My boyfriend and I have issues that can't seem to be resolved...so I'm here...
One...he said he feels uncomfortable confronting me when he wants time to be with his friends instead of me. I don't believe I've ever given him a reason to feel this way. I have no problem with time away from eachother...he is never assertive...he never let's me in on what it is he really wants...but talks about his fears!!! It makes me feel bad..so over the last two days...I've asked for "time off" and he's given it to me. I talked with him today and he tells me that he's not used to it yet!!! I'm assuming he's talking about seeing eachother less...it sounds like this is something he wants!!! I feel that I was the one who had to take action by asking for seperate time in order to keep him from resenting me. What do you think about this?!?
2007-02-01 10:33:53 · 5 answers · asked by Rebekah Heller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him. Don't waste your yout time. I had this problem I stayed never worked out. Looking back on it I stayed too long, I should've just ended it as soon as I noticed things I didn't like, I didn't even learn anything except that it was a waste of time, when I could've been more productive.
2007-02-01 10:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by 00666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hardly said anything at all. He's either extremely timid or hiding something. Yes, you have to be assertive and find out what's going on. Otherwise dump him.
2007-02-01 18:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by pr3tty_grrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut through all of the B.S. He ain't got it for you. He ain't gonna Love you. Why would you wanna stoop to his level. You need to feel Love. Keep looking. Just try finding it with your Heart. It knows what's best. You can do it. Trust me!
2007-02-01 18:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably move on it seems that he is finding excuses and when men do that its time to move on and give him all the space he wants.
2007-02-01 18:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he choses 2 b with his freinds instead of u yea he's a waste of time
2007-02-01 18:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by Restricted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋