i met this hot girl at the club and i tried asking her out. But unfortunately for me, i was rejected instantly. I still don't understand why i can't get over it. How do i move on and forget what happened..?
2007-01-22 06:56:49 · 34 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You get over it by picking yourself up, and go on to the next one. Don't sweat it, you can't win them all. Besides, maybe she was a lesbian... That's what I tell myself :)
2007-01-22 06:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well every no brings you closer to your yes. But I think that you are forgetting that women who go to clubs are not looking for a guy at the club to take home , or be a boyfriend. Why "YOUR AT THE CLUB" which means that you still out there like she is and thats not what she wants. besides that if she wanted to settle down she would not be clubbing alone. So the way over this is to go back out there and meet another woman same calibur as the woman in the club but this time make sure its somewhere like the beach or super market, or in traffice a casual place. that way you look honest and the woman cant judge you right off the back. after getting the number its up to you to get to 1st and 2nd and 3rd than home... so thats that... dont let that set back get you down... look on the bright side. It ended before there was heart ach and blood shed... on to the next one...
2007-01-22 07:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mama said if at first you don't succeed, try, try again. I think it's your ego that you are hung up with. Think about this way...what if you got rejected by Bigfoot butt ougoilobia. Would the rejection be less of jolt?
My advice is climb down off that cross, use the wood to build a bridge and get over it!
Party on
p.s. If every hot girl fell for you, then what would the rest of us do?
Peace
2007-01-22 07:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by JOHN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step is realizing that there are plenty of more hot girls out there. The second step is trying to meet one of those hot girls at a more appropriate place (ie: meeting a girl at the club usually means ur relationship won't last). A girl whom you meet at the library for example, will probably accept you for you, especially if you're smart. LOL The final step is recognizing your strengths. If you're a great poetic person, write a girl a poem.
2007-01-22 07:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll probably take longer then what you realized . all you need now is confidence booster go around a croud that do fing you interesting and charming and fine that will make you get over that hoe at the club easily. dont down yourself for one person or rejection its a part of life. whats not good for one person may be good for the other person so stay strong and get it together because im sure you're not the one with the problem its her! for not giving you a chance
2007-01-22 07:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by hollaatyagirlt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty girls are B****** clearly ugly girls are different. They feel ugly and want to be noticed by the world itself. You probably don't understand what it's like to live in the world of ugly. But it's horrible, ugly clears have good personality, something a hot guy or any guy would want to snuggle to. Not the looks personality.
2016-03-29 09:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there buddy. i've never had the guts to ask a girl out but I've liked plenty of them. I know 4 sum reason it can be hard to forget 1 or 2 every now & then. just do your best. Try to find someone else.
2007-01-22 07:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people want what they can't have so thats probably where your at right now. Just think of it as why would you want a stuck up girl anyway. She's the one who's missing out. And it probably won't be the first time or maybe it is your first time, but only time will tell.
2007-01-22 07:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by Marianita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of the event as a growing experience. What did you learn from the situation? Do you need to improve your approach, style, appearance, etc? Do you need to read articles about succeeding with women? That rejection may be the spark that puts you on a path to future success with women.
2007-01-22 07:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by Richguy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop the press!!! Chronic got rejected! And so what else is new? You're not the first nor the last to get rejected. You'll get over it!
2007-01-22 07:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get back on the horse and walk up to EVERY hot girl you see and try again. Its a numbers game here man.
2007-01-22 06:59:48 · answer #11 · answered by remailer000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋