Do any white people agree with me?

Question

I am a 21 year old black woman and my cousin Tyrell feels like a social outcast and is getting shunned at home too. He lives in an all white community and he says he wishes he could be with a white girl. He says white girls at his school dont like him. The other day his sister walked in on him masturbating to a picture of skanky Lindsay Lohan and she told his parents and they said that he is forgetting who he is. I talked to him and he said he just loves white girls and cant help but to lust over them. He said he feels like an oreo cookie (black on the outside, white on the inside) because he masturbates to the blond and brunette cheerleaders and pretty white girls in his school. He said he does the same think as celebrities. Do you think white women are sold by the media as Greek Goddesses and is that why cousin Tyrell is warped?

Answer 1

I live in Germany and my English is very bad, but I think it's because of all the discrimination which people with dark skin have to suffer.
I think it's also because of the media.

Answer 2

All women celebrities are sold in the media, whether black, white, Asian, whatever. Maybe Tyrell has been told he cannot have white women by his family, society, and so he wants the forbidden fruit. Maybe he just likes white women. It's more concerning to me that his sister was able to walk in on him and then told his parents. Maybe they should just leave the kid alone and give him some space.
Would you consider a white man warped because he was hot for black women?
He's surrounded by white women he feels he cannot have so naturally that is what he wants. Normal behavior, no matter what color or age.

Answer 3

Tyrell is a victim of his enviornment. You can't hunt polar bears in the desert. If he's in an predominantly white enviornment, he's going to be surrounded by white girls. If it's a big problem for the family, why not let Tyrell come stay with you for a while and you can introduce him to some attractive young black women.

Answer 4

Interesting question, first of all I live in an all for the most part black community, I definitly think that all races for the most part should be with their own kind. I'm not tring to be racist, because I think that there is beauty in all colors, I think that it just helps people and mainly kids understand that this is the way things should be as they grow up, so who ever they maybe BLACK OR WHITE they hpefully won't have to relate to their skin colors as an OREO COOKIE......

Answer 5

sorry but no. I think he liekes who he likes but i dont think its amedia influence. I am white and live in a mostly black community. Alot of the girls here like black guys and vise versa. I think its just what he was raised around that he likes . There are alot of black women in the media too so if he was looking at the media he would have all races to choose from

Answer 6

Sorry, I don't know about the media bit, but I am a white male with a Japanese wife. I have always loved Japanese girls my whole life, and it has always been a personal choice.

I believe your cousin just honestly likes white girls, and I can't say there's anything wrong with that. If the white girls at his school don't like him, he must be very depressed. There are tons of white girls who love black men, but he may need to look elsewhere to find them.

Wow. If my parents shunned me because I like Japanese girls, I'd disown THEM.

Answer 7

I'm a 50 Year-Old white man, from the South. and I'm very tired of seeing Black or White in any description. It's your Heart, Love! It ain't feeling Black or White. Go with what you feel. Good Luck!

Answer 8

Its not a matter of color its a matter of feelings. I don't agree that women are being sold..neither do I think he is warped. Love has no bounderies n neither should lust. Let him be. I'm a Hispanic woman n I am with a white man....n I love him w/ everything I have. black,white,red,purple,yellow...what does it matter...let him be happy.Mind ur business. Worry about ur own sh*t.

Answer 9

I'm not white, but if hes around 14-17 it normal for a person to feel like that I suggest let him be, he will remember who is in time. As far Greek goddesses nah Paris, Britney and Lindsay do make great comedy but as far as their images...ewwww

Answer 10

Why would he be warped because he likes white women? People are always complaining about racism, Christ look at your question and explanation... I think you and your family are being racist.. People fall or lust for whomever their HEARTS desire, Be it black, white, orange, purple, yellow, Grow the hell up!! It's not the days of Abe Lincoln... WE ARE IN 2007!!!!!