From a virgins perspectives it seems painful but i want to try it to have fun?? Any answers??
2007-02-01 10:25:53 · 14 answers · asked by Rachel * 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sex is wonderful and a lot of fun, but it often does hurt the first time, especially for girls. it is bound to hurt even more if there is not serious physical contact before having sex as well. it is best to fool around a lot with a person for a quite awhile before starting to have sex, but it doesn't take much time for it to become worth all the pain... so i have heard... = )
2007-02-01 10:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by Revel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a little "uncomfortable", but not so much PAINFUL.
The important thing is to be relaxed when it happens and don't expect much. The first time usually sux....practice makes...well, just know it will get to be more fun eventually.
Use a condom and all that....not only for std's, but as my aunt said to me as I was giving birth to my first child" It feels a lot better when the baby goes in than it does when the baby comes out".
2007-02-01 18:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by AuntTater 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For many people it does hurt physically. Don't jump into it lightly, because it can be painful emotionally if you give yourself to someone who doesn't deserve it.
"Trying it to have fun" seems like a pretty silly reason to have sex. Be careful!
2007-02-01 18:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by p_i_turtle_sanders 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My gf was a virgin. She hurt quite a bit the first time but after a few times it will be fun.
The first time you should take it for what it is. Then focus on the enjoyment, but be safe!
2007-02-01 18:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'll hurt when he first goes in, and then after that it's not so bad. But after that first time, it's all fun from there. It doesn't even hurt as bad as you think it will.
2007-02-01 18:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For most women, yes, it's gonna hurt the first time. Maybe the first few times.
2007-02-01 18:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still remember the first time I had sex - it was late at night, it was dark, I was scared, I was all alone.
My first time did not hurt at all.
2007-02-01 18:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by Rickey W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first time i lost my virginity it hurt really badd ! but it qets better & it`s fun =)..
2007-02-01 19:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by Maya.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are such horny a$$es.... YEah, it hurts, but after a while it's worth it...
2007-02-01 18:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no when my penis went in the lubricant was really nice (though i reckon it hurts a girl though).
2007-02-01 18:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by Exterminator 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋