My best friend and her boyfriend went on a "break" for a week and her boyfriend, who ive always been good friends with, started caling me and taking me out to lunch. The reason they went on a break was because she thought that me and her boyfriend had something going on but at the time, we didnt. Then after the break, i slept with him two times. I was also in a relationship when I slept with him. Neither my "now" ex boyfriend or my best friend know that I slept with this guy and me and this girl are still best friends. Can you give me some insight on this situation please?
2007-01-22 07:05:55 · 15 answers · asked by Holly g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You had an urge and you slept with him!
2007-01-22 07:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself and don't let it happen again...unless that's what you really want. I know people will probably say to tell your friend about the situation...but the last thing a "best friend" wants to hear is that her "bf" slept with her boyfriend. I would not even consider you my best friend or any kind of friend for that matter. What's done is done...
2007-01-22 07:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...lets see if I can muster up any "insight" for you................................................................
You are pretty trashy and a shitty best friend?
Sorry, that's the best I could muster up, hope it will do.
I know that's pretty harsh, but seriously what you did was harsh. What kind of friend are you if you sleep with her boyfriend?? And if they took a break because she was suspicious of y'alls behavior--you think that would be a wake-up call to you to BACK OFF. If your friendship, their relationship and your current relationship with your boyfriend meant anything to you..you wouldn't have slept with him once, much less TWICE. Your current boyfriend and your "best friend" deserve much better.
Maybe you and your best friends boyfriend are good together, you are both cheaters..that's something y'all have in common.
2007-01-22 07:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Keep what happened between you and your friends (ex?) boyfriend. You will loose your friend if you tell her. It is no one's business anyways. But probably not a good idea to sleep with your best friends boyfriend for future reference.
2007-01-22 07:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by emsss 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You arent a true friend and you now have to own up to that and be the bigger person and tell her. If he does which he probably wont then she will know for real you arent a true friend, if you tell her then she can at least respect you for your truth whether she wants to continue the friendship or not.
2007-01-22 07:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by FASHION*DIVA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No wonder your friend thought you and her boyfriend had something going on! I hate to say this but either you sleep around a LOT, or there was definitely something! And I'm saying this nicely.
2007-01-22 07:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by HeadH 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her. Maybe you and her can patch things up with time, if she ever decides to trust you again. Was the guy worth ruining your friendship over? Probably not. Don't be a coward about it, wouldn't you want to know?
2007-01-22 07:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by precious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would tell your friend...i mean i don't know about you but if this happened to me i would deffinetly want to know...just think if it was the other way around...would you not want your friend to tell you...yea she may get upset at first...but at least she will know the truth...besides her and this guy were on a break...i mean at least you did not sleep with him while they were together...if any one should totally get mad it should be your ex...cause you was actually with him at the time...so girl take my advice tell her...it would be the right thing to do.
2007-01-22 07:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by kristine_star2008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And the problem is what? You didn't screw your friend, you screwed the guy. It was only sex, you were consenting adults and No one got hurt. Try a 3rd time to see if you've still got it.
2007-01-22 07:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ur best friend b/f started it. He was the one who called you and took you out. If you both are in-love, then, should stay together. Otherwise, stop seeing ea other and stay away from him.
2007-01-22 07:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by Inquirer 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋