2007-01-22 07:10:29 · 18 answers · asked by brittany_michelle_3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Slow down. Take things slowly and make each moment passionate. From the time you get up in the morning to the time you come together later. A kiss, a look, an unexpected embrace can all enhance the passion that you have for your mate.
Erotic massage is really great for getting in touch with your passion and it makes you slow down and appreciate each other more. Set the mood with candles, music, warm towels and warm scented oils.
Have fun. :)
2007-01-22 07:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is that really a problem?
I mean to say, I think it's not unusual that passions burn brightest when the flame is ignited, and tend to mellow over time. I doubt that your relationship is the only one witnessing such a trend.
So what? Are you happy, is your mate happy, are you both happy, secure, trusting, and enjoying the relationship? If the answer is yes, then the sexual aspect may not loom as large.
If you really reflect and think about how great your relationship is, that could be enough to re-ignite that passion you seek. Maybe one or the other of you just needs a reminder.
Or maybe "renewing the sexual passion" just isn't as important as you think it to be. Just because you see it portrayed in the media all around you... who ever said THAT was a realistic depiction of what life is really all about?
2007-01-22 15:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you talking about that in the context of a marriage? Counseling, male enhancements, hormone replacement (although they say today that causes cancer), provocative clothing or just talking things out and asking what the other person needs.
If it's in a relationship then it's not worth it cause he's already got the milk from the cow (as the saying goes) and maybe is ready to move on to someone else (or maybe already has moved on to someone else). The problem with this is that there is no marriage commitment. See because in marriage when things go downhill then just accepting them as a partner is paramount. But in a relationship everything depends on sex and when that goes downhill it's all over.
2007-01-22 15:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, don't try to hard. Respect yourself and don't agree to do things you normally aren't comfortable doing. Don't use porn, you will be setting yourself up for misery. Lets face it, unless you are planning to be compared to them, you will be painfully broken hearted in the end(no pun intended lol)
I would start by a dimly lit dinner, candles (red) all around, a couple of bottles of wine, the cd Diamond And Pearls by Prince. Or a better choice is John Klemmer, "Barefoot Ballet"
Don't forget a nice bath and no preset performances. Pace your self
Now get off this damn computer and lets get your love life going. I wish I could hear how this all turns out for you. I know how much different romance and sex are.
Party on Peace be with you! Let me know how it turns out.
2007-01-22 15:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by JOHN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is often a hard thing to do, in a long term relationship where you are in the comfort zone. I try to get rid of the baby and drink a little wine to relax and first focus on one another. Nature will take it from there. If this is too mushy for ya, then you can be brave and explore one another's "secret" fantasies.
2007-01-22 15:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by tryin4freedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think back to when you had passion in the relationship before. What is missing now ? Are you bored ?
2007-01-22 15:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by pink lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope this doesn't sound crazy, but have you ever thought about role-playing? I don't mean you have to dress up like a cheerleader or anything -- but sometimes it's fun to talk dirty and kinda play out a character in bed.
Good luck, girl!
2007-01-22 15:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one sureway and that is to arrange special occasions every month or so and go somewhere different - say for an overnight stay or weekend. Go large and do it in luxury or conversely go to the country and go wild!
2007-01-22 15:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Role playing or Kama Sutra.
2007-01-22 15:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well experiment and be spontaneous studies show if you do these it will revive a relationship, also have sex often
2007-01-22 15:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by chkn_fur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋