Singles & Dating - 22 January 2007

We were coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she walks behind me and pats me on the head and saids hey. I gave this girl this crush note, well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty hazel eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me or she was just playing games with me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. "If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. "Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it." She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls "If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better." He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
The female employers say she a flirter. I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days, but I went today. And I heard her and her friend saying she got a new job where her boyfriend works at. She was talking to her friend right by me so I can hear this. I waited to see if she would talk to me instead of me trying to talk to her, but she didn't she ignore me and I ignore her. I was talking to this other girl who was a new student and she walk past us, but ignore us like we weren't there. So when I was about to leave she got out of class saw me and turn around and called her friend to come here then I left cause my ride was here. What do you think that meant? So we haven't seen each other in a week, but I will see her tomorrow at school in class. Should I try and talk to her or let her come to me? I'm thinking about talking to the new student who goes there now. Not to make the girl I like jealous, but get to know the new girl and see if I like her, but what if the girl I like starts to do something about it? I don't know what to do? I still kinda like this girl, but I just don't want her to get mad for talking to another girl to see if I like her or not. I went to school today and I think the new girl is takin. This guy sat by her and talk to her all through class. But the girl I like was trying to figure out why I been ignoring for the past 2 weeks? I heard her and her friend talking about me. All I heard was her saying is "why is he ignoring me for. I was nice to him" she said. So she kinda tried and get my attention I was walking behind her and she turn around and see if I was looking at her. I didn't look at her I look straight down the floor. So she turns her head around and saids I for got something and tries to bump into me. That was that. So i'm playing hard to get so how long do I do this? Will she try and talk to me or she expects me to make some eye contact with her or something? Sorry for the long question

2007-01-22 07:12:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel totally betrayed by him, he just now decided to admit he has cheated on me. And based on what he told me, he has never been completely faithful to me since we have been together. My feelings are all over the place. I dont want to be with him. But we have a 3 yr old child. What should i do? He says he wants to be with me and that he is in love with me. I dont think he knows what love is, because you dont treat people you love like that.

2007-01-22 07:11:46 · 27 answers · asked by Jackeeeee 3

he is 30 and i am 22,we are planning to get married next year,but he already as two kids.should i still get married to him.i love him so much and he loves me too.

2007-01-22 07:11:12 · 14 answers · asked by marsha w 2

2007-01-22 07:10:29 · 18 answers · asked by brittany_michelle_3 1

Two years ago, I was supposed to pee in a cup, but I refused 'cause it's nasty and whatnot, and I didn't have to pee at all.

How long does it take to get marijuana out of your system? If I start smoking marijuana today, how long will it get out until February comes, or can I cheat the "system". Lol.

Or can I refuse? Because I refused last time, so can I refuse this time? Sometimes I don't have to pee anyways, so can I ask to do it another time like two more months or next month like.. March?

No need for any lectures, I just need an answer with no extras in it like "THAT'S BAD", etc.

Will they get mad if I refuse or like, force me to piss? 'cause i'll surely kick the doctor's *** if he dares makes me pee or embararss. I don't care if i'm embarrassed right now because i'm using an anonymous screen name.

Thanks, just a good answer.. No extrass.

Like a hamburger.. no onions.

OR PANCAKES.. NO SYRUP. (I don't like syrup)

2007-01-22 07:09:16 · 4 answers · asked by Esteban D 1

me and my ex have known each other for almost 2 years and within that amount of time we had good times n bed times well somethings happened and doesnt want to believe anything i say and that hurts me alot. when i tell him i love him he says he loves me too but at times he acts like i dont care about him or love him so im jus wondering how i can ever show him i really care for him and love him dearly cause i do

2007-01-22 07:09:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

cant please their men, and they get mad when the men find women that can do the job right?

2007-01-22 07:07:54 · 16 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2

2007-01-22 07:07:54 · 3 answers · asked by bkgrl718 3

I entered into a relationship that I thought was meant to be and was asked to invest in a business opportunity that i willingly did, but half way through the business venture, i became the ex...I have sent him a letter from my attornery, but i don't have the $ to pursue a law suit and he maintains that he will and has always intended to pay me back. We continue to talk but he has a GF and i have to heal my heart from the bad choices i have made, yet i want ot make sure i collect this is not a few hundred dolllars that i can chuck to the wind as a bad experience.

2007-01-22 07:07:16 · 8 answers · asked by vogue69 1

well, im going to start off by saying i love my boyfriend.
ive learned the fine line between obsession and love
and there is no doubt in my mind i love him

im 19
hes 20

ive known him for a little over two years
we dated on and off for one

but he cheated on me before with his ex gf who he had been going out with for 2 yrs b4.

i was so angry and bitter at first,cheating wasnt ok but then i figured he felt the way about her as i did about him

i thot about him everyday for the next half of a year... and apparently he did two because he shows up saying sorry and how he understands if i never talk to him

him and his ex broke up
but i didnt buy it at 1st but i really did miss him so we started to be friends
and of course i loved him and i wanted to be with him so i gave him a 2nd chance
i culd write the book on "when bfs cheat" and my boyfriend doenst show any of the signs, yet im scared hel do it again. i cant live w/o him but i hate being so scared. what shuld i do?

2007-01-22 07:06:29 · 11 answers · asked by kissablenquiet14 1

2007-01-22 07:06:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend and her boyfriend went on a "break" for a week and her boyfriend, who ive always been good friends with, started caling me and taking me out to lunch. The reason they went on a break was because she thought that me and her boyfriend had something going on but at the time, we didnt. Then after the break, i slept with him two times. I was also in a relationship when I slept with him. Neither my "now" ex boyfriend or my best friend know that I slept with this guy and me and this girl are still best friends. Can you give me some insight on this situation please?

2007-01-22 07:05:55 · 15 answers · asked by Holly g 1

In middle school there is so much drama and i hate the crap how can you ingore all the stuff when you have low self a steam

2007-01-22 07:05:45 · 3 answers · asked by michele 1

ok so my ex and I broke up officially like 3 weeks ago at first we barely talked lately shes been calling more and she even asked me y don't I call as much she thinks I have moved on (which I havent) but weneva I ask her does she want me to b wit me she tels me no. I dont think its true because she tol me las night that she isnt dating anyone I wondered y wud it matter if she really moved on. I mean I dont know wat to do because I feel connected to her and I think she still wants me

2007-01-22 07:04:22 · 10 answers · asked by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3

are they all married or just jerks????

2007-01-22 07:03:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and My bf have been dating awhile.. and here lately he's changed a lil bit..He don't call like he used to and always wants to hang out at my house of his..he doesn't like to go out like he used to..But when were together he's really sweet....He's really nicer than he used to be especially when our friends are around..And well it's kinda bothering me about hows he's acting..I Really like him.. but I don't want to stay home all the time..I know this all sounds kinda childish but I don't want to overreact about this whole deal..What should I do and what is up with him?

2007-01-22 07:01:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom thinks we are too young to have a boyfriend, but I do anyway. So today, my friend asked me If I wanted to get ready for the dance together. Then right after, my boyfriend asked me if I wanted to go with him, and he'd pick me up at my house. But I'm not sure if my mom will let me go with him. And if I get ready alone, she'll think I have no firends. What should I do?????

2007-01-22 07:01:30 · 20 answers · asked by Sarah A 1

2007-01-22 07:00:17 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean she had the surgery. you never knew. you guys was intimate and all. finally you asked her to marry you and she says this. Yes! but before we go further you need to know something. and than she pulls out a picture that looks like her brother but its really her. What would you do? more importantly remember that you fell in love with this woman too. Gals you can answer too just think of it in reverse.

2007-01-22 06:59:08 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are on our early 30s, me (the guy), one day tried to help my girlfriend when she was having to buy a car to get rid of another one that was causing her problems since it was a lease, she was needing an extra $2,000.00 to what she was having to buy a car that she liked a lot. I didn't have the money, but I had the chance to get it through a line of credit (barely), so that's what I did, in order for her to get the one she liked a lot. Time after that, she started to pay me back a little bit later than what was expected. When she was going to make the first payment (partial payment), she prepared a form on where in one column she puts the amounts, 2 more columns with dates, and then another one where I have to put my signature. It looked weird to me being asked to sign something. When I gave her the money, I never asked her for any signature. She said that's the way things are being done, does this look like a simple situation that is to just keep track, or you can see other things?

2007-01-22 06:58:06 · 7 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3

My b/f's friend was talking about some kamasutra thing. (something like that) What is it?? He was saying that he thinks I could do everything in it. What did he mean?? He said this to me at one of my gymnastics meets.

2007-01-22 06:57:33 · 9 answers · asked by arabella 1

2007-01-22 06:57:08 · 7 answers · asked by monica p 2

i met this hot girl at the club and i tried asking her out. But unfortunately for me, i was rejected instantly. I still don't understand why i can't get over it. How do i move on and forget what happened..?

2007-01-22 06:56:49 · 34 answers · asked by Tim 2

MY LIFE SUCKS BECAUSE MY DAD IS KEEPING ME FROM MY BOYFRIEND AND TAHT SUCKS MY STEP MOM IS TALKING BAD ABOUT HIM AND IT GETS ME MAD I AM TRYING TO FIND A WAY TO SEE HIM THEY DONT EVEN KNOW HIM TO BE JUDGING HIM ON HOW HE IS I LOVE HIM ALOT IVE BEEN WITH HIM FOR A YEAR AND MY DAD STILL DONT KNOW WHO HE IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I DONT LIKE MY DAD AT ALL URG!!!!!

2007-01-22 06:56:42 · 13 answers · asked by happy mom of a Feb 2008 baby 1

See, I like this really cute guy.He told me that he likes me also,but im afraid to ask him out....He is like REALLY cute,nice,and smart.
I cant stop thinking about him! HELP!!!!

2007-01-22 06:54:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a very lucky guy when it comes to making female friends, but very unlucky romantically... so i was wondering if any1 has any advice on how to capture a lady's heart... or how not mess up things with the girl i like?

2007-01-22 06:54:18 · 18 answers · asked by karimauf 1

me and my ex BF broke up bcuz everybody told him that i wuz cheatin' on him with my other ex BF. I told him i love him and he said he luv me too but he wont go back out with me bcuz he's scared im gonna cheat on him again(which i neva cheated on him)

2007-01-22 06:54:16 · 6 answers · asked by sharayla c 1

We meet and talk and kiss all the time were together before he didn't want a relationship and he didn't want kids cause he's in the army and i moved on but it didn't work out with the other guy so now we started back meeting eachother and he mentioned he wants to have kids but he hasn't really said if were together or not

2007-01-22 06:53:57 · 1 answers · asked by butterfly2264 1

Are there any good jazz songs, old school or new, to make love to? Songs with lyrics would be appreciated! -Thanks

2007-01-22 06:53:17 · 10 answers · asked by ghostface30612 1

Short, overweight, but curvy.

Or

Tall, slim, athletic.

2007-01-22 06:52:36 · 13 answers · asked by Girl Nobody 2