This girl dumped me but now is calling me and wants to be friends and see what happens. I have no idea what to do. I take her calls sometimes and call her back some other. I did go to lunch with her the other day. Here is my question.....I don't know how to read her. I don't know if she has put me on the backburner or if there is anyone else she likes. She says there isn't. How would you react to this situation? Would you just be friends or would you walk away? I have no idea if I am being strung around. Will I ever know? Should I just play it cool and take my emotions out of it? Just see what happens? What signs should I look out for? Just pull back more? Please help!!!
2007-02-01 11:21:38 · 9 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man, i been in ur exact same shoes! its not gonna work just as frendz. u just need to walk away and move on, let her learn from her mistakes and if she wants to be with u then let it be, but if she just wanna be frendz but see other people at the same time, ur just gonna keep hurting urself. i know what ur going thru. its all or nothing. theres no half way point.
2007-02-01 11:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the real question is : do you want to spend more time with her? How do you feel about the fact that she dumped you?
If I'd have been dumped, I guess she would be the last person in the world I would want to spend time with.
I don't think such relationships are healthy. In my opinion, you should walk away. She might not now what she wants, but that doesn't mean you have to stick around her.
If she really wants you back, she'll come back crawling. You'll have all the signs you need then.
2007-02-01 11:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok your problem is do you still like her? If you do then that will be why your still hanging out with her and thats why you want to be "Just Friends". I pretty much think that you still have feelings for this girl and that you need to talk to her and tell her how you still feel about her, but since she was the one who dumped you, she is most likely messy around with your mind, EX's seem to do that alot.
BD
2007-02-01 11:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Black Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to me, I mean I'm a girl and theres this one guy tried to court me and I'm not ready tho I don't like him to be my BF but I wanna be friend with him coz he's just too nice "personality wise" not just nice to me. I wanna be friend with him it's not coz I wanna see what will happen next but just to keep him with me as I want him to be part of me ( friend). If she is a nice girl then why not be friend with her, it's not always what u feel towards someone you expect she or he will feel the same to you. Just try something different may be you will "click" as friends, may be she will become your friend for life.
See the value. Set aside your feelings.
Things happens for a reasons.
And theres always one for us in the right place and in a right time.
It pays to wait or good things happens to those who waits.
2007-02-01 11:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by backward_thinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ultimate reaction is not any reaction. enable him say despite he needs to assert to make himself sense greater like a 'guy'. needless to say u see that he's a low existence. If he keeps contacting u, substitute ur variety/email.
2016-10-16 10:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would walk away, because this is nothing more than game playing. You do not need the emotional stress. You don't need her screwing with you.
2007-02-01 11:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by david w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ok.... im friedns wit 2 of my ex b'f's but i doubt anything is gonna happen like i trust him soooo much n like we trust each other alot n we still talk bout relationships wit other bf's or gf's but yeah.... n like yeah....... we have no intentions or nething... but yeah.... sumtimes tehy could goo back sooo yeah... but i mean if thiz girl still acts how she acts when u were goin then i think she still likes u n broke up wit u.... 2 make her look cooler lol but yeah..........n like if u still like her... try to like be kool, n like show her wat she dumped... that b**ch jk!!!! but yeah... just do that!!!! LOL
2007-02-01 11:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by tAkiiN liFe aSz iT cOmEs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes u!
2007-02-01 11:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is trying to gain control over you.
2007-02-01 11:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by Peachie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋