2007-01-08 01:14:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
KICK YOURSELF IN THE NUTSACK
2007-01-08 01:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by glitter l 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's a bit of a dumb question, you should have added more context. It's like saying "what's wrong with murder if I'm not the one murdering?". Would that make sense?!? I assume you really mean that you're with someone who's cheating, but you're nto actually cheating yourself because you are (or were) single? In that case it depends how you look at it - you're not hurting your partner if you don't have one, however, you are providing the temptation for someone else to do so. You're also potentially lining yourself up for unhappiness if the person wants to be with you but not enough to ditch their former partner. Anyone who does this is hedging their bets - having their cake AND eating it. If you're sure it's just a bit of fun, then maybe you won't get hurt if you don't care all that much about it, but if not, you really need to set an amount of time for this person to make their damn mind up who they want. If the person you're helping to cheat has a family, then there really IS something wrong with it, and you should get the hell out of there - they obviously have some relationship issues already if they're even ABLE to cheat on their partner (and their own family too, in a way) but you providing the temptation will not make it easy for them to find the best way through it - I mean, the best way through it MIGHT BE for the family to break up, but do you really want to have been one of the causal factors in that?
2007-01-08 09:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by edsephiroth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you even thought about the other person - the one being cheated? Have you thought about the humiliation that person must feel when they know that their partner is cheating, the loss of dignity and respect in the eyes of their friends and family? The damage you are doing to a family, even if there are no children, is enormous as it could take a long time for the other partner to recover their self esteem.
2007-01-08 09:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are playing with fire. It may be all about the sex for now but you will develop feelings. You will be hurt its enevitable. You are being used and thats going to lower your self esteem. You cant introduce this person to anyone and the lies and deceipt will eat you up. You need to find someone who respects you and isnt using you. Look at yourself in the mirror and say to yourself that you seserve more. How would you feel if it was you being cheated on? You are destroying someoness life and if this person can cheat on someone they are supposed to love then what could they do to you?
2007-01-08 09:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by goobygum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well even if your not in a relationship then you are assisting another to cheat.....and I might and that this only shows your character as well and the other persons.
If you will allow another to cheat on there wife/husband then your as bad as that individual and says alot about what kind of person you are. Not to add it tells me that you too would cheat on your spouse if you were married....cause you have no morals (apparently).
Sorry but the truth hurts sometimes!
2007-01-08 09:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are involved in a relationship where there is 'Adultery,' then there is 'wrong' being done ~ and if it's not you doing the cheating, then you are an accessory to it ...and thus also in the wrong......
However, it depends upon your morality and its outlook on these things ...where interpretations creep in..........
To some states of mind, 'Rape' is not 'rape' unless 'there are three witnesses.'
To a Lawyer and ex President of the United States, a bout or oral sex given by a women to his person does not count as 'a sexual relationship,' no matter how many times this activity is repeated.
Next question?
Sash.
2007-01-08 09:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your messing with other peoples lifes. Frankly the person involved is the lowest of the low and deserves to be sh@t upon from a great height i wish you both the worst luck in the world. And i truely feel for the person who life you are tearing to shreds.
2007-01-08 09:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by doozer_princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i assume you are the one that isnt in the relationship then. well, if there are children involved on their side then you're seen as the person whos ruining their family. its just a stigma attached to "the other person", because theyre seen to be causing all of the anguish, even if theyre relationship was failing anyway. xxx
2007-01-08 09:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by hana woo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are cheating - your talking someone elses partner away from them. You are just as bad as the person who's cheating on their partner.
2007-01-08 09:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by mark 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As in you're with a married man/woman?
Everything is wrong about it. Someone is going to be hurt. And its worse when theres a family involved.
Pity theres more and more people without morals these days..
2007-01-08 09:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
But you're wrecking a relationship and could be sited in court as a co-respondent. Numb nuts.
2007-01-08 11:56:27 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋