MY LIFE SUCKS BECAUSE MY DAD IS KEEPING ME FROM MY BOYFRIEND AND TAHT SUCKS MY STEP MOM IS TALKING BAD ABOUT HIM AND IT GETS ME MAD I AM TRYING TO FIND A WAY TO SEE HIM THEY DONT EVEN KNOW HIM TO BE JUDGING HIM ON HOW HE IS I LOVE HIM ALOT IVE BEEN WITH HIM FOR A YEAR AND MY DAD STILL DONT KNOW WHO HE IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I DONT LIKE MY DAD AT ALL URG!!!!!
2007-01-22 06:56:42 · 13 answers · asked by happy mom of a Feb 2008 baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your life does not suck.There just trying to protect you talk to them if they don't know anything about him then why are you still complaining tell them about him have dinner with you parents like you do every night and have your boyfriend over have them get to know eachother better and yeah as you get older you'll be interested in other people I don't know how long this relationship of yours will last but it won't last forever if it does thats great if not don't get upset about it find someone else.Good luck!
2007-01-22 07:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen your 14, You dad knows that your boyfriend is trying to have LOTS of sex with his little girl. He is doing the right thing, even if you dont think so. On day you will be able to see past your DRAMA ridden world and see that other people do care about you and dont want to see you end up hurt.
I'm sure you have heard it before but listen to a complete stranger: GUYS ONLY WANT ONE THING AT YOUR AGE. And it is between your legs. They dont want to hear you stories and what you have to say, The will but dont want to hear it they want what you have to give them.
I know you " LOVE " him just like my 13 year old "LOVES" all the boys she happens to be talking to this week. But you will grow up one day and you will thank your dad for LOVING you not LUSTING for you like all these boys you see.
Trust me little one, Its a cold hard world out there and you may think you know it all but you dont.
2007-01-22 15:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by remailer000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you get sneaky about it, and they should find out, you'll be worse off the now. Your 14 no loss. there will be other boys. And maybe your dad has is reasons. But then again maybe if you ask them to sit down,with you and ask them why they dislike the boy. find out what their reasons are. Listen to what they have to say, then ask them if you can speak . Ask them if he can come over so they can meet him, and see how it goes. But dads are dads, and any boy is a threat. if they have a daughter.
2007-01-22 15:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dad is trying to protect you. Parents have a sixth sense about our boyfriends and if we listened to them more then there would be so many girls out there living a better life because they listened to their mom and dad about that awful no good boyfriend whom you have been spreading your legs for you aren't mature enough to handle a sexual relationship with him. You don't think he brags to his buddies about pinning your knees to your ears? Come on he is more immature then you and ya he's been getting lucky with you that's why he is with you cause you put out!
2007-01-22 15:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem is that you are 14 with a boyfriend. Be a kid and enjoy that. Trust me. And keep you legs closed. Teen pregnancy is know fun. Trust me on that one too.
2007-01-22 15:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by americarocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your parents. They probably know more about the boy than you think....besides, you're too young to have a hot and heavy relationship with a boy !! Enjoy your life, it's the only one you're going to have..(:>)
2007-01-22 15:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by MIGHTY MINNIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your parents know something. Talk to them. And if they does not have good reasons to not letting you go out with him continue with the relationship.
Sure, you have to find him first.
2007-01-22 15:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by ema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hunny, i can tell you right now your life does NOT suck. and believe me there will be other boys. i know right now this guy is the best thing in the world... but as you get older.. you will meet some AWESOME guys.
2007-01-22 15:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by Loathing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 u still gat a lot of time right u should focus on school
2007-01-22 15:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah but he doesnt want you to get preggers and daddy loves you more. SO love your daddy.
2007-01-22 15:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by web s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋