After a guy has decided he is not interested in dating a certain girl, she needs to believe someone else is out there and finds her worthy of his love, how does a girl project that she belives she is worth something without appearing arrogant and yet not leak out her fear of another rejection with other guys. I hear that fear is what causes most people to act irrational and scares people away and still the possibility of rejection real with every new situation.
2007-01-05 16:41:57 · 14 answers · asked by java348 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-05 16:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pover think this. Rejection is reality. It sucks but it happens. If you already have good selfesteem you would'nt even care. If you are truely scared step back and take a look at the big picture. 1 person out of 1000000000000 people doesn't want to be your bf so what. It';s all in how you look at it. Feel good about you and don't be scared of things that can't in all reality do any real damage. Worrying is like rocking in a rocking chair. You can rock all you want but your not gonna go anywhere. In other words worring does nothing for you.
2007-01-06 00:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can act as if nothing happened. Try to meet other people and go on with your life. If you've been rejected, what of it? There are a lot of fish in the ocean. Maybe it just means that he's not meant for you. It's not the end of the world and dwelling on it is most certainly not worth your time. It's his loss, you see?
2007-01-06 00:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is usually what attracts a man to a woman... you just gotta keep yourself in check. Remind yourself that you are good looking and that any guy would be lucky to have someone like you. Don't let some jerk get you down in the dumps because there are plenty more men that are just as good as the last.
2007-01-06 00:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by TalkingTomato 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you find 55 way to get rejected and one that doesn't. it is life and a learning process. take each and every experience and learn both the good and bad from each one The only way you can succeed is to fail , other wise where does all the wisdom come from. every one falls when they are learning, and I hope I never stop. because I can get up one more time than I fall
2007-01-06 00:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen darling, the way to project confidence and to get the approval of whatever man you desire is NOT to need it in the first place - and make SURE that this man knows it! (Well, in your case you do need it, but he doesn't have to know that)
Your job is to make certain that the man is working hard to get your approval. Why? Because if the man is working hard to get and/or keep your approval then it really doesn't matter if you have his. Trying to get one's approval is a very distracting thing, which by the way is good for you. Why? Because as long as he's trying to get your approval he's too distracted to disapprove of you.
2007-01-06 00:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by Heaven's Messenger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first stop trying so hard!! your overthinking this and its going to drive you crazy!! all you should do is just be yourself. don't worry about what others think and you won't have to worry about what may or may not happen. believe it or not, it's when your not looking for mr. right that he will come along. the harder you try to make something happen the more dissapointed you'll be, so let it go. start doing things for yourself, things that make you happy, and when you least expect it you will find a good guy. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-01-06 00:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think life is just a box of chocolates myself..watch forrest gump and how he is with jenny...how she will on and off reject him but take him back. you have to take risks...i mean i have done some rejecting and was rejected. being the rejectee you have to just say well if there was no such thing, it would be hard to find that special someone. good luck...and just exude confidence...if they reject you then just fine someone that will accept you.
2007-01-06 00:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventhough this is some kind of a depriving feeling if the man is realy your type of guy..i think i just stay the same as if nothing had happened and hold my head high thingking,"u'll b sorry u missed the chance to have me!!"u can't mess me up,i'm gorgeous!!!
2007-01-06 00:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by unpredictable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever ride a bike and fall off? Did that stop you from getting back on and having fun?
Do you see where I'm going here?
2007-01-06 00:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay busy surround yourself with supportive friends and smile even when you are dying inside if you must cry dont let him see you project confidence especially when you dont feel it never let him see you sweat
2007-01-06 00:46:34 · answer #11 · answered by reno_tony_casino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋