I see this guy at my church almost every Sunday. I really don't believe in going onto eharmony. I really like this guy. I have told him that I want to go on the mission field but now he won't talk to me. What do I do?
2007-01-08 08:02:01 · 9 answers · asked by blazek35 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a really nice guy and really cute. I am in my 30's and want to get married, how do I get a guy to like me?
2007-01-08 08:04:01 · update #1
Just talk to him again, ask him how God is moving in his life. If he doesn't have the same call as you it won't work out. God bless!
2007-01-08 08:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you have to do before even thinking about marriage, is actually get to meet the guy. Just go up and talk to him, if he likes you, he will, if he doesn't... well, don't force things. Be casual, be yourself, don't try to be something you are not.
If you want to meet a guy for marriage, church is a great place to get a decent man, don't you ever to those singles bars, guys in those places are just not husband material.
Good luck and happy hunting! :D
2007-01-08 08:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by FireDragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always present yourself in a nice lady like way and make a point to locate him at your church. Don't be obvious though. If you do see him, get close enough to say Hi. He could be married, so be careful.
2007-01-08 08:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk too him about a diffrent subject and ask him how he feels about the mission field. and if he still doesn't respond in a good way he may not be worth your time.
2007-01-08 08:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anna M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just not interested in you! I don't mean to sound harsh by any means. Ask him what type of women do he like! What kind of things he likes to do? Honey him being cute and sweet will not pay you all bills if you get married.
2007-01-08 08:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by luckycharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you being with this guy is what God wants, then it'll happen. I think you should be more open to e harmony, because I think it helps people.
Pray about it and read the bible.
God will answer you.
2007-01-08 08:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there i know how that feels. just try and approach him again and see how he responds if he is looking around like he isn't paying attention then wait a little and see if he comes to you.. ya know play a little with it. guys can't stand if a girl shows interest in them and then stops, it gets them think and he will mostly approach you next.
hope this helps
2007-01-08 08:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself Hon. Plenty of guys out there you know.
2007-01-08 08:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by Erica R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are rushing. and haste makes waste! slow down. are you going to church for the sole purpose of getting a date?????
2007-01-08 08:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋