seriously, y do u think that? im plenty faithful, and so is almost every guy i know. i admit, there are a few players out there, but most guys are more faithful than u girls give us credit for!1 why??
why dont u trust us?
2007-02-01 11:35:27 · 24 answers · asked by Food For Thought 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
usually we get hurt by guys cheating on us so we think that all guys will cheat on us. ur right, its not fair to other guys, but mainly its just an excuse to be scared of going into a realashonship.
2007-02-01 11:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, which faithful guys??? Studies from all over the world support the idea that men tend to cheat more than women and that many men in fact do cheat. This doesn't mean necessarily a man who has been dating or has been married for only a few years. It seems to be the longevity of the relationship that relates to the higher chance of unfaithfulness. Therefore, you might not be a cheater now...but you will be! No, seriously, men as a group do continue to have a lousy track record on this on, both in popular culture and research. So it is likely that many women have issues trusting any man, whether it is fair or not.
2007-02-01 11:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Not Your Muse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have gotten some unfaithful ones who just can leave it alone! I still believe there are good faithful guys out there somewhere-but most of them are married and i don't want one of those. It is not your fault if a woman is not ready to trust and put their faith in someone else yet. Don't blame her either. She is no less valuable then those girls who as of yet have had no bad experiences If i had a good marriage my man would be loved well. I will have to be ready first and i may never be not even in another life time. I will leave you with this thought we are all only human.
2007-02-01 11:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo dude I have met SO many women that have been battered, beaten and bruised in the past by ex-lovers it's almost beyond belief, to hell with the ***holes out there, word soon gets about as to what they're like so thats when you as a Gentleman has to step in. I was once told the we're a rare breed. I agree with what the Ladies here have said, it's all to do with the past. Not all women think ill of men.
2007-02-01 11:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Granted you are right, but it's the unfaithful guys that make women think that way. So blame it on them. They do things to make women not trust anyone, and that is why it is so hard for the faithful ones. But you can't give up on a woman because she thinks you are unfaithful.....prove her wrong. It'll get better soon as they get rid of the unfaithful men.
2007-02-01 11:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If women kept their legs closed,there would be more faithful guys around.I was always faithful,just managed to pick a bunch of Ho's to be with.Bad roll models as parents don't give you good character base to work from.So,then made really bad choices.
I have found a great women now,Thank God.If your male or female and your a Ho,you have to look at yourself in the mirror.
2007-02-01 11:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well join the club. Im a good woman and all those ho's ruined our image. I must say, if you find your mate in a club or bar then.. hummm.. that says alot! Meet someone in church, laundry mat or grocery store, mall or public place other than player hang outs.
Sorry man but your attracting the women who are using that for an excuse to not stay with you. Im faithful and my husband has issues from his ex being unfaithful so she ruined him for me. But I understand his insecurities in that area. I feel for ya! Good luck and I hope you find "the right one".
2007-02-01 11:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by anabanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most woman that think men aren't faithful have been played, so you have to prove that you are faithful before they will trust you, when someones trust is broken in the opposite sex then it's the entire group that suffers, don't let it get you down if you're as faithful as you say you are you'll prove yourself in no time.
2007-02-01 11:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by Rusty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is earned. I will trust a guy until he proves me otherwise. If I'm told by someone else he's a player, sure I'll be more cautious, but I will give him the benefit of the doubt until he proves me otherwise.
major kudos to all you guys who are faithful!!
2007-02-01 11:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not a woman but from a guy's standpoint i will give you my adivce. have you ever heard the saying "it only takes a few rotten apples to spoil the whole bunch."? well same thing with the way women look at men. the bad ones ruin it for us good ones. it is not fair but it is the way it is. it is up to the good guys to show the girls that there are good people out there. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-01 11:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We do not think that all guys are unfaithful there are some who are faithful and i hope i have one or he will go out with the trash.
2007-02-01 11:48:13 · answer #11 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋