there is a guy and he isnt physiclly attractive and he is really nice if i went out with him everyone would make fun of me. He says he would do anything for me and i am his best friend. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!
2007-02-01 11:33:06 · 20 answers · asked by k-la 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who are you living for you or your friends.? Date him and see how it works out. You may have the best time of your life. Plus remember this, your friends may be hating on you because you actually have a boyfriend. Do they have a man? If not, tell them to get one and stay out of your business.
2007-02-01 11:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by Sharisse F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give the boy a chance. You may find out he's really good in bed which seriously makes up for the unattractiveness. If after a month of dating him you still feel like you can't be attracted to him physically then it's not meant to be. As for your friends, if they are truly your friends and you tell them you really think this guy will treat you right they'll understand.
2007-02-01 19:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by kendal182006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is your best friend and would do anything for you then he'll keep being your Friend because he respects you. Would it be so bad to just keep it as your BF... Your questioning it so maybe he isn't "the one". Friends are hard to come by.. keep him just that :). It may ruin or change your friendship if you become something more... It shouldn't matter what my friends think if they new he'd make you happy, right? Good luck.
2007-02-01 19:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by anabanana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When did what anyone else think matters. You have gotto do what is best for you because at the end of the day you are only person who can make the decision to be happy. If this guy is what you want then go for it!!
2007-02-01 19:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no offence, but its not you that could do better but him that can do better, who cares what people think, you should be thank full that a guy is nice to you.
would you rather date this hot looking guy, that is a prick and will just end up breaking your heart or date a sweet caring guy who will look after you, i know which one i would rather,
its people like you that make this world ugly not everything is about what people look like,
fair enough if you don't have any feelings for him then don't date him be his good friend
but if you have feelings for him don't let what he looks like stand in the way of what you want,
listen to your heart not your head, friends or anything else
2007-02-01 19:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by Stephy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
looks dont matter. i wouldnt go out with a boy if they were cute even though some guys are but all u need is some one who loves u for u, someone who has a scence of humor, and some one with a big heart. i doesnt matter what ur friends think it is what u think.,
2007-02-01 19:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by jessi s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's really hard to be made fun of,but I've been in your situation. My last 2 boyfriends havne't been exactly, your Brad Pitt, but they were good to me and that's all that counts. Do what will make you happy, and don't think what other people will think.
2007-02-01 19:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Biz 8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what others think. If you know he is gonna be good for you than go for it. Looks fade over the years anyway!
2007-02-01 19:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him if you like him. WHO CARES WHAT OTHER PPL THINK?!?! If you really like him go out with him and everyone else can either deal with it or shove it. Good Luck.
2007-02-01 19:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him and stop being a selfish jerk.
Why do you care what others think of you?
It doesnt matter!
2007-02-01 19:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by S. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋