Singles & Dating - 1 February 2007

My boyfriend and I have issues that can't seem to be resolved...so I'm here...

One...he said he feels uncomfortable confronting me when he wants time to be with his friends instead of me. I don't believe I've ever given him a reason to feel this way. I have no problem with time away from eachother...he is never assertive...he never let's me in on what it is he really wants...but talks about his fears!!! It makes me feel bad..so over the last two days...I've asked for "time off" and he's given it to me. I talked with him today and he tells me that he's not used to it yet!!! I'm assuming he's talking about seeing eachother less...it sounds like this is something he wants!!! I feel that I was the one who had to take action by asking for seperate time in order to keep him from resenting me. What do you think about this?!?

2007-02-01 10:33:53 · 5 answers · asked by Rebekah Heller 1

I met him like a little more than 3 weeks ago and i met him through a friend when we where all hanging out one friday night. We had really good conversation with eachother and we were talking more with eachother then with the rest of our friends.
Then last weekend was the last time that I saw him when all of us went out to the club and I gave him a hug then he gave me a hug back and then later on we shared a very simple, platonic kiss, or at least that's what I think. We danced with each other for a little bit and after he drove me back to my car, but nothing happened.
I see him again this weekend, but i'm not sure if I should push the limits or just wait back and see if he does anything. I do like him but I don't know if I should tell him just now cause I just kinda met him and i don't know exactly what he feels. What should I do? How can I tell if he likes me?????
Any advice you give couold be used.
Thanx.

2007-02-01 10:33:14 · 3 answers · asked by drr0711 2

been sick?
woken up after a bad night?
had sex?

2007-02-01 10:32:39 · 5 answers · asked by Jamie Lynn 3

How hard is it to get a girl to fall in love with you, if the both of you haven’t had sex with each other? I’m an 18 year old virgin, I started dating girl when I was 17 years old, and I wanted to ask people with more experience thin me. How hard is it women to fall in love with a person she hasn’t had sex with?

2007-02-01 10:31:51 · 9 answers · asked by Hore M 1

I was with this girl for over 3 years not knowing i was ever gonna get that far in the first place cause it started what seemed to be a one night stand. ive slept with over 40 women beforehand. Now 3 years later..its over. i was faithful..very loving..caring..protective. I have never felt true love til her. i never did anything as special for a women as i did for her. jewerly.dinner.vacations. Now that its over and it seems there is no chance of us again. How do i get over this? Its been over a month since we seperated. i dont eat as much anymore..ive lost over 40lbs. i have no will to work. no will to get up in the morning. cant sleep. huge anxioity issue. always depressed.. Yet, she did me wrong and i should feel hatred. she leaves me for my best friend and i still want her back WHAT THE HELL?

2007-02-01 10:31:17 · 14 answers · asked by veryconfused 1

what do you miss the most about being in a relationship or having a lover/husband/wife/bf/gf/whatever....and what dont you miss at all?...on balance would you rather find someone ...or stay single...;0)

2007-02-01 10:31:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

cuz i feel lik im the only georgian person here.

2007-02-01 10:29:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think im in love with this boy in my class ,i dont know why ,
he makes me laugh , i make him laugh obiviously were perfect to be with each other can ya help me?

2007-02-01 10:29:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-01 10:29:01 · 6 answers · asked by Chelley 1

My boyfriend and I have been dating long distance for 6 months. I live in VA and he lives in SC and we could see each other once a month. Now he is in college (I am too) and it's his first time and it's in TN so it's farther away. The other night we got in an argument (we usually fight about little things) and he said maybe we should break up. But then later he said "well I don't know, I'm just confused" and he keeps saying he has to concentrate cuz he's never had to do so much at once (he was really lazy before). I said I haven't been bothering you and he said yea I just have to focus on me now. But, he said he's still coming for Valentine's Day and he still says I love you at the end of our conversations. I'm just confused about what he really wants? Maybe just space I guess but then why would he still act the same way

2007-02-01 10:28:44 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah 4

that i like, but her best friend is obbsessd with me. if i ask the girl i like out, they will both end up hating me. what should i do

2007-02-01 10:27:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-01 10:27:07 · 14 answers · asked by midnight_star_chaser 3

From a virgins perspectives it seems painful but i want to try it to have fun?? Any answers??

2007-02-01 10:25:53 · 14 answers · asked by Rachel * 2

i talk to girl about 4 months sth like that u know eachother welll &she told me she like me as a friend only & she told me as she have a home page my space that she is is here just for friend ship see i send her a romantic trick smart peom
at last i said who this gir l i think she will say its me she says i hope it is not me this divide me crazy
i like her & i want to appoach her i think she dont want why i am so kind & nice with her all time she say u are so nice person i meet wat did u think wat else can i do? i admire her really
she told me weell i send this love peom she says i don't feel the same way about you. i told you loads of times that i was here for friendship only and that i don't want a boyfriend for at east two years yet.so it can't be me i dont want to be her bf i want her more than a friendddddddddddd wat suppose to ddddddoo:(((((((((((((((((( i was sonfused felt deprresseed plzz help meeeeeeeeeeeee guys :(

2007-02-01 10:25:40 · 3 answers · asked by totyplay_2005 1

I finally opened my eyes after six months of being totally played by someone I really cared about. I have spent so much time listening to this man talk about how he wants to change his life, how much he cares about me, wants to be with me etc... only to find out it's all a load of sh*t....
I have just been the latest in a pattern of people he has taken advantage of.
I am so hurt!! I mean, I slept with this guy, (at least it was good!)
and he's turned out to be a lying jerk.
I know it is immature, and probably not the healthiest--- but I want to make him feel as bad as I do....
Even if that's not possible, how do I not look stupid? How can I get a little dignity back?
Right now I feel dumb for believing his sh*t, caring so much, and giving him awesome love when he was only using me.
How do I look like the stronger/smarter one?

2007-02-01 10:25:03 · 1 answers · asked by smarty 2

we have only been dating about 4 months......nothing expensive any ideaS?

2007-02-01 10:24:07 · 6 answers · asked by s0ftballchic2oo9 2

I am a 25 year old female and I am in a wonderful relationship with my fiancee, I am very sexually active but he's never in the mood to do anything, he never makes love to me or even touches me, but he tells me everyday how much he loves me and how beautiful I am. Tells me how good I smell and how good I look, currently he's not working and neither am I, we spend our days together, same routine over and over. He turns me on so much, that I find through the days I want him to make love to me, I sometimes ask and sometimes just make moves on him, alot of the times when we do have sex is when I make all the moves.. Is there something wrong with me, why doesn't he want to have sex with me. Should I give up on sex all together, he's only 21 years old, maybe he doesn't like sex. Is there anything out there that I can take that will decrease my sexual desires, please help me

2007-02-01 10:23:24 · 25 answers · asked by Daisy S 1

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 9 months. Today is my 15th birthday, but he forgot. I saw him this morning while walking into school, for 15 minutes he said nothing about my birthday. Then, while waiting in the hallway, a friend of mine came up to me and gave me a gift and told me happy birthday. Then, when another friend stood near us, he turned to her and said, "it's her birthday. you should say happy birthday," acting like he knew and everything. He didn't even get me anything, and he wouldn't admit he forgot (but i didn't directly ask him, it was just obvious). Is it my fault that i didn't remind him? For his birthday i gave him a gift worth apprx. $30. I know he knew when my birthday was (or at least I'm pretty sure) but i didnt remind him. Should i have? What do i do now? Im not really that mad, but I sort of am. I mean, nine whole months should mean something to him. Im mostly just sad. Agh. Idk. Girls and guys answers are appreciated. Thanks.

2007-02-01 10:22:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-01 10:22:25 · 7 answers · asked by xoxoJESSICAxoxo 2

I mean, often when I flirt with a girl, she'll giggle and laugh and giggle s'more. Sometimes what I say isn't even funny but they still giggle uncontrollably.

Sometimes I'll have them giggling so long that anything I say after a while elicits uncontrollable giggling. It's like they're drunk or something.

What does this mean??

2007-02-01 10:22:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to know what to do with out asking him out myself
what have you done
he always looks at me with a little smile .
>not like something is in my teeth or on my face
today he looked more interested in me then ever.

2007-02-01 10:21:52 · 11 answers · asked by godschild 5

i like a girl but i think shes gay and keeping a lot of secrets from me. she doesnt want to be close or anything and i feel like its breaking my heart cause she could at least let me know whats going on in her life. how can i get over her and forget about it? what should i do or what should i say to her?

2007-02-01 10:21:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

wht's tht supposed to mean ?

2007-02-01 10:20:03 · 4 answers · asked by Adnan A 1

2007-02-01 10:19:20 · 7 answers · asked by ~* Confussed *~ 1

Things men will like to get

2007-02-01 10:19:08 · 3 answers · asked by melissa_marie004 2

this guy at my school always turns around in math class 2 talk 2 me (usually something he knows will bug me) but sometimes i catch him lookin at me. if he asked me out i'd say yes but i'm afraid 2 make the first move cuz i might be wrong. how do i kno when he's flirtin wit me cuz my friends r convinced he always does but i don't understand how they can tell...if they're right.

2007-02-01 10:18:45 · 13 answers · asked by ally 2

i boy friends keeps breaking up with me every night calls me names for about a hour or so and then finally takes me back.i dont want to get hurt any more but i dont want to loose him what should i do about this? :(

2007-02-01 10:18:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-01 10:17:25 · 15 answers · asked by Sexy T 1

i really like this guy. hes two grades in school above me but he is the oldest in his grade and im the youngest in mine so there is 4 years age difference between us. we both like eachother, and have the same interests and so much in common but he told my friend that it would be awkward since he is that much older than me. i dont understand why this is and i am seriously like in love with this boy so how do i get him to see that i can be mature?

2007-02-01 10:16:29 · 29 answers · asked by luvguitar432 1

2007-02-01 10:15:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous