i am a very lucky guy when it comes to making female friends, but very unlucky romantically... so i was wondering if any1 has any advice on how to capture a lady's heart... or how not mess up things with the girl i like?
2007-01-22 06:54:18 · 18 answers · asked by karimauf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to wait it out. I mean, yeah, it sucks always being the "friend" but if you're chasing after the ladies you're always going to finish last. If a girl is feeling you, you'll know it. Then it will be time to chase back, but in a very suttle way. If you can't tell if she likes you like that or not, guess what? SHE DOESN'T. A woman knows how to make her feelings apparent. One day you'll find a good girl, promise. Just maybe not right now. But that doesn't mean that you're outta the game completely. Keep being yourself, don't act like someone else, and eventually you'll find someone.
2007-01-22 07:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by yayachicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your good at being friends then i am not sure how you are unlucky in the relationship department. Unless you were friends with the girls for too long and they put you into the friends zone. So i would say be their friend, but at the same time let your feelings be known. But don't tell the girl too soon, she might get freaked out. Best of Luck!
2007-01-22 14:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by The one who knows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her your bank balance and make sure it's good, alternatively if you are smart the moment you meet the right Woman save yourself a lot of time, grief and an expensive messy divorce, and the vicious lies she'll tell to prevent access to your children and just give her the deeds to your house and the shirt off your back, which is all they are after, in return for her signed agreement never to cross your path again! lol
2007-01-22 15:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by keithanthony0169 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be persistent. Never give up until you know for sure its time to do so. Do little things for her. Like write a little post it note and tell her how beautiful she looks today. Or call her and tell her you just wanted to hear her sexy voice. Make her feel good about herself. Ask her out, make it a night she will never forget, like walk along the beach and look at the stars, or something outdoors, and exciting.
2007-01-22 15:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off.
Try adn make her laugh. But don;t try so hard that she can tell your trying. Just let it come naturally. Girls love a guy that can make them laugh.
Be Honest and open.
And Ask her questions, about her favorite things. like color, animal, food ect. And ask her about her family, and things that have happened in the past, so she knows that you are truly intrested in her, and not just trying ot get some.
2007-01-22 15:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know what you have done in the past to mess things up then don't do them again. Each woman is a new learning lesson.
2007-01-22 14:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask out of your lady friends, sometimes firends first makes a wonderful love relationship
2007-01-22 14:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Sparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone women is different, so it will take different things. I know one thing that I found irritating was someone who was clingy and acting too eager to please. Also I didn't like "too much...too fast". I find it admirable for a guy to relax and just act themselves without worrying who thought what. I also think women still like men who know how to be a gentleman, no matter what society says.
2007-01-22 15:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a friend with agirl but don't be a buddy. Let her know youare romantically attracted to her by letting her know you think she is special, pretty and treat her nice.
2007-01-22 14:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't treat a person you wanna be with just like a friend because that way they won't know what you really feel for them...
2007-01-22 15:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋