Singles & Dating - 8 January 2007

It's probably some spam porn website that'll infect your computer if you click on it.............please get them off of here!!!!!! Is anyone else with me on this???????????????

2007-01-08 08:11:11 · 6 answers · asked by t_roe 3

You said you love me
"Do you?" I wanted to ask
But decided against it
Instead I remained quiet
You noticed, after all this was the third time you said the L word to me
The first two times had been while I was in a hurry
I heard you
I pretended I didn't
You assumed I hadn't heard you, so didn't try again
This time there was no hurry
And no noise to drown you out
So you knew I heard you
Out of all the things a guy could say after not hearing "I love you" back
You went with "What? You don't believe me?"
I again stayed quiet
You didn't push it, and just changed the subject
Later I talked to you on the phone
You said you wouldn't push me to say something I wasn't sure about
I tried to tell you the truth, but you had to go
I thought about it some more and affirmed what I already knew
That I do love you
My mouth just won't say it
I sent you a text, which I regret now, with those words in it
I don't know if you ever got it
(it continues, ill add it as details in a min)

2007-01-08 08:09:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this boy and he likes me too but he has a girlfriend, mee and this boy are very close and he has all these nicknames for mee, he's HILARIOUS, I haven't told any of my friends or him that I like him..bc i really dont want to get into a relationship with him and I think he might just be in love with my body and not mee. If he's anything like the other boys in my school, he's just looking for a piece of BOOTY. I always see him looking at all the girls' bodies, what should I do with him? should I tell him that I like him? I asked him in the beginning of the year like " why are you trying to talk 2 mee when you gotta g/f " and he was like im sorry, we'll just be friends for now.

2007-01-08 08:07:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I seen my man two days after christmas,and he told me to call him on Friday and he would come and get me. I called and called and still have not heard from him. We have been together for a year and half and has never done this to me before. I don't if maybe he broke up but has no balls to tell me ,I just don't understand. We didn't have a fight either before he left so I know it couldn't of been that. So I was hopeing that some one could give me some idea or help me out with this thanks.

2007-01-08 08:07:12 · 13 answers · asked by Baby Doll 1

We met at work and there was a lot of flirting between us and one day he called me and asked me if I have ever had unwork related thoughts about him, then he kissed me, then he totally backed off, then he started texting me saying that he wanted to take a shower with me and all of this stuff, then he totally backed off again now we continue to talk but just as friends, how could this guy go from lkissing me and planning to take a shower with me to acting like nothing happened. It seems like everytime I get him to start opening up to me, and feeling like he is he totally backs off. HELP

2007-01-08 08:06:40 · 12 answers · asked by Brandy 1

like mentally ??

2007-01-08 08:05:35 · 29 answers · asked by Benjie 1

I was just wondering if a guy would feel threatened or upset when their woman uses toys? I use toys with my man and by myself and I know he LOVES it but a few of my gfs say their guys don't like it...... Which is it - love toys or hate toys?

2007-01-08 08:04:55 · 17 answers · asked by ? 4

and still keep the relationship with ur gf going ?

2007-01-08 08:04:15 · 36 answers · asked by bigboobsucker 1

I see this guy at my church almost every Sunday. I really don't believe in going onto eharmony. I really like this guy. I have told him that I want to go on the mission field but now he won't talk to me. What do I do?

2007-01-08 08:02:01 · 9 answers · asked by blazek35 5

So me and buddy of mine were cruising down the road and we noticed these two chicks ahead of us, their car broke down in the middle of the road. If they were hot chicks we would have offered our services but when they got out of car, they were ok looking chicks. They screamed at us to help them and I rolled the windows up, switched the lanes and ran away. Before I roll the windows up, I heard she said we were jerks. What was big deal about that? Why chick's has to abuse me and my friends like that?

2007-01-08 08:02:00 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

alright if there are 2 guys: one who is more blatantly a jackass upon first impression and the other who upon first meeting appears pretty genuine, why more often than not is the jackass the one a large majority of you ladies will give a chance to hook up with? I know there are a select few of you who appreciate a good guy for what he's worth but for those of you don't, what is so difficult about flipping the script for once in a while? This question is for you ladies who whine about being burned time and time again by the same type of no good low down and dirty dogs of men, and yet don't even bother to try dating a different type of man.
From our end it would appear that the qualities you find lacking in the men you trap yourselves with are the same qualities that appear to turn you off from us.

2007-01-08 08:01:55 · 14 answers · asked by donbenecio 4

My live in gf/fiance of said we were on hiatus after we got in a fight and kicked me out of my house after two years...
talked to her a few times since, then i get this email today...

Today we cut loose all the baggage of the past and start new,
There is no security there are no guarantees, there is no future in mind,
Today I met you. Although I know things about you, as you know things about me, neither one of us know if the other is someone we truly want to be with,
We are willing to meet anew (with who we are today) and see if we see anything in each other that is worth pursuing.
There is space for introspection who are you, who am I, what do we want out of life individually
There are no rules, just two people meeting again
There are no fights or things to harp on from the past as there is no past, it's a clean start that won't necessarily lead anywhere.

Is this for real or is this just some long slow, weak, break up? What do I do???

2007-01-08 08:01:46 · 6 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4

Were you happily surprised or dissapointed?

2007-01-08 08:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by Michele 3

not here for jokes, just info
Magnum XL condoms.

2007-01-08 08:00:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

for example the guy dosent call for 6 months and you are wondering were your love of your life is and all a sudden they call 1 time and you have to call him !!! and he doent like your mom and you wanted him to come over for your birthday for 4 hours to see you after 6 months what would you do hang on cuz you love him or let him go and if you let him go how long would you wait to get a new guy???

2007-01-08 08:00:55 · 30 answers · asked by LTH DarkAngel 1

who is much famouse?

2007-01-08 07:59:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf's mom is extremely nice and told me that I can go anywhere with them whenever I want because she knows I don't get along with my family. Well, my bf has a swim meet tomorrow and people have told me that a girl at that school had a thing with my bf at swim camp. She will be there tomorrow and I want to go, but I don't know if I should ask his mom to take me. She did say that I could ask anytime, but I don't want to invite myself. By the way, I'm 15.

2007-01-08 07:59:32 · 11 answers · asked by tadpole 2

Most MEN and WOMEN say it when they don't even mean it. And sorry to break it to you ladies....most of us men only use it to get you in the sack.

2007-01-08 07:58:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-08 07:56:16 · 17 answers · asked by rizzag19 1

Stranger approaches you and asks you to lunch that day. Do you go?? Assuming he's cute enough.

2007-01-08 07:55:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

LOL...I posted this last night and he just told me he would call again when I saw him about 20 minutes ago.

I already can accept that a guy who does not call is NOT that into me. But, there is this one guy who keeps initiating contact and suggesting we do stuff. I say sure, whatever. Then, he never calls.

He sent me an email last week full of excuses why he didn't and he would call if I was still interested. I was non-chalant about and just said "call whenever...I am pretty busy." I never would let a guy know I would wait for him if he isn't into me.

What I really want to say is "dude...look I know you're not that into me so you're off the hook. don't worry about ever calling me again." But I guess there is no point in that hostile behavior.

By the way, this dude is 37 almost 38. So, I would think someone is done with dumb games by now.

What is the effing point?????

2007-01-08 07:55:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay... I am going to be honest and say that I have my boyfriends e-mail address password... this is the same thing he uses for everything, so my curiosity got to me, and i've checked his e-mail... (i know i know that is bad) but we've had a past about him being deceitful, and i've always given him the benefit of the doubt. First when we were brand new dating, he lied to another girl about me... gave her the run around as well as denied me... long story, I got over it... then in my house caught him watching/downloading porn on MY computer... "he wouldn't do it again" then i caught him hiding porn and his excuse..."I didn't think you would want to watch them..." well no $***! that was an argument, but feel I got the point across... told him I came to expect that he would still do it... (he is a guy) but I've been checking his e-mail and he always has messages from porn sites... "you have a new message" so and so wants to meet you...
I know I shouldn't be checking up on him...

2007-01-08 07:53:44 · 14 answers · asked by ShyGirl 2

I'm curious before i give my heart away.

2007-01-08 07:53:34 · 25 answers · asked by Victorio 2

my fiance and I have had this argument about 10 times now. Whenever he is away, (we don't live together) sometimes it's so difficult to talk on the phone to him because he just sits there. Then I get upset so I just sit there and noone says anything. Then he gets all defensive about it if I complain about it. I know this is a typical guy thing and that talking on the phone is not on most guys top 10 favorite things ever list. But last night he just got SO mad and said he feels like he trys SO hard but always disappoints me and that he sucks as a boyfriend. Which is of course not true. I've told him before that I just feel like he doesn't really want to talk to me or that the only reason I get upset is because he gets so mad about it...anyway, I tried to apologize last night and he wouldn't even txt me back and he's still mad at me today so I don't know what else I can do...

2007-01-08 07:52:07 · 6 answers · asked by Katie Beth 2

2007-01-08 07:51:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

well ya know i like him alot and yea ia m the same chick that keeps asking about mitchel and yea i like him ALOT and c i woudl ask him out,but yea i am afraid he might say no or sumtin lik that and then it would b so hard to like talk ot him anymore i don't want to ruin wat friend ship we already have so that is y iam waiting sor him to ask me out?

2007-01-08 07:51:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have just spent the weekend with my bf in berlin. it was a present from him for my birthday. we haven't been seeing each other for very long and i was a little bit overwhelmed with his generosity but i went. we were having such a good time for the first couple of days but then i got drunk and messed up. i am a self harmer and have a mental illness. i have been honest with him since the start about it and so far he has been a great support.

we went out and had a couple of drinks but i ended up having a black moment and lashed out at him. i ended up cutting myself in the hotel room. he was understandably upset and we had a row. he barely spoke to me all the way back, although did sit and hold my hand on the plane. i know i have really hurt him and think he may be about to finish things because i am too much to cope with. i know i am totally in the wrong but i am really starting to fall for him and will be devestated if he finishes this. have i messed this up? what do i do now?

2007-01-08 07:51:10 · 27 answers · asked by queenjoef 2

just one thing

2007-01-08 07:51:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy and my friend gave him a note from my side saying that. Now this guy is showing everybody the note and he is like " I don't even know this girl." And to top that, I went up to his friend and said, "I don't like your friend." Now that I feel like a typical moron, what am I supposed to do to proper this up???????

2007-01-08 07:50:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have made it clear that I don`t want to spend time with this woman and her child until we get to a point where we are both sure we want a relationship together. I believe it is unfair to the child to see different people walk in and out of their lives.

2007-01-08 07:49:38 · 18 answers · asked by Sinnistergrin 2