my bf who iv been with for 1 year told me that in the sumemr hes going to china again for 6 weeks to see hes family.last year when he whent away to china i got so depressed and bored i ended up crying everyday.i talked to him on msn everyday for a litttle bit and phoned him once a week.i dunno what to do cause he goes ill be depressed but if i tell him to stay im been selfish cause he family all live in diffrent places and they all meet once a year.
2007-01-19 21:26:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i havent got the money to go and my parents wont give me the cash cause i need £60 for a new passport and £458 to go to china for 6 weeks.
2007-01-19 21:36:30 · update #1
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2007-01-19 21:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by kelli 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry 2 say but really I think u need 2 grow up and get a life.
The more u chase him the more he will use it. Go away yourself, join the ATC and go on camp, anything to break what is basically a childish cycle.
Growing up is hard, so do it, I know people of 50 that still havent done it.
2007-01-20 05:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by rinfrance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's hard not to miss them, my boyfriend went away for 4 days and i was really upset and missed him all the time - and that was only 4 days (but we have been together over 18 months).
just remember that he loves you and if you could go with him then he'd love you to be there. it's not his fault that he has to go away. six weeks is a long time but you could try getting a piece of his clothing that has his smell on it. you could exchange little meaning full things that you can hold when you're missing them. you could write notes to each other to open each day of being away.
hope that you don't miss him too much, it's not worth getting depressed about though 'cos you'll make him feel guilty (and that's never good for a relationship). go out with your girlfriends and have a good time - when he's back just cling on to him and tell him that you don't ever want to let him go again. show him how much you missed him and how glad you sre that he's back.
2007-01-20 05:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Web camera... Plus shops like Ann summers have thiese vibrating devides you can attach to phones by a wire that can be remote activsted over the phone lines.
And a big teddy bear that you can slip a hot water bottle into
2007-01-20 05:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just go with him?
-NmD!
2007-01-20 05:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋