i like a girl but i think shes gay and keeping a lot of secrets from me. she doesnt want to be close or anything and i feel like its breaking my heart cause she could at least let me know whats going on in her life. how can i get over her and forget about it? what should i do or what should i say to her?
2007-02-01 10:21:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you need to respect her and not be upset because she doesn't confide in you; have you ever thought that maybe she's just not ready to do that? You could just let her know that you're there for her anytime she wants to talk or just hang out - why do you need to rush into something that you have no control over. If she doesn't want to share her secrets, she doesn't have to...be patient, she'll come around.
2007-02-01 10:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by mauinei34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her whats up, if she doesnt have an asnwer, dont waste oyur time. remember. there are MILLIONs of fish in the sea, ones who will love you back the way you deserve. you sound like a sweetie, what worked for me was to physically list, on paper, all of the other's flaws. things that you dont like. it makes them seem less supieror. post it where you can see it. and go out and do things with your buddies and meet people. youll forget in no time theres a ton of amazing people out there, just dont be naive to them. take off the blinders. this chicks crazy !
2007-02-01 10:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by CoolBeanz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do other things and dont think about
eventually the feelings will pass and yoou will move on
2007-02-01 10:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by THAT GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time but try doing other things which keeps your mind distracted. good luck
2007-02-01 10:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋