Singles & Dating - 5 January 2007

My ex broke up with me and we were constantly fighting but I was always trying to make it work because I love him. Two days after the break, he finds another girlfriend and I met her two weeks ago. The thing is we decided to be friends and it's worked Okay (cuz Im still hurt) except for when he mentions her. And Im wondering if it should hurt as much as I feel. I want to still be friends with him, but Im wondering if that pain will ever go away especially since he was my first love and I gave him everything.

2007-01-05 16:49:59 · 12 answers · asked by J 2

i am 17, and i am awfully lonely.i know i am young, and i know that i have to be patient. trust me, i am. i am a good guy an all aspects, why is it that i am single? can someone give me some pointers?

2007-01-05 16:49:07 · 1 answers · asked by lyrical.disaster 2

I expressed my interest by email . Should I feel 'ASHAMED' about expressing my interest because now he hassaid that he has a girlfriend? Did I do the right thing by expressing my interest in him. I really wanted to find out what was happening in his life.

2007-01-05 16:48:38 · 7 answers · asked by biologie 1

I feel bummed out someone cher me up
plez I hate my life i'm always worred about
my weight i'm 245 chubby and i'm to scared
to even talk to a girl that I think is hot and I
been told she like's me but I don't no what
the deal is with me someone help me plez.

2007-01-05 16:48:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy st school is really popular and really hot but lately he has been staring at me alot everytime i turn around he is always there and yesterday he was talking to my best friend and she told me he wanted to know my name. does this mean he likes me? the thing is i'm nothing like him. i'm shy i hardly ever talk to guys.
what should i do??

2007-01-05 16:48:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-05 16:46:58 · 8 answers · asked by BadBoy L 2

I know this is an awkward question but I had to ask it. I have a boyfriend, I am STRAIGHT. But I just find the idea of doing things with my best friends so hot...it turns me on because it's so bad. But my best friends would most likely think I was nuts or a lesbian if I asked to do things with them. How do you bring something like that up!?!?

2007-01-05 16:42:56 · 33 answers · asked by ashley r 1

2007-01-05 16:42:29 · 26 answers · asked by exec1988 1

After a guy has decided he is not interested in dating a certain girl, she needs to believe someone else is out there and finds her worthy of his love, how does a girl project that she belives she is worth something without appearing arrogant and yet not leak out her fear of another rejection with other guys. I hear that fear is what causes most people to act irrational and scares people away and still the possibility of rejection real with every new situation.

2007-01-05 16:41:57 · 14 answers · asked by java348 2

because of your own ignorance, arrogance, or stupidity?

2007-01-05 16:39:47 · 1 answers · asked by INFINITE CONSCIOUSNESS 5

My girlfriend and I have been going out for about a month and a half, is third base rushing it?

2007-01-05 16:39:18 · 7 answers · asked by Harry B 2

Other than the obvious...like love, kisses, etc.

2007-01-05 16:38:23 · 21 answers · asked by Texas Bound 2

Please help!! I'm so confused.

2007-01-05 16:37:25 · 31 answers · asked by Miss D 7

My fiancée and I are young and recently engaged. She is older than me and wants to go clubbing on her 18th birthday. lol. Is that faithful? Aren't clubs places to bump and grind on guys and to meet and possibly hook up with them, as well. I'm worried and obviously insecure. I trust her, but couldn't she just wait a couple months til we're both old enough to get into the same club? =[ Any advice? Also, is there a higher chance of a taken guy going to a club and cheating or girl- statistically speaking, of course. Thanks

2007-01-05 16:35:48 · 10 answers · asked by baby_wrestler 3

I've been alone for a long, long time, too long really, I try to keep a positive outlook on it, I know when it comes to solitude, it will end when it's good and ready and eventually you will find someone. But sometimes the patience required is a little to demanding, because of this I've been in a sort of depression for a couple of days now and I can't seem to shake it, normally when I get like this I think that eventually it will end and it helps and I feel better, but for some reason I can't get rid of this feeling now, it doesn't seem to help anymore. When do you know your done with the patience, when you can't handle it anymore, cause I think I'm beginning to get there.

2007-01-05 16:35:37 · 9 answers · asked by Sentinel 3

2007-01-05 16:35:17 · 1 answers · asked by Brie 2

Two months ago I told this guy to stop talking about getting together with me. Although we still talked about personal stuff, we stopped flirting. In the meantime I started wanting to see him again. He works with me but lives out of State.

Last week, during normal work conversation, he casually tells me he is going to be in my town next month on work travel. I just continued our conversation and didn't say anything about getting together. I didn't want to appear to be pursuing him.

This week I told him that I was travelling to work in his city and asked if he was going to be in town. He told me he would be in town and then said maybe I'll see you.

By asking him if he is going to be in town, is it obvious that I meant that I want to see him when I am in town? Should I just assume that he isn't interested in seeing me?

2007-01-05 16:34:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl (17) that I think likes me (not sure if she's just being friendly). She plays the piano and is pretty good at it. So this one day she played it with me watching her. We were talking when she played but then she said "you wanna become my #1 fan?? *laughs* just kidding just kidding" Do you guys think this means she likes me or is she just being friendly and normal stuff?
Thanks

2007-01-05 16:34:23 · 5 answers · asked by jai l 1

2007-01-05 16:32:40 · 6 answers · asked by 7 black roses 1

2007-01-05 16:32:30 · 11 answers · asked by Ashmita 1

I love ya does NOT mean the same thing as "I love you."
Why can't he just say I love you?

Does "I love ya" basically mean...as friends?

:(

2007-01-05 16:32:29 · 23 answers · asked by Kortney 1

My girlfreind of a 2 months recently broke up with me. Its been about a week since I've talked to her and just yesterday I asked her to hang out as freinds.I know that 2 months isnt a long time but I still really like her and wanna get back together with her but she said she just wants to be friends, and I dont want to be clingy.And I tried getting over her but everything thats around me reminds me of her .And I only like wanna see her b/c I miss her like crazy. So what should I say , act like and do when we hang out.

2007-01-05 16:31:36 · 16 answers · asked by Titans 1101 1

2007-01-05 16:31:05 · 9 answers · asked by sallienjim 2

2007-01-05 16:28:37 · 12 answers · asked by Miss D 7

I was involved with a man for a few years. We broke up and within less than 2 months he was seeing someone else and rumor has it (our local paper) they were married. He swore up and down that he was not involved with anyone else when we were together. Why is it so easy for men to move on?

2007-01-05 16:28:06 · 5 answers · asked by Nan of Many 2

were teenagers so no old people above 18 and we only like black boys and maybe mixed ones with black in them or puerto ricans but dats it our emails for i.m is starbabygurl16@yahoo.com and sisterasb@yahoo.com me starbabygurl perfer tall boys 6ft and taller my friend sisterasb perfer boys 5'5 and above light skin or brown skin so hit us up we waiting...........................

2007-01-05 16:28:02 · 4 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2

I have a "friend" will call em, that for along time has asked people about me, made up stories about my doing not so nice things, just all in my mix. Mostly in a bad way, but then when he is around me he is always talkative and seems too interested in what I am talking about. There is obvious friction but is it chemistry. Is he acting like a 1st grader on the playground who hits the girl he likes. If he doesnt like me, why do I think this

2007-01-05 16:27:14 · 13 answers · asked by Miss Green 2

I've been seeing this guy for 2 months. I am 22 and he is 28. He is the most wonderful and generous guy I have ever come across! I recently moved away but plan on returning to his area within the next 6 months. We haven't really talked about what we are going to do about the future. He has a personal family issue to deal with right now so a relationship is something he is not ready for, but he assures me that he thinks I am great and loves being around me. He has told me that right now it wouldn't be fair to start a relationship because he has to spend a lot of time with his dying father. Which I completely understand. When we are together its like time stands still. I really could see myself settling with him which scares me because I have had a past with being "flaky" with men. Should I still work on seeing him and waiting for when he is ready? I hate to let him go because of bad timing with me moving and his family issues. I really really like him! ahh help!

2007-01-05 16:26:53 · 12 answers · asked by mambo209 1

In my intire life I have been people before my on feelings. To me if I make other people happy than that is fine with me but lately i've been trying to make myself happy and eerybody is saying that I have let them down. I really don't like feeling that I have let people down. It makes my sad when I do to the point to where I want to cry. I realy want to make everybody happy but I don't know how any more. Everything that I have done in my life has lead to me not being happy because I have let people down. Im trying so hard not to do that but it neer fells me doing that. People have always trusted me to do everything but as soon as I can't help or do something they always get mad. Im never just not letting people down. I have to always help always be the one to help. I don't know what to do without it. What's wrong with me? Am I suppose to be happy? Do I have to make other people happy to be happy? I don't know what im suppose to do any more. I just......???????

2007-01-05 16:26:50 · 9 answers · asked by chinquittia_john18 2

2007-01-05 16:25:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous