My girlfriend and I broke up shortly after she moved into my house because I found out that she was cheating on me. I didnt want to be a total jerk by locking her out the house and throwing her stuff out in the street. She asks if she could stay for a while until she finds a job and move out on her own, but days have passed she seemed like shes getting too friendly around me and later on said she doesnt want to let me go. So im like yeah right, im not going back with you, and she started getting crazy and suicidal. so i need help, i really need to get her out of my house and move on with my life and eventually meet some new people again. HEELLLPPP!
2007-01-19 21:56:45 · 10 answers · asked by youth83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really can't be a Mr. Nice Guy with a chick that did you wrong and is now using you for a place to live. Change the locks, and put her stuff out. Then get your restraining order in line, because a girl like this won't disappear from you life for a long annoying while.
And in my experience, people who SAY they are going to suicide, rarely do. They generally just do it. She's saying that to make you feel guilty and responsible for what happens to her (which you're not). Get her out as fast as you can bud.
2007-01-19 22:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tough Love 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
y do you care now. get law enforcement involved if you have to .don't mess around tell her you want her to leave asap. give her till end of month. or you will have police escort her out. otherwise she might push you to something like hit her. in which case you will end up in jail. she can then get a restraining order against you. And guess what? you wont be able to go to your own house. sounds impossible I know. but believe me it happens. i had one that i wanted to leave after she had been there 2 years. it was another year b4 she finally left. if she has mail coming there. that makes it even harder. be a jerk . but don't hit her or you be the one that's out. the cops know how this works. if its your house and you don't want her there. they will help. don't call 911 . go to the local station and ask about your options. do it tomorrow. the sooner you act on this matter. the less stress you will have in your life. and things will get back to normal. y would you want her there anyway . she is also cramping your style with other women. dump the broad. you will feel a great sense of relief as soon as she is gone. the longer she is there . the more stress you will feel. and the harder it will be to get rid of her. don't feel sorry for her. she didn't for you ..
good luck don't hesitate act right away. E
2007-01-20 06:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by ojaieric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet she was a great piece of tail when u met her wasnt she? did everything u wanted but u though she would change now i bet u c what your mom was taking about dont u? This girl aint worth a thing and only good for laying on her back ok now to the real issue. Getting her to bounce
Well why dont u tell her that she needs to move out now or u will get a court order to remove her.
Is she on the lease If not put her crap outside!
Where was she living B4 u layed up with her? Tell her to go back there
She cheated on u and u say u dont want to be a jerk? Be a man pull your panties outa your tail and pack her stuff dude.
Hope u learned a lesson from this so just put her out and b4 u pack her things call the cops and hav them on standby just in case she acts up. Sounds like she is only good for one thing anyway put her out b4 u knock her up.
Dont listen to all the women here because they want u to take the nice approach.........LATER FOR THAT kick her out , change the locks dude u r a MAN
2007-01-20 06:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by KB48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How close are you with her friends/family? Maybe you can confide in one of them and they'll invite her to stay/ move-in with them? If that doesn't work assume a non threatening yet professional tone with her and ask her what her move out stragedy is. If she replies dumbfounded or hostile remind her that you're not trying to upset her but you do need to have a timeframe and plan set in motion and that you are willing to help her execute this plan anyway possible. Like if money's the excuse and you can afford it assume her portion of the bills/rent to get her out of your hair quick.
2007-01-20 06:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by firecracker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to move on with your life..and to do that you need her to move out..........if she's not looking elsewhere, look for her, and leave vacant house lists laying around the house, eventually she'll get the idea that you don't want her there anymore.
Good-luck with meeting some new ppl and remember to have fun
2007-01-20 06:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by bynni_c 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I woulda kicked her *** to the curb. I'd be damned for letting a cheater live in my house while they bum off of me. I know you're trying to be nice in all of this, but I think you need to toughen up to get her out of there. She seems to think that since you let her stay that that means you still want her.
2007-01-20 06:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may as well go get a bag of jerky and eat it all at once. its the only way. hell I had to hall and girl half the way across the country and drop her off at her mothers before she got the message. that was after many other attempts to get her to leave.. I am not saying all girls are the same. but when someone starts acting like that they are not going to go quietly..
2007-01-20 06:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont u move on with ur life...and after u find a new girl and a very sweet girl,all u need to do is watch.ur gf will herself ask ur x to leave.
but be sure u tel ur new gf the whole story at the begining.
2007-01-20 06:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by tonima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw her out a window.
2013-08-18 18:24:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was u , and u where me, i would just say to her
"LOOK WOMAN!, OUT OF MY HOUSE NOW, YOU AINT WELCOME, ONLY "LOYAL" PEOPLE ARE ALOUD IN MY HOUSE, AND THAT DOES NOT INCLUDE YOU, YOU COLD HEARTLESS *****, LEAVE!"
Please dont let her walk over you, and dont just stand there like a fool and take it all...you should be mean and agressive! that will teach her for cheating on you! KICK HER OUT GOD DAMN IT!
2007-01-20 06:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by Paris 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋