I seen my man two days after christmas,and he told me to call him on Friday and he would come and get me. I called and called and still have not heard from him. We have been together for a year and half and has never done this to me before. I don't if maybe he broke up but has no balls to tell me ,I just don't understand. We didn't have a fight either before he left so I know it couldn't of been that. So I was hopeing that some one could give me some idea or help me out with this thanks.
2007-01-08 08:07:12 · 13 answers · asked by Baby Doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know why everyone is telling you to move on but i will say the exact opposite, alright you've been with this man for a yr now n it still seems like u love him cos you are concern about him, well you haven't seen dis man two days after christmas, he didn't receive your calls , well mainly what i will first think of is maybe he broke up with me but im sure it might not be that, the man has been with u for a yr, im sure he can tell you if he want to break up with you or not. there might be something bad going on in his life that he just wanna take a few days to figure out bfor he come to you, he might even be planning on how he's gonna propose to you for all that matter, well what i will suggest for you to do is dont wait around but still try and call him, if he's man enough he will pick up but after a week and you haven't hear from him then you can simply move on and im sure his sorry *** will come back to apologise but atleast still call him and still be expecting from him cos then he will know you care.
2007-01-08 08:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by 9jagurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you live in the same area you should go ahead and go to his home.It could be anything,he could've been involved in an accident for all you know.You can't jump to conclusions that it's over since you haven't seen or heard from him.
So first things first go get signs of life..After you establish that sit on his front porch and wait for him because its time to have a talk on where you both stand in this relationship.
After you have that talk then you need to go home eat some ice cream and just THINK.Either you are no longer together and you need to wrap your mind around the whole SINGLES scene again.Or you've forgiven him but still need to mull over if you made the right choice.Either way that ice cream is going to be a very handy thinking tool so don't forget to get some on your way home:)
Hope this helps you and good luck I hope it all works out for the best.And I am sorry if it doesn't go well but remember he may have just been apart of a small lesson to prepare you for a much larger and more intense relationship some time down the road.I thought that way about all my personal relationships each one was but a single patch of THE quilt to marriage :)
Blessed Be,
M.Gard
2007-01-08 08:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by Malia G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's been really busy. Does he have a job? Is he in school? All of these might be issues that are making him busy. If he has a cell phone, then there shouldn't be so much trouble getting a hold of him. Don't jump to conclusions either, that may get you in deeper than you want to be. Just be patient, don't get snappy. Leave him a message concerning that you are very worried where he may have disappeared to and tell him to call you. Tell him you miss him, and be sure to not get too out-of-wack without him (I know it might be a little hard).
Good luck to you :).
2007-01-08 08:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to declare this as i comprehend you particularly like her, even nevertheless it sounds to me like she isn't very fascinated. If a woman particularly likes you, she will have the skill to oftentimes examine her telephone to make certain in case you have called. the certainty that she isn't answering your calls and switching her telephone off isn't a good sign. If it purely handed off as quickly as, then which would be proper, yet as you're saying, that's happening too oftentimes. She won't in any respect be that into you and that i've got my suspicions which you're no longer the only guy she is courting on the 2d. locate somebody who likes you and pass on.
2016-11-27 20:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple. He's keeping you on the hook while he tries his luck with another girl. When the new girl doesn't work out, he finds his way back to you. Trust me, if a man loved you, you would be on his mind all the time, and he certainly wouldn't leave you hanging for two weeks. You're not on his mind and he obviously doesn't love you. Leave him. Now.
2007-01-08 08:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he either has no balls, which in that case is proof that YOU need to move on, OR he is missing do u have other numbers to call him ? Just call to ask if he is even alive or not, so YOU can move on as well
2007-01-08 08:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit calling him. And sounds like he has moved on!
2007-01-08 08:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would write him and thank him for his time and tell him it is over seeing as how it sounds basicaly like it is already.
2007-01-08 08:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him before he dumps you, or stop calling him and maybe he will call you if he thinks that you don't like him anymore.
2007-01-08 08:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by rennat167 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Something could be going on in his life, like a death or something, so you should wait longer.
2007-01-08 08:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by K 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋