i boy friends keeps breaking up with me every night calls me names for about a hour or so and then finally takes me back.i dont want to get hurt any more but i dont want to loose him what should i do about this? :(
2007-02-01 10:18:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is called verbal abuse. Often leads to worse things. You need to get out before something happens.
If he loved you , or even cared about you, he would not treat you that way. He has a low self esteem and is trying to reduce you below his level. he wants to control you. Go find someone having fun doing something you like.
And one more thing... Leopards don't change their spots. It will not get any better than it is now. By staying you are condoning his actions. Don't wait to hit rock bottom.
2007-02-01 10:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving him the upper hand. You were born without him. So you can live without him. Tell him how little he is for trying to belittle you. And never let him know the name calling bothers you. Act like you don't need him and see were that gets you. No man likes a push over. The meaner you are to a man the more they love you. I know how backwards that sounds but Im living proof. Can't tell you things I've done. Too much incriminating evidence.
2007-02-01 18:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by lil Trouble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if the guy calls you names and keeps breaking up with you and so on HE'S HAVING A POWER TRIP! Break up with him don't take him back and find somebody who deserves your sweetness, and doesn't act like a moron.
2007-02-01 18:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you said you don't want to get hurt anymore, so why put up with it?...then you said you don't want to lose him, so tell him how you feel and let him know that you don't like the way he talks to you, and if you really want to get his attention tell him your willing to break up with him if it continues, NO ONE should have to deal with someone who hurts them. and the next time he breaks up with you Just don't let him back inot your life.Soon enough, he'll see what he had. Hope I helped
2007-02-01 18:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose him anyway. Life sux and thats how it goes sometimes. Things are supposed to hurt before they heal and eventually you will find someone else that treats you alot better.
2007-02-01 18:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by hotmoma_37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... wowie... ok... well I would tell him, "If your going to talk s*** about me and then want to be with me again... I'd rather not let you be with someone like me in your life" then you'll take him back and he'll stop. Or I'd make him stop. Threaten him and tell him if he keeps doing that, then he couldn't be with me any more and I'll ruin his reputation = ) Good Luck! = )
2007-02-01 18:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the jerk. He's sick, and you could become even sicker trying to hang onto him.
There are lots more fish in the sea. Find one who is stable and treats you right.
2007-02-01 18:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well nobody deserves to be treated like that so tonight when he does it just say ok and hang up on him.
There is someone out there that will treat you nice.
Good luck!
2007-02-01 18:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by Christie G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he keeps breaking up next time he does it make a really big deal about and he'll learn not to do it anymore
2007-02-01 18:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by The A Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love should NEVER hurt! Therefore, as much as you may like this idiot... I would say - break up with him!
2007-02-01 18:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by Glory 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋