for example the guy dosent call for 6 months and you are wondering were your love of your life is and all a sudden they call 1 time and you have to call him !!! and he doent like your mom and you wanted him to come over for your birthday for 4 hours to see you after 6 months what would you do hang on cuz you love him or let him go and if you let him go how long would you wait to get a new guy???
2007-01-08 08:00:55 · 30 answers · asked by LTH DarkAngel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you treat your girlfriend like crap anyways? Anyone who does seriously needs to think... assholes... you treat your girlfriend like a queen, you make her happy and you center your life around her.
At least that is what I would do =D It would be cuddle time every night =3
2007-01-08 08:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're not seeing your boyfriend in six months, I don't think you can call him a boyfriend unless he's been out of the country or it's long distance. He seems to not want a relationship at all. If I had a boyfriend I would want to see or talk to him almost everyday. Not every six months.
The reason girlfriends get treated badly is because the girl lets it happen. The guy will test his limits. When he knows what he'll get away with he'll keep it up until you set your foot down. If a girl knows who she is and what she wants, she won't put up with anything. And if the guy realizes he can't get away with it, he'll most likely treat her the way she wants to be treated. It works for guys too.
Leave him. Find someone that will be there for you always!
2007-01-08 16:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have to wait for 6months for the love of your life just to call you! Snap out of it! He doesn't love you like you love him and besides you deserve better than that! If I was your mom I wouldn't like him either, you go mom! It is time to let your "Prince Charming" find you because, I can only imagine how many potential "good" men you've turned away for this loser! I hate it when a woman has been scorned and it is always the "good" guys who have to suffer. Let down your guard and start a new life with someone who is worthy of you. Good luck,sister!
2007-01-08 16:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i wouldnt waste my time on a guy who never calls. and if he had a problem with my mother, he'd be gone in a heartbeat. guys will treat girls like crap bc the girls let them! if you are dating someone and they do something to really hurt your feelings.. say bye bye!! it's the same reason why guys cheat.. if you forgive them the first time then they know that they've gotten away with it and they will most likely cheat again.
i say find a new guy... or have fun being single!!! life is too short to worry about a guy who doesnt treat you right! look at it this way.. he's doing you a favor.. he's proving that he doesnt deserve you!
remember... first time, shame on him... second time, shame on you! good luck!
2007-01-08 16:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by lucia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to understand yourself - most people tend to follow the same patterns there parents set.
Not all men treat girls bad it is all about how they were raised - and that is why you need to look at yourself to understand why your attracted to someone who is like that in the first place.
If you want to be happy and in a GOOD relationship you need to look at yourself and figure out what qualities you look for - self examination it the first step in breaking the cycle of being with men who do not treat you right.
Good Luck
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2007-01-08 16:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Dianna R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treats you like crap what is the point in being with him. I know the type and he can't make you happy. Actually no guy can mek you happy you have to find that in yourself before you are ready to think about someone else. If you are happy and confident then you will find someone who will make you feel like a princess cos you'll know what you need for that to happen.
Ditch the wasters and enjoy the single life for a while. Contrary to popular belief there is NOTHING wrong with being single!!!! Be with your friends, be with yourself and make yourself happy!
2007-01-08 16:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Starkitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The stupidest mistake a girl can make is to stay with a jerk "becase she loves him."
There are nice guys in the world. Find one. It doesn't matter if it takes 2 days or 2 years. Don't stay with any guy who takes advantage of you.
Remember, if you let a guy treat you like crap, he will.
2007-01-08 16:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by loves2fly84095 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight. He didnt call you for 6 months and you still considered him your boyfriend?
If someone did that to me Id have been out looking for a new one after a month. You have some self esteem issues.
2007-01-08 16:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys think they have all the control and can do anything they want. Some women are too scared to leave relationships like this because they think the guy might do something to them.
2007-01-08 16:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by jjc92787 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quite simple... dump the idiot of a guy coz he's clearly not intersted and if you get another offer grab the guy but make sure then new one treats you with the respect you deserve...if he treats you anything other than the princess he should treat a woman like then tell him where to go very politely like i have before... he is the one missing out NOT YOU! :O)
2007-01-08 16:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by giantbutton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋