She is very beautiful and very caring, sweet and she told me she loves me. She told me I can have her but that she Is a vergin she is 22 and wonderful. I did not take her I felt guilty. I am I crazy should I make love to her?
2007-01-19 21:27:26 · 18 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't love her and since you'd be her first forever tied I say back off.... let her meet the guy an emotional equal who'll give the happiest memory that will last a life time not one to regret for a life time..
GL..
2007-01-19 21:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by UmaCat 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with most of the answers here.If you are not falling in love with her, don't do it. She sounds very lovable, sweet, and caring but if you are not actually feeling like your are falling for her, then don't do it. Right now you have the chance to show this girl a lot of respect, the same way she has respected herself for so long by not being sexually active. I know your hormones are probably running high, and perhaps hers are too, but neither of you are ready for this. Tell her that it is best for you both to wait a while longer, because you care too much about her to let her make this decision to lose her v-plates in the heat of a steamy moment, a decision she may regret later. And if you find you are both getting too hot and heavy with each other try to make a concious effort to calm down. Because that one moment could lead to a lifetime regret. And what if you do it together and she decides she'd rather slow down again? Could you resist temptation again after being with her once? Just wait and when that moment arrives you can both savour it. Besides there are plenty other ways to satisfy urges, or to be intimate without sexual intercourse.
2007-01-20 06:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by cheeky_lil_pixiegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest, sounds like she is desperate. If she says she is a virgin and wants you to have her, then maybe you should get to know her a little. You have only known her a couple days. If she is a virgin then this will be very special to her you being her first and all. Most women become attached to there lover, sex to a women is more than just a fun time it is an emotional event for them. If you find her attractive and have good intentions at heart, then I would postpone the sex and get to know her as a person. It is easy to tell someone you love them, but to mean it is totally different. Let her know that you find her very attractive and that you will enjoy spending more time with her to get to know her better. I am sure she will appreciate this more than just slipping her panties off and having meaningless sex. I would give it a couple of months and see where it goes. If she is still around then you know you have a genuine person at your side and just a floozy. Then when she gives herself to you I promise it will be magic. Good Luck
2007-01-20 05:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by george 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, tell her it is something that is very precious and she should wait until she is married. She has saved herself this long for a reason. I lost the love of my life because I was in the same situation and I made the wrong choice. Don't be like me cause it was not worth losing her over and the disapproval it caused between her and her family and myself. I would much rather have made the right choice as I believe she would still be a part of my life and possibly even my wife if I had. You have no idea the guilt when you lose the best thing that has ever happened to you over one simple mistake. I wake up everyday missing her and that was the only mistake I made with her, one mistake cost me everything.
-NmD!
2007-01-20 05:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds kind of one-sided with the feelings. Being that she loves you and wants to lose her virginity to you I think she'll fall pretty hard with you afterwards. Be very careful if you go for it. She's going to think you're it. If you don't feel the same way it doesn't seem right.
2007-01-20 05:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
leave her alone.. she is in love with you.. if u don't feel the same way about her than don't hurt her. This is a girl who waited this long for the right guy to come along.. IF u think u r not ready for a relationship with her than be honest with her ...
2007-01-20 05:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she is that wonderful then you should figure out a way to have her stay every night, not just a couple of days, make sure she knows you were trying to respect her by not taking her virginity on a one night stand and that your not just being a coward....
2007-01-20 05:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you love her and I do mean love her than yes..
But
If you aren't interested in being with her than no. Why give her false hopes and then hurting her for the purpose of sex. Your first is the one you always remember.
2007-01-20 05:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by Michael W 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
wait till your married...and it's vIrgin not vErgin...she stayed a virgin for 22 years,who are you make her change that?
2007-01-20 06:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by me_myself_mwah. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget that ***** that is telling you how to spell nobody is perfect, but i thank that it is a good thang that you dident sleep with her, she has waited this long for a reason, waiting a little longer wont hurt, wait untell you thank you feel the same way about her as she feels about you
2007-01-20 05:33:21 · answer #10 · answered by npr6933 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋