractive girl my mind starts thinking "he fancies her" and when he comes back and kisses me i think "hes wishing i was her". I know im tottally crazy! i need help!
i even look through his friends myspaces to see photos of nights out to check what hes doing in them. and in one there is a picture of him talking to this girl and i feel sick looking at it. what am i going to do? ive told him that im totally crazy jealous and how guilty i feel about it and he says its ok but its eating me up and consuming most of my mind and time. if hes not with me I have to go out with my friends to stop myself thinking about what hes up to. any tips or suggestions that would help? i know im crazy.

2007-02-01 11:33:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seven months of dating - in public no less! We made big plans for the future. He wined and dined me - flowers to the office and the whole bit! When I had a scare that I was pregnant I thought he'd take it ok. That's when he said he was married! I verified this - he still lives with her! I wasn't pregnant and of course now he wants to continue our relationship. The sad thing is, I still love him. Advice, please.

2007-02-01 11:32:02 · 29 answers · asked by DPL06351 5

A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He told me I was too werd.

2007-02-01 11:31:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy and i use2 b friends, like we talked ALL THE TIME!!! Then i started to like him, and things got weird. He doesn't talk 2 me, and IF he looks @ me, and i look back, he quickly looks at the floor, or off somewhere else. I'm pretty sure he knows i like him, but i'm not sure if he feels the same way that i do. Does he like me, or is he just one of those shy guys?

2007-02-01 11:30:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-01 11:30:00 · 12 answers · asked by seeluv 2

I have been single for 4 years by choice. I am 28. I seem to have a negative feed on guys. I am attracted to them, but when it comes to wanting friends, I really think that guys which just go off and do guy things and I will get bored and wish that i didn't get myself in to that situation. I guess its all about balance, but I find it hard compromising for someone now, unless I think I truly love. Maybe its because its been so long since I have been a relationship, I forget what its like and wonder if it was all that. I just think that they disclude you eventually. Any positive incites or different opinions?

2007-02-01 11:29:11 · 9 answers · asked by Leigh J 1

2007-02-01 11:29:10 · 7 answers · asked by sweetpea_83 1

this girl is my friend and is dating my good friend he is a crappy boyfriend and i have to help him alot but he doesnt have any guts! I like the girl hes dating, we talk on the phone more than her and her boyfriend. I really like her but i dont want to ruin our friendship so confronting wont work
What Should I do? Girls help!?:)

2007-02-01 11:28:46 · 3 answers · asked by JL39 2

What will you do for that SPECIAL one?
Seriously guys! How do you plan to make it a day of LOVE!
I would love to hear! Especially from you ITALIAN Men!

2007-02-01 11:28:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does that make me a jerk?

2007-02-01 11:27:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl dumped me but now is calling me and wants to be friends and see what happens. I have no idea what to do. I take her calls sometimes and call her back some other. I did go to lunch with her the other day. Here is my question.....I don't know how to read her. I don't know if she has put me on the backburner or if there is anyone else she likes. She says there isn't. How would you react to this situation? Would you just be friends or would you walk away? I have no idea if I am being strung around. Will I ever know? Should I just play it cool and take my emotions out of it? Just see what happens? What signs should I look out for? Just pull back more? Please help!!!

2007-02-01 11:21:38 · 9 answers · asked by D 1

we went out for a while. then we both were mad and we acted without thinking. 2 weeks later, he asks me out again. sum of my friends say that i should say no because of the way he treated me (which wasn't really bad) but others say that i should say yes because i still luv him.

2007-02-01 11:20:59 · 17 answers · asked by travelsized29 2

im lesbian and there is this girl i was dating for like a year and a half and we have been having alot of problems i dont think i trust her anymore and she doesnt trust me.
she says she isnt on drugs any more but i doubt thats true i love her and she loves me but we are both pretty young still so ya our most recent problem she is telling my friend she is gonna beat her up and she is like twice as big as her and im scared i told her not to but she tells me if i loved her i wouldnt take my friends side over hers and my friend is scared also plus me and her never see eachother except late at night and we have sex then go to sleep lately it has just been going to sleep but ya we broke yesterday she said she has another girlfriend now but then she asked me out and i think im going to say yes would that be stupid of me if so how do i say no?

2007-02-01 11:20:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've dated this girl...and i loved her. but at the end it didn't work...it didnt work only because this guy, dean. i tryed to be his friend for along time now only because someone made me promised to be. but he cheated me out of everything, lied to me everytime we talked. he steals from me...and then he broke me and that girl up i never forgave him....well then i went out with another girl....and then i thougth maybe i should forgive him...well when i did.....hes trying to take her to...she said that she likes him more then a friend..and that he said that i was luckly to have her ( i am). she saids that she only likes him....but she loves me...and she would never do that...but idk i mean thats what my ex said to me.....i trust her but...idk. should i worry bout it? should i get mad? what the hell should i do?

2007-02-01 11:19:46 · 16 answers · asked by countryman 3

I think that I might be gay because everytime i see a hot dude taking off his shirt on tv or in magazine i get an erection. I don't think i'm gay because I have had sex with many girls and I love women but sometimes i have dreams about having anal sex with men, and even more disturbingly my family members. I've never had sex with a man (that I can recall) but I have gotten really drunk and I black out a lot. So tell me what you think. Am I gay?

2007-02-01 11:18:07 · 18 answers · asked by pheco 2

2007-02-01 11:18:02 · 5 answers · asked by m* 1

I met my g/f about a year ago, and she is the most beautiful woman I have ever met inside and out...but...she is somewhat inhibited. My life to date (sexually) is similar to an adult novel, and I have been a swinger for 17 years...until her and I started dating. I want to introduce her into male-female-male threesomes, not due to homosexual tendancies, but because seeing my g/f with another guy has always been stimulating for me, and I truly don't want another woman. She never seems to respond when I bring the idea up, and it gets swept under the rug. I also have heard her say "it is just sex", but when I bring swinging up, then it turns into something "gross". Just hoping more "reserved" people who have hidden wild sides might be able to help a guy who cares nothing about societal moral standards, and just wants to have adult fun with his conservative girl. What to do, what to do???

2007-02-01 11:16:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anderson J 1