Singles & Dating - 19 January 2007

My girlfriend and I broke up shortly after she moved into my house because I found out that she was cheating on me. I didnt want to be a total jerk by locking her out the house and throwing her stuff out in the street. She asks if she could stay for a while until she finds a job and move out on her own, but days have passed she seemed like shes getting too friendly around me and later on said she doesnt want to let me go. So im like yeah right, im not going back with you, and she started getting crazy and suicidal. so i need help, i really need to get her out of my house and move on with my life and eventually meet some new people again. HEELLLPPP!

2007-01-19 21:56:45 · 10 answers · asked by youth83 1

WhIch of the following options do u chooce to act upon?!!!!!!!!!!
a)Have sex with as many gorgious people as u can and once u marry, limit your sexual relationship to have only with your husband.
b)Have sex with a person and marry him.
C)Marry a person and have sex with him(No sex before marriage).
d) Have sex with some, marry to a person, however do swing with other couples.

2007-01-19 21:55:51 · 20 answers · asked by smash wit love 1

This guy disappeared..after I told him I didn't know how to do with him and another guy..now he won't comeback on IM or return my calls. Some of it may be my fault because I gave him alot of drama but he told me he could never get angry at me and always wanted to know where I was because I told him I was returning to America. Maybe he only wants to be friends so he ran away..but I don't know what his problem is now..he told I could call him before I leave..unless he doesn't believe I am really leaving...

2007-01-19 21:49:07 · 3 answers · asked by andinghsiang 1

I was a virgin up until the age of 23. Not due to religous or moral reason, mainly because my teenage years were so messed up I fell for this man but he turned me down when I was 21. What I found out later was he didnt want to date a virgin because my lack of experience turned him off i.e. I might be bad in bed, people were laughing at me etc. It wasn't like I was into "no sex before marriage" either, I just wanted to wait a month or two until I felt comfortable and I would hardly say I was a prudish person.I then lost my virginity at the age of 23 in a now notorious drunken one night stand which involved things outrageous enough to make most people blush (publicly). I was going through rough patch, drinking tequila and turns out, hypomanic. So I am now stuck with this shes a virgin/she's a whore reputation. My local student community can't work out which and judges me continually. I personally don't think its anybodies business, but is sexual expereince really such a big deal to men?

2007-01-19 21:48:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 5ft tall and believe that taller people are more attractive and successful in relationshios and work situations than shorter people.

2007-01-19 21:47:15 · 15 answers · asked by Tianna M 1

I am 14 years old and she is too 14.She is good looking and reserved.I have made a good friendship with her.We trust each other.In many cases I and she have matching,example:1)I born in January and she too,2)We both are libra in zodiac,3)I like Hrithik and she too etc.

2007-01-19 21:45:12 · 8 answers · asked by arnab_itsme 1

ive liked this guy for a while now (about 10 months) and he claims he liked me the same amount of time but when ever one was single the other was taken and finally after 10 months we both single.
we have flirted loads and had a few kisses.
last night when we was walking to get some food he held me close to him as we walked and i turn to him and asked him out he said maybe and i asked for him to explain it he said "i want to know u better first" is this just a nicer way of saying no.
it really confusing me though as he tells me he likes me then when i ask him out he says no :(

2007-01-19 21:43:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

happened our relationship has moved to the next level which was something i always urged her to do. is this true or is it a cheap excuce?

2007-01-19 21:42:12 · 12 answers · asked by roulis 2

She is very beautiful and very caring, sweet and she told me she loves me. She told me I can have her but that she Is a vergin she is 22 and wonderful. I did not take her I felt guilty. I am I crazy should I make love to her?

2007-01-19 21:27:26 · 18 answers · asked by ? 6

my bf who iv been with for 1 year told me that in the sumemr hes going to china again for 6 weeks to see hes family.last year when he whent away to china i got so depressed and bored i ended up crying everyday.i talked to him on msn everyday for a litttle bit and phoned him once a week.i dunno what to do cause he goes ill be depressed but if i tell him to stay im been selfish cause he family all live in diffrent places and they all meet once a year.

2007-01-19 21:26:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am currently in a 9 month relationship with my boyfriend. he loves me very much, and has changes a lot for me. however our reltaionship is getting pretty boring and there are no sparks flying. this is when i met a hot guy, and i found myself falling for him. he likes me too and we have the potential of starting a relationship.

what should i do?
dump my current boyfriend and be with him?
stick with my boyfriend and try to forget him?
or.............. two time???

2007-01-19 21:25:05 · 21 answers · asked by apple-licious 3

my favourite colour is black.after we break up,he start 2 wear black and earlier he told black is no luck for him.he meet many gurl and also me.with his best fren,he only talks about me.he looks at me when i didnt look at him.when i look at him,he say tat i look one kind and he rame his bike 3 times when he see me.when he see me from far,he quickly tell his friend that im coming.

2007-01-19 21:23:51 · 3 answers · asked by desperate 1

can it change his personality? act like a girl? or else?

2007-01-19 21:14:37 · 10 answers · asked by didiet 2

he would and please do not think that he did not care and recently he said no matter what you do, please don't lose faith in us. I've been out of touch with relationships for awhile now. So can someone tell me what they think he means by this?

2007-01-19 21:12:06 · 8 answers · asked by born 2 d-mn romantic 3

Well, I usually am effective in these cases, but now I'm in a real trouble! There is a guy, handsome and hot, in my class for extra lessons, named H.K. (sorry I can't say the name) In this class, we are 2 girls and 2 boys. He is a bit shy, we're getting on well, we laugh, we talk and he always comes next to me. I believe that he is interested, but I can't tell for sure! For example, we were writing a test and every1 was at different classes. Maria-the other girl told him that I were in the kitchen and he came straightaway! He started talking to me, when the teacher took him in another class :(
Maria also says he's staring at me during the lesson and I can see that...But I don't even asked for his cell phone number and that's what I want to do now! Please help me! Any tips will be helpful...what would you do? He's really nice! Friendly, cute, funny, lovely...I must do sth with him, before it is too late! When he's talking to other girls I'm extremelly jealous...Help me!!!

2007-01-19 21:09:28 · 3 answers · asked by Iraki... 1

as more than a friend.How do we know if you actually like us or just want to get in our pants by your actions?

2007-01-19 21:06:06 · 6 answers · asked by debra 2

2007-01-19 21:03:37 · 14 answers · asked by ulises 1

Okay..you all did a great job answering my last question so I'll have it another go..Thank you by the way! Question..
My guy and I have been together (and living together) for going on two years now..I moved across the country with him! He says (and always has said) that he never wants marriage or children in his future..with me or anyone else..he likes things the way that they are..period..and hates when I bring up the future or use the word "forever" hates it...I'm cool with that right now bc I don't want that right now anyway..But I do at some point..So my question is..Should I stay with him since thats not of importance to me at this time in my life..or leave him bc ultimately we want different things and I'll probably end up getting very hurt? Im settled out here now anyway so being on my own wouldn't be a problem..I just don't know whether I'm wasting my time..or being smart..

2007-01-19 21:03:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i very very rarely compliment a women because i very rarely feel honestly impressed by a womens shoes or bag or whatever. i hear guys just being so nice to girls and telling them they are beautiful etc, women how does that make u feel? why is it that i can be a complete jackass, never compliment women on anything, put very little effort into any relationship and they still like me? do women like men who give them compliments or do they like the process of trying to get them better?

2007-01-19 21:03:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

carry you across the parking lot pony style so you wouldn't get your new shoes dirty? My girlfriend makes me do this every sunday after I take her shopping. Its now becoming one of our weekly rituals.

2007-01-19 20:56:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just split up wiv ma boyfriend we are both 15 and he sed to me he wants me but doesnt want to be in Relationship wiv any1 wat does tht mean? but wen is was sayin all this 2 me he was huggin me and kissin me but he tries to kiss me on the lips bt i moved away and he was holdin me it was like we was still 2gether do u think he still has feelings for me or wat bt i dont get it wen he sed he wants me bt doesnt want to be in Relationship?

2007-01-19 20:54:36 · 9 answers · asked by daddy_littleprincess 2

i have been in three diffreent relationships for three years
none never work out am i the bad one

2007-01-19 20:53:52 · 11 answers · asked by venessa h 1

I really don't know what else to do. I am in love with my guy friend and i know he has feelings for me. We've been out before as friends but now whenever i say about going anywhere he always makes excuses. He dosn't have much money but i have even offered to pay but he won't have it. Even things that don't cost money he don't wanna do. When we are together he is so happy, he jokes about, can't do enough for me and has even started kinda flirting with me. But i have known him for 7 1/2 months now and we've not got anywhere. I think his pride is starting to take over, he knows he don't have much, maybe he don't wanna burden me but he wouldn't. I even offered him my old mobile cos his is broke but he wouldn't take it, said he'd buy another one. Is this worth sticking with or should i just give up? I am getting so confused, does he want me or don't he? He's 24 and i'm 27. I know he's had a lot of probs, family and money and stuff, but he's trying to get back on his feet now, should i wait?

2007-01-19 20:53:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does that mean I have a head like a melon and a face like a collie?

2007-01-19 20:51:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend annoys me. She calls every single day and we must talk for atleast and hour on the phone. I'm not a phone person so it's horrible! She gets upset if I go out with my other friends. she gets upset if I talk with my other friends on the phone. She has a friggin list with the names of my other friends in it, other friends who are 'dangerous on my friendship with her'!! She doesnt understand the concept of giving advice,she thinks I should listen to every word she says and she keeps nagging and nagging and shoving her so called advices down my throat. She speaks in this cartoon voice thinking its cute. She wants me to take her out and she calls me hers. She hates my fiance and my fiance thinks she's jealous of him! She always asks me if I'd ever leave her. She cries if I ignore her *unintentionally*. I'm a very privare person yet she expects and demands me to tell her every single detail of my life and everything I did when she's not with me *which is rarely anyway*.

2007-01-19 20:51:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-19 20:51:10 · 7 answers · asked by hoopshola 1

2007-01-19 20:49:50 · 1 answers · asked by Confused 2

when girls make it hard, pigs i mean guys won't let go they just stick around. when girls make it easy it is the other way round,why

2007-01-19 20:48:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend manages our finances and my monthly salary get paid directly into her account, she has the only atm and credit card but gives me enough to get by each week. This has worked well for the past 6 months, however, 2 weeks ago she wouldn't give me any money until I gave her my yahoo password and all the phone numbers in my mobile phone. This week she made me kneel to her when asking for some money back and told me I would have to do this to her from now on. Is this normal or is she getting a bit kinky? I am affraid what she will make me do next. I would die if we ever broke up the trouble is she knows it too. Any advice?

2007-01-19 20:48:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-19 20:47:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous