i've dated this girl...and i loved her. but at the end it didn't work...it didnt work only because this guy, dean. i tryed to be his friend for along time now only because someone made me promised to be. but he cheated me out of everything, lied to me everytime we talked. he steals from me...and then he broke me and that girl up i never forgave him....well then i went out with another girl....and then i thougth maybe i should forgive him...well when i did.....hes trying to take her to...she said that she likes him more then a friend..and that he said that i was luckly to have her ( i am). she saids that she only likes him....but she loves me...and she would never do that...but idk i mean thats what my ex said to me.....i trust her but...idk. should i worry bout it? should i get mad? what the hell should i do?
2007-02-01 11:19:46 · 16 answers · asked by countryman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let it go. Move on. You deserve better.
2007-02-01 11:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by D N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be mad at Dean. You should be mad at yourself. How many times is Dean going to have to screw you over before you get the picture. If you keep being friends with this guy then you deserve all the misfortune that comes along with being his friend. While it is healthy to forgive you will be a fool if you forget all the problems he has caused you. And guess what? It won't stop. As long as you continue to bring him around your girlfriends you will continue to have problems. The best thing for you to do is kick curb. If you don't you have only yourself to blame kid. This is the Caveman signing out and laying down his club. Oooh Yeahh!!!!!!
2007-02-01 11:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem pretty insecure my man!
You will run into many people like this in your life, but you cannot live your life worrying. If your girl is telling you this, that means she does not really care about your feelings. A relationship is based on respect, honesty, and trust. If you're lacking trust, it's time to move on.
And, get rid of that dude, you definitely do not want him in your life. Stand up and stop the bleeding!
2007-02-01 11:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by sweetwat3rmelon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a friend I "USED" to have. I would forgive him but move on. He sounds like he is destroying your life. I wouldnt trust him or her either. There are plenty of friends out there. I would be angry but those kind of decieving people want you to be hurt and angry so just let them go. Thats what I did.
2007-02-01 11:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by kimberley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find urself another girl, that one just doesnt seem loyal. When you have a wife, or a girlfriend that really cares she would tell u that she loves u. She wouldnt say that she even LIKES some1. It should be about YOU and HER. and ONLY u and her.
I hope i helped. good luck
2007-02-01 11:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by wtfff =3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get a clue.
stop being a push-over, passive, idiot, and stop being friends with jerks and going out with girls that think they are better than you.
If need a make over or something then ask a friend who is a girl and a gay boy and they can help you.
2007-02-01 11:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for this other guy. Then, pray for yourself. I would confront your recent gf if she says that she likes him. It's wrong to be going out w/ some1, & like another. Don't be mad, just be concerned.
2007-02-01 11:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by Chaniqua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk to her
u no, butter her up
ask her out face to face
if she hesitates, then maybe you should ask her about it
that guy is soo not yur friend
i think that if u love her and she loves u, u wont have a prob
2007-02-01 11:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the heck away from that so called friend! he is no friend! take your girl and get away!never talk or say anything more to this guy! he is a user he is using you to get girls! no contact with him whatsoever or you will get hurt again and again until you can't live with yourself!
2007-02-01 11:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him and confront him... it is important to him to know who you feel because if not, how will he know he's doing wrong? If he doesn't react to that, the you should forget about him
2007-02-01 11:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres something going on.... and for that guy beat him and kick him out he aint no friend. don't trust the girl either!
2007-02-01 11:24:31 · answer #11 · answered by realismael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋