A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He told me I was too werd.
2007-02-01 11:31:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What an as*hole! I think that he's taking advantage of the fact that you like him to try to get whatever he wants out of you.
I think that he keeps telling you that you're weird because he's either scared of what might happen, or he's scared that you'll tell people about what has happened. It doesn't look good for him. He seems really immature, not being able to be civil to a coworker over a small issue is ridiculously immature. And telling someone "You're weird" in an email (which could be shown to HR or the management is also very immature.
Watch out! I would not be suprised if he was telling your other colleagues that you're really strange etc etc, he might already be spreading rumours about you. If he is, just be extra nice to everyone and don't get involved in some school yard catfight.
Best of luck. I really hope everything works out for you, but I think you should just stay away from this guy (and don't put anything on paper like email!)
2007-02-01 11:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by Snow White 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it's not YOU who is weird, it's HIM. Tell him that you will 'keep' any further 'messages' he sends you on the computer and turn them over to a superior as 'harassment' if he sends you any more. Then 'forget him' and move on to a much better guy who will love you for who you are.
2007-02-01 12:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes playing games. dont even waste your time or energy.
2007-02-01 12:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by collegegyrl06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD GET REAL
2007-02-01 11:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by virgin52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋