What will annoy an ex more..?
My ex dumped me months ago, i told her not to contact me about 3 months ago, BUT i still get the odd txt, i had a x-mas card off her..i have ignored all contact at the moment, and have not contacted her for months.. What will annoy her more ignoring them, or jus telling her straight to stop contacting me..! Again...!!
sorry for re-posting lol...
2007-01-08 01:01:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we were together 4 years, we have noth got new partners...!
She lives very close to me..!
2007-01-08 01:11:59 · update #1
ignore her. some people will dump but still want to make sure the other is still clinging. she want you to cling and if you acknowledge her you'll be giving in to her
2007-01-08 01:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this depends on the Ex. If she's a psycho-ex and you never want to talk to her again, ever, just ignore her. Eventually, she'll stop trying to contact you. It will take a few months or years.
However, if your ex is a decent person, just not someone you want to date anymore, don't be rude. If you go to the same bars, etc. just be polite, don't hint or anything, and treat her like a person. I've got a few exes who are perfectly normal (wierd, I know) and now that I'm married, it's fine to see them around town. It would be akward though if I had just ignored them or told them not to talk to me.
2007-01-08 09:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by John 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a former crazy ex-girlfriend, I can tell you that it will annoy her most if you just ignore her. If you really don't want any contact with her anymore, than just ignore completely. By even talking to her just to say "stop talking to me," it's still contact, and that's what she wants. Plus, it's easiest anyway during a breakup to just cut all ties unless it was a friendly mutual breakup.
2007-01-08 09:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by NikNak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ignore it. She is obviously trying to see if you are single or still interested. I had the same thing and an ex used to send me birthday cards and xmas cards etc FOR 3 YEARS after we split up. He used to send them to my folk's house, as he didn't know where I was living but knew their address, with contact for him details inside. I used to read them, remember why I left him in the first place and throw them in the bin.
Just get on with your life and hopefully she will get the message, eventually.
2007-01-08 09:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to her face.
Too many men are cowardly when it comes to laying down the law when it comes to ex-girlfriends who are messing around with their emotions.
She probably thought by "dumpping you", you would come back begging and more emotionally commited. Wrong.
Women who jerk men around like that give the rest of us a bad name.
If she is that annoying, arrange an intervention in a semi public place with a couple of guy type friends to back you up. Tell her in not uncertain terms you want her to leave you alone, give the "back off" message in writing and make sure your guy friends are there to witness it. This is one step short of a restraining order.
Not all women are that denses, and manipulative. There are mature and stable women your age. Don't give up.
2007-01-08 09:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by WhatAmI? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring is best.
She thinks that she has power over you since she dumped you.
She wants to maintain some power by making you respond, and then she can respond to that.
To ignore everything she sends will short out the power trip.
2007-01-08 09:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to annoy her or do you want her to leave you alone. I mean, if you just wanted to annoy then keep on just ignoring her. If you really want her to leave you alone then tell her how you feel again and that you wish she would really stop contacted you.
2007-01-08 09:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by dawn_ch_believes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she regrets the break up and is trying to get you back! If you are truely finished with her, you may have to be very firm and just let her know that her unwanted attention is getting on your nerves and to stop. Unless she's a "psycho" or something, she should take the hint and move on!
2007-01-08 09:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by kelstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to annoy her then you are doing just that by ignoring her.as a female I can tell you that we hate to be ignored..LOL..But seriously by ignoring her you are really accomplishing 2 things..first you are making it clear to her that you are really done with her second you are in total control she has none..
2007-01-08 09:09:04 · answer #9 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This chick sounds like she's obsessed with you and sorry for dumping you. Get something out of this deal. Go back to her for some really hott casual sex whenever you feel like it. Borrow large sums of money from her. Stuff like that.
2007-01-08 09:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well jus tell her that u moved on..
an u dont want 2 see her or talk 2 her anymore..
change ur # if u have 2 .. or somthing when u get mail from her rip it an toss it .
2007-01-08 09:16:01 · answer #11 · answered by Dez DrOp DeAd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋