Singles & Dating - 8 January 2007

I really like her but she hates me...what should I do!?
There's a girl in my class who I really like. We used to like each other for a while even though we didn’t talk that much. Anyway, it now seems like she really hates me for no reason and I don't know if she likes me. When I start talking to her she tries to ignore me... well I don't know what's going on cause she asked me last week whether I hate her. Should I just talk to her and ask her whether she doesn't like me and tell her that I feel like she ignores me or is it a bad idea?!

2007-01-08 01:33:34 · 10 answers · asked by air1990 1

My husband spends all his free time On the internet. He says he is playing cards but I reently found that he is IM'ing several women. One in particular.I looked at her contact card and it shows two naked people embracing. When I clicked on line in his name she came back asking questiond like hey I thought you went hunting and such. It made me feel like she knows more about what is going on in his life than I do. Often I've walked in the room and he closes out their messages or either he keeps the door closed so our daughter and myself can't see what he is typing. He says it's just a game but I worry that if he is talking dirty to these women then comes to bed asking me for sex it makes me feel like second best and dirty.Am I just reading too much into it or does these things really happen.Sometimes I feel like throwing this computer outside. He spends more time with these people than he does with us. Does any one have any advice? Good ,bad , or indifferent. This is driving me crazy.

2007-01-08 01:31:21 · 17 answers · asked by rose v 3

I'm attracted to elder people. I am a man. I'm not a pervert. I look for straight sex only. But, the problem is I find every female or almost all the elderly females attractive. I,m in late thirties.

2007-01-08 01:30:14 · 7 answers · asked by arawind_2000 1

first thought that comes to mind

2007-01-08 01:28:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it possible to have two soulmates? i mean as lovers?

2007-01-08 01:28:25 · 8 answers · asked by lilbit 3

I have been seeing this guy for 3 weeks now. We have not had sex. He told me that he cares for me and that his gf's in the past he treated like whores. He respects me and says he is scared to have sex with me until he sorts things out in his head. He said he hasn;t had sex with someone he cars about in a long time. Should I be worried?

2007-01-08 01:27:08 · 27 answers · asked by kimmerry68 1

The problem is that about a year ago she kept avoiding him and not turning up when she made an arrangement to see him. A few months later she told him that she was with pregnant by another guy. Anyway she had the baby and a few months later she rang him and said the baby was his not the other guys.Then said the guy had a DNA test and its not his. Now she claiming that it's his kid Anyway months later she went to see him with the baby and didn't bring the proof of the test with her they ended up in bed. Three months have gone by since then he tells me, she always calling him and never turns up always making excuses. I told him to have the test but he said its too much money also the dates were wrong he thinks for him to be the father. Today he calls me telling me she said he should visit her and she's horny as usual but always lets him down. He later calls me and told me that she has just phoned him to say he should still come round but she just seen her monthly ? what should he do ?

2007-01-08 01:25:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anthony B 2

thoughts of attraction or thoughts of wondering if friendship is what the other one wants..?

obviously there are some qualities that draw two people to a friendship..but have you ever wondered why the other one wants to be close with you? can there really be friendship without having this thought?

2007-01-08 01:25:42 · 13 answers · asked by Rock 4

Right i really like this boy and hopeing he'll ask me out soon but last night i told a boy that likes me and i don't want to upset him...who should i stay with?
the boy that likes me says he loves me but when i talk to him it just feels like we're mates and the other makes me feel loved..

2007-01-08 01:25:17 · 17 answers · asked by Laura S 4

is it the same as when he slaps it?? or have another meaning??

2007-01-08 01:24:59 · 16 answers · asked by Pepper 1

In which rule book is it written that one has to act sweet and nice and not rock the boat all the time?

With acceptable societle standards who would you like to unleash some bad behaviour upon some time? when? and to who? Or are you just plum locked out of that behavior?

2007-01-08 01:23:45 · 5 answers · asked by lowroad 2

I'm thinking bout doing that for my boyfriend, we're in a long-distant relationship, and I'm thinking of saying I'll be back in a min and then come down stairs and surprise him...how would you feel if your girl did that? I haven't done this to him before

2007-01-08 01:22:37 · 21 answers · asked by Angelina M 1

i luv my classmate truly n deeply always thinks abt him n cud not think of any other guy besides him .he stare at me n whenever i luk at him i found him lookin at me too.i dont know why he hesitate to say that may be as we blong to different religion.i m really gettin crazy abt him day by day n its affectin my studies tell me what shud i do?

2007-01-08 01:22:30 · 3 answers · asked by a rodd fan 2

I am a guy in my late twenties who has the following predicament. I often start my relationships as friendships and then push the envelope. My bad luck is that for the third time now the girl has a birthday in the very early days - and I need to decide what to buy.

I can buy a 'friend's gift (e.g. book/cd) and forfeit my chances as a lover or I can buy a 'girlfriend' gift (e.g. jewlery) but risk overplaying my hand.

In the past two instances, I had two opposite results: one girl jumped into a relationship and another freaked out and iced the friendship. I don't want to lose this one or freak her out but on the other hand, I don't want her to think I am an uncaring cheap-skate.

So, what am I to get for a fun, smart and all-round great person with whom I currently have an ambiguous relationship with?

(While the ideal answer would be a joint experience - such as a golf outing with lessons plus picnic, hot air balloon, etc. - I cannot do so as I will be in another city)

Help me!

2007-01-08 01:18:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has already asked me to mmove in with him after i get out of high school he wants me to come downthis weekend and he also is 25 and he keeps getting texted by a 44 year old women. and he says he dosent want anything to do with her so what do i do?help me please.i think he is mr.right ?how do i know for sure

2007-01-08 01:18:09 · 10 answers · asked by KIMBERLY P 1

I like to be spanked like hard and not just playfully! I asked a guy to do it the other day and he did and he seemed to really like doing it and even started telling him that "I was naughty" and getting into it. I was just drunk when I asked him and I hooked up after him doing that. He gave me his number and told me to call soon, does he want to do it again you think? I was just wondering if a lot of guys have done this or how they'd react. I hope this isn't too perverted, I just need some advice! I feel like a weirdo. Do you think I am?

2007-01-08 01:17:18 · 24 answers · asked by SHELTIELUVER 3

2007-01-08 01:15:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i went on my boyfriends computer recently and saw that all he had been looking at were websites of girls, i know im pretty myself and most of them werent half as good looking without being bigheaded. It just makes me feel like im not good enough for him otherwise why would he look elsewhere. I dont understand why men do this i have no need to look at other men.

2007-01-08 01:15:34 · 14 answers · asked by noidea 1

A high school girl

2007-01-08 01:15:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-08 01:14:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to ask my girl friend to marry me. I have the ring but I need ideas on how to make it "special, romantic, etc..." Ladies, how were you asked or how would you liked to be asked? Men, how did you do it or how would you do it? Need details. Don't be shy, let it fly. Thanks

2007-01-08 01:11:52 · 11 answers · asked by whathappenedamber 2

there is this girl who is only 16 and she is saying that my bf who is 20 the same age as me is her babys father. He did cheat on me with her 2 years ago and he does talk to her every now and then and they use to be real close. Well she had a baby like 2 weeks ago and now is saying that it is his but when I confronted him about it he said that he never slept with her and that the baby is not his. But I don't know what to believe b/c he has lied about him and her in the past. I have tried to break up with him but he just doesn't want to let go. He want leave me alone he keeps telling me that she is lieing and that he doesn't want her. But I don't know what to do. any one ever stuck by their man while this was going on let me know. I'm so confussed right now.

2007-01-08 01:11:04 · 19 answers · asked by sweety_8620 2

I get panic attacks..really bad. I just start crying in school and stuff and I want to go home. Then things started getting bad with my dad and I was so depressed and then my friends left me and I started to cut myself and now everyone calls me a weird emo kid. How can I stop the panic attacks?

2007-01-08 01:10:08 · 1 answers · asked by laura 2

think he's a dope addict and he's a looser (which he is not!!). They think I pay for everything, but I don't. He's won't let me take my wallet into a resturant! He's very manly about his role in the relationship. They also think he's a looser cause he has a 5 year old little girl, (he pays child support) baby's momma left him though, he didn't leave her. They just won't listen to me when I try to explain this to them. They just say "oh yeah you'll take up for him blah blah blah". It's driving me crazy! Me and my bf are talking about getting married and where we would live etc. He says he wants to get married before July of this year. I want to marry him and be his wife. But my parents wont approve. I believe though that they will get over it eventually. I just want to be happy and he's the one who's going to make me happy.
Do you thinks it's wrong to go against something that my parents are strongly set againt, or should I go ahead with what I believe and make myself happy?

2007-01-08 01:02:33 · 1 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5

What will annoy an ex more..?

My ex dumped me months ago, i told her not to contact me about 3 months ago, BUT i still get the odd txt, i had a x-mas card off her..i have ignored all contact at the moment, and have not contacted her for months.. What will annoy her more ignoring them, or jus telling her straight to stop contacting me..! Again...!!




sorry for re-posting lol...

2007-01-08 01:01:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i and my friend that happend to be a boy and really close. he is really nice to hang with and he makes me luagh. but we are playing a game. he won't admit that he likes me even though when iwas dared to kiss and he caught me and kissed me back. i kinda like him too. i'm not planing to make the first move. do u think he is??

2007-01-08 00:59:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-08 00:58:36 · 0 answers · asked by cartiphilus 4

I am a 21 year old black woman and my cousin Tyrell feels like a social outcast and is getting shunned at home too. He lives in an all white community and he says he wishes he could be with a white girl. He says white girls at his school dont like him. The other day his sister walked in on him masturbating to a picture of skanky Lindsay Lohan and she told his parents and they said that he is forgetting who he is. I talked to him and he said he just loves white girls and cant help but to lust over them. He said he feels like an oreo cookie (black on the outside, white on the inside) because he masturbates to the blond and brunette cheerleaders and pretty white girls in his school. He said he does the same think as celebrities. Do you think white women are sold by the media as Greek Goddesses and is that why cousin Tyrell is warped?

2007-01-08 00:58:06 · 21 answers · asked by eraider101 1

2007-01-08 00:55:55 · 5 answers · asked by rakesh b 2

I have a sophomore gala in 2 weeks I was thinking of bringing Lucas. Apparently he found out from someone. Should I still ask him to accompany me?

2007-01-08 00:53:09 · 4 answers · asked by primandproper 2