My bf's mom is extremely nice and told me that I can go anywhere with them whenever I want because she knows I don't get along with my family. Well, my bf has a swim meet tomorrow and people have told me that a girl at that school had a thing with my bf at swim camp. She will be there tomorrow and I want to go, but I don't know if I should ask his mom to take me. She did say that I could ask anytime, but I don't want to invite myself. By the way, I'm 15.
2007-01-08 07:59:32 · 11 answers · asked by tadpole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've already gone places with his family and I absolutely LOVE THEM!!!!!!!!! By the way, none of why friends are going so his mom is my only option unless I want to ride my bike 30 miles....ouch! lol
2007-01-08 08:07:03 · update #1
he denies ever liking this girl....i'm kinda curious to meet her
2007-01-08 08:14:24 · update #2
When I ask her, what do i say?
2007-01-08 08:46:27 · update #3
I think you should go ahead and ask if it's alright if you go with them.This way you can test the waters for future outtings with them and you can handle your other agenda.
Good Luck,
M.Gard
2007-01-08 08:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by Malia G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go. Play a little hard to get. Don't tag along with him everywhere like a little puppy. He should ask you to go if he wants you to go. And if he wants to chat with his old girlfriend while you're not around, let him. If you were there, it might just make him resentful that you are cramping his style.
2007-01-08 16:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he'd mind you going along. If he says that he doesn't mind you going, then no problem! Tag along and cheer him on. If he says that he'd rather you not go, just ask why politely. After all, if he's your boyfriend then he should give you a good, legitimate excuse as to why he wouldn't want you with him at all times!
2007-01-08 16:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to support your bf, even if it means asking his mom. she said that you could tag along anytime that means she thinks you are a pretty good person, just don't be to imposing.
2007-01-08 16:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by BMW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask him be like so do u care if i come 3 ur meet and if he says yes then belike well can ur mom take me or slip it in conversation
2007-01-08 16:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by BigBallerGurl2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell his mom.
She sounds nice enough, If I was you, I would tell her my motives, and say that you want to go, but you don't have a ride.
I'm 15 too, and that's what I would do.
2007-01-08 16:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go. Sounds like you have an open invite!
2007-01-08 16:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Gooza_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can just give a hint and say I would love to see him perform at his swim camp
2007-01-08 16:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young puppy love! Go because if you don't you will be worrying about nothing
2007-01-08 16:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by luckycharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her, and you will hate your self for not going and seeing if that other girl is there, so go, there is nothing to worry about
2007-01-08 16:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋