ok so my ex and I broke up officially like 3 weeks ago at first we barely talked lately shes been calling more and she even asked me y don't I call as much she thinks I have moved on (which I havent) but weneva I ask her does she want me to b wit me she tels me no. I dont think its true because she tol me las night that she isnt dating anyone I wondered y wud it matter if she really moved on. I mean I dont know wat to do because I feel connected to her and I think she still wants me
2007-01-22 07:04:22 · 10 answers · asked by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she broke up with me we just really started back talking last week
2007-01-22 07:16:24 · update #1
Some girls break up with their men to make them grow up a little bit, or put a jolt of reality in them. I dont know if this is the case but it is there as an option. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years to see if he would ever change his ways or to see if it would make him want me more...but come to find out he did, but I waited too long and he moved on. You should tell her you love her and want to be with her, but if she still says she doesnt want to be with you, then you should definitly move on...it will only hurt more in the long run. In due time, she will realize what she did and try to come back to you...but you just need to let her go for now. Only time will tell, whatever should happen will happen...just give it time.
2007-01-22 07:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by sad red head 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's an honest answer =) I think it's time for you to move on. There was a reason why you guys aren't together anymore, and you are still going to have feelings because it just happened. Since you've asked her if she wants to be with you and she said "no", then that's your answer. She also sounds like she's into playing head games which is not good and very immature. But I think you'll do the right thing; let me know! Best wishes!
2007-01-22 15:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing all the facts of why you broke up (who's idea was it, and what happened) I would say she is probably trying to keep you hanging on. Meaning that she doesn't want to let you go, just in case she changes her mind at some future point, but she isn't interested in getting back together right now.
2007-01-22 15:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by Becky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reality is this: you will never know for sure what she wants. Sometimes we meet individuals in life who are very difficult to understand. Trust me on this one; if you feel like this person is the one, then just be patient. Only time can tell, my friend...
2007-01-22 15:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by juanjaycman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is telling you know, move on, as hard as it may be. tell her she can't have it all. if she is calling, there is still interest, but she is probably interested in someone else too. if she really wants to be with you, she will come back to you. just give it some time man, its tough.
2007-01-22 15:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by cardsfan420 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look you said you broke off with her...and girls who have their heart sbroken wont come in easily... maybe she's trying to make you see what you have lost and really haunt you.
2007-01-22 15:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything more pathetic than a man chasing a woman that doesn't want him.Get over it.
2007-01-22 15:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think she just doesn't want you to move on she likes the power she holds over you cause you still want her.
2007-01-22 15:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. It's the only way you will know for sure.
2007-01-22 15:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by KMChickk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes she does
2007-01-22 15:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by hu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋