2007-01-22 07:00:17 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it takes a lot for a guy to stay with you but its possible because my boyfriend was the one that told me no sex. lol! HE TOLD ME!!!!! dang. lol. but if he really loves you it shouldn't be a problem.
2007-01-22 07:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a dude I would have to say I don't know. If I were that dude it would depend on how I felt about the girl but I'm not very representative of what the average teenage dude thinks. Saying you won't do something and then not doing something are two different things though. I'm thinking that the odds are really high that she wouldn't keep that viewpoint forever and if I felt strongly enough for her then I would definitely stick around until she changed her mind.
2007-01-22 07:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by Frank Edwards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I really loved someone, sex wouldn't be a remote part of that love besides, I lived with my ex wife for 3 years after she stopped the sex (I think I was a glutton for punishment). I didn't do it out of love (that stopped after the second year) but for the kids.
If you think that your boyfriend really loves you then just try to get rid of him but watch out, some people will find the sex else where.
2007-01-22 07:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of Never say Never. Secondly, if he doesn't stick around and this is something that is important to you, to keep yourself celebate until marriage then he's not the one for you anyway. I know several that will wait, and several who won't. Don't feel pressured to do something you don't feel is right. While it may hurt that he walk away, know that if he can't appreciate you or respect you enough for this one VERY IMPORTANT decision, then what are the chances he'll respect you and support you for others in your life? You deserve it!!!
2007-01-22 07:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he had some reason why he could not have sex . . . dysfunction or disability. Other than that - no guy would ever stay around if you NEVER were going to have sex.
2007-01-22 07:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told him you were NEVER going to have sex with him, then no. Why should he? Unless you have some sort of medical condition which prohibits you from having sex, why should someone make that kind of sacrifice for the rest of their life for you?
2007-01-22 07:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, it depends on the reason why you decide something like that. This is kind of a strange thing to decide...why do you want to stay with him if you have no intentions of ever sleeping with him? If you are saving yourself for marriage, then do you not see him having that potential to be your husband? If you feel like you are too young, do you not see staying with him until you do feel ready? Or are you just not sexually attracted to him? if that's the case then it sounds like you should just be friends.
2007-01-22 07:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by smellyfoot ™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the kinda guy, if he was a good christian guy I dont think he would care and would wait until marriage even though its killing him inside he knows what hes doing. Other guys I'm not to sure they may or may not respect that and leave you for it. But if he didnt respect you enough for what you said then why would you want to be with him in the frist place?
2007-01-22 07:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually sex is a huge part of a relationship i dont care what anybody says you have to ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE AS WELL AS MENTALLY AND ANY OTHER WAY so if you're not going to have sex with him he probably wont stay around unless he plans on being selebit for the rest of their life
2007-01-22 07:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by hollaatyagirlt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, of course! anyway love is what matters most... sex can wait, maybe when the time is right, the time after the wedding!
if there is respect & love & not just lust... kissing, touching or cuddling & hugging can somehow fulfill his needs, not totally having sex.
boyfriend should understand that! he can wait too, he should stay around despite of not having that with her!
besides that is the right situation in which you will know if he really love you or just want to have sex or try to use you!
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2007-01-22 07:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by ayu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋