Singles & Dating - 3 January 2007

my boyfiend broke up with me nearly 3 weeks ago, i did nothing wrong and would have done anything for him, he just said he didn't feel the same about me anymore. we went out for 2 months and go to the same college yet we make no more contact with each other. i still care for him and it hurts every time i see him, i just can't seem to let go, i keep thinking he might come back to me but deep down i know its over, i mean if we were to get back together something would of happened by now wouldn't it? he would of kept contact. how do i stop kidding myself like this?

2007-01-03 06:50:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating a guy for a month now. He calls me his girlfriend, when sober and when not and to his friends. But, when he drinks (which has been going on a lot because of school break), he is a lot more affectionate with me. Such as kissing, hugging, cuddling, etc. When he is sober we have never 'made out', only pecks, and hugs. I have talked to my gf I made that is his friend's wife. She says his true feelings come out when he drinks, that he is shy when not. So I guess my question is, do you think these drunk feelings are his true feelings? Should I talk to him about this, or wait and see what comes of it since it's only been a month?

2007-01-03 06:49:16 · 32 answers · asked by Krystal H 1

I have been playing nice kid to my officer coworker who is mid 40's, only coz her daughter chick is hot. With one hope that old chick will tell me that her daughter chick is single and she wants to see aaibmiester. Instead, she invited other jerk sausage from my work to see her daughther. That's messed up. Her daughter chick is missing out on great guy.

2007-01-03 06:47:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 06:46:47 · 12 answers · asked by yup 1

I need help and advice on how to change my ways, I've broken so many hearts not really meaning to, but doing stupid stuff I shouldn't be doing: lying, being an ***, just basically not treating a girl right and I've come down to it, im just too immature when it comes to this sort of thing. However, I feel so depressed about it and I want to change; a complete 180, i want to stop being the person i am when it comes to girls and be a man who appreciates his woman and wants to be with her and wants to committ and wants to be the perfect gentlemen. Some will say I havent found the right girl...some will say I'm just born an asshole and will never change, well, I want to change damnit. Im tired of being this guy who gets shitted on and ***** up every single relationship and being disrespected by everyone who was friends with that certain girl....im in a horrible situation and Im facing the music as we speak, I want to be a better 24 year old. I want to treat women well. I need your help...

2007-01-03 06:46:00 · 17 answers · asked by chrisj7682 2

i was just wonderin... cuz like a lot of my X bf's always want sex but i am u know??? is that weird or what? should i change or just keep to myself?

2007-01-03 06:45:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 06:44:47 · 4 answers · asked by cm_crazy13 1

Well,it was the Friday before Christmas and i really was fine but now my car is all messed up.My exfiance wasn't talking to me until the accident and now he's acting all worried and ****.But I don't know if he really cares or not.But he asked me back like the next day but he had only been talking to me cuz he was worried if i was ok.He knows I am alright but I don't know if he's with me cuz he wants to be or out of pitty.It was my fault when we broke up before cuz I cheated on him and he told me he would never forgive me but now he's asking me back and telling me he loves me and ****.what do I do.Everytime I ask him he says it's because he loves me but I don't know.

2007-01-03 06:44:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that you may have loved or liked that person alot but its OVER...So its obviously not meant to be. Why does everyone ask questions like "How can I get my ex back" or "how can I get thier attention". The more you ask questions like that, the harder it is going to be for you! Back away a little bit and let them realize what they lost. Let it go and if they come back then it may have been meant for you!

2007-01-03 06:43:15 · 14 answers · asked by Tink 2

Okay so I like this girl and she likes me, we hooked up (kissed, im only 15) on new years. She says she still likes me but she doesnt want to "go out" because she is under stress. She said she doesnt want any titles. She suggested we be friends with benefits (at my age and maturity the furthest we'd go would be head). When i see her in school she is not cold to me but isnt as warm as she is on aol or outside of school. She says she is shy and reserved also. I am just wondering, can someone actually like you and not want to go out but be friends with benefits instead? and is this just leading down a parth where she says in a week, just friends or is this leading to going out.
I should also note:
She is hotter than me
She says she is just under stress, and when we talk on aol she is fairly open and says she likes me

2007-01-03 06:42:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i asked a similar question earlier,but everytime i am alone, which i am a lot, or just bored, he comes into my mind. i miss him so much! he broke my heart, and i told him a while back i didnt like him anymore, and im afraid to tell him i do now, but we listen to like the same music, and everytime i hear a song that he likes it makes me sad and really think about him. anyone have any suggestions to get him out of my head, or to fix my problem? i know you might say move on, i've tried, and i have dated other guys but this guy really seemed like the right one for me...

2007-01-03 06:41:19 · 7 answers · asked by Cephalopod Chicka 2

theres this guy whom i really like and he said he loves me, he also texted me with lots of kisses and he once asked me to marry him, he always goes on my website and says nice comments like how much he misses me, but his friend told me that he is well known for saying this phrase ' i dont believe in love, i am not looking for anything, everybody is my friend, i love this life' does this mean he was just flirting with me and he does this with loadsa girls, am so confused, i dont think he likes me atall now, what do you guys think?

2007-01-03 06:40:59 · 17 answers · asked by Suriyah 2

2007-01-03 06:40:22 · 7 answers · asked by cm_crazy13 1

its almost one year and i have no clues about her please advice me iam helpless still in love with the girl who betrayed me what can i do if u have an answer pls mail me on khaleelullashariff@yahoo.com

2007-01-03 06:40:16 · 3 answers · asked by raf's 1

I have been divorced 2 years, have 3 children, and the only guys that are attracted to me are ones that are already taken. And, one young ****** that doesn't like my children. Mind you, he still wants to date me, just doesn't want me as a whole package. Is there hope for me or am I going to become and old maid?

2007-01-03 06:39:55 · 6 answers · asked by southern belle 2

My fiance LOVES when I b.low him (big surprise right?) but he's of the type that it seems impossible to make him c.um by just doing that. I've known some guys who have said "you'll never make me c.um doing it" but I've always proven them wrong, not this time! I simply can't make him, he seems to need to be inside of me (though oddly enough, he can make himself c.um?). I just don't get it and want someone...guys, ladies, whoever, to tell me what you've done when you were faced with this and more importantly, did it work? He's thrilled that I actually want him to c.um in my mouth, because obviously so many women disdain this, but my job is to please him, and if that will please him, then that's what I want to do. Any suggestions (and don't be gross about it please).

2007-01-03 06:39:16 · 18 answers · asked by Brandy 6

Ladies, in your opinion which type of guy would you reccommend for your friend if you were to set her up on a blind date and why would you choose who you did? I need help deciding. Here are the potential candidates:

1) Downhome Country Boy loves to show & raise horses. Knows value of $. Has always had to work for everything himself. Loves to drink whiskey & have small house parties. shaggy brown hair & goatee. Weight~ 200 Height~6'0

2) Uptown Chicago Gangsta~ loves to flaunt money, expensive clothes,& flashy cars. Long black hair,tounge ring, tattoos, & cocky attitude. Also a BIG drinker/smoker. Weighs ~125 and~5'6.

3) Sloppy Hippie Guy w/ never combed long sholder length hair, baggy pants, and always a tye-dye shirt. He weighs about 270 and is about 5'7. Plays guitar, smokes, drinks like a fish. Very Smart, though.

4) Nerdy Chemistry/Video Game Lover~ Very Smart, but never had a girlfriend. Long curly hair, tan, Italian, w/ glasses. ~ 160 & 5'6. Drinks occasionally.

2007-01-03 06:38:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever dated or been married to a guy that you were not attracted to. Did you have a more attractive guy on the side.and did you take things from your unattractive friend for the benefit of your on the side friend. Such as money, or take his car to pick up your side friend etc. Did you do things for your side (more attractive) friend that you did not do for the guy that you were in a relationship with.

2007-01-03 06:37:57 · 14 answers · asked by deeman 1

Is a 40 years or so, who was divorced, his wife left because he is very moody, and has a bad temper, now he doe not have many "real" friends around , so he spends most of the evenings chating with married women older than him, and most of his friends are people he met on the chat. Is he affraid of being left again? Or he is affraid to have a new relation He is a good guy, but he has internal problems , somehow he is aware of this, but he does not get any help. He said he is happy the way he is. but I CAN TELL HE IS NOT.

2007-01-03 06:37:52 · 5 answers · asked by achoooo!!! 3

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2007-01-03 06:37:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 06:36:27 · 6 answers · asked by robz 1

My best guy friend and i have been friends since 5th grade. We went out last year in 8th grade but one of my girlfriends told me he wanted to break up with me so i broke up with him first. over the summer i started going out with my boyfriend (of 5 months as of now) and my guy friend got pissed off.We talked about how we broke up last year cause it was bugging me and i found out that he never was going to break up with me.And that he still likes me. And the more i think about it the more i realize that i still have feelings for him.But my boyfriend is amazing and great. but the other day i was supposed to go to a party with my guyfriend and my boyfriend wanted me to come over cause i was sick the day before so i couldnt go over and he made me feel totally guilty so i went ovr to his house instead. my guy friend got pissed off and said that i should break up with him because hes keeping me from my friends.should i go back to my guyfriend or stay with my boyfriend?

2007-01-03 06:36:16 · 8 answers · asked by Kay-Bianca 1

I met this guy in college.We have been talking online and in person ever since the first week of school.On the first night we ever talked, he asked me out.I turned him down saying that I didn't even know who he was really, which was true.He has since asked me out 2 other times.Both times w/ rejections b/c I was not sure I wanted to be in a relationship.Since then, we have both gotten and broken up w/ other people, but still have been drawn back to each other.It's crazy, but the more I talk to him, the more into him I become.The only thing is, I know my family will never approve.He's got long stringy black hair, tattoos, & a tounge ring.He's from Chicago & has a cocky attitude due to his parents' money and what he buys w/ it.He also drinks and smokes extensively.He comes off as someone who is unapproachable,but to me he's completely different.He's such a sweetheart.How do I get my family to see him the way I see him, and not only what's on the outside before I turn this into something??

2007-01-03 06:35:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 06:35:12 · 6 answers · asked by cm_crazy13 1

he doesn't know u but!!

2007-01-03 06:35:00 · 12 answers · asked by m.buffon 1

2007-01-03 06:34:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I should've included that as I have not heard from him for 24 hours and he's normally up my butt on the cell phone either calling or texting and I don't trust him as far as I can throw him. He insists that I leave my phone on 24/7 and if the shoe were on the other foot, he'd be at my office, my home, my mom's home and anywhere else he could think of wondering where in the heck I've been!! With that, how should I react?

2007-01-03 06:34:35 · 5 answers · asked by dot2mom 2

i dont have d picture rite now but email sexybackish@yahoo .my freind said 1 was prettier than d other but i think oppisite. pleaseee eeemmmaaaaiiilll . or i'll be fighting with her day and nite

2007-01-03 06:33:57 · 30 answers · asked by orlz 2

my man is married in his country and has 4 kids, he proposed to me and ask me to go to pakistan with him, when i asked him what would your wife say, he said she wouldn't mind and that we could stay in the same house and share him, i got pissed off and yelled on him. is this normal

2007-01-03 06:33:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was hanging out with my guy friend a few days ago and all of a sudden he started confusing me. He started kissing me on the forehead.. and in his car he took my hand and told me how cute.. but thats it. Is he trying to say he likes me without saying it... or is he just messing with my mind.

2007-01-03 06:32:54 · 8 answers · asked by Miss Shorty 2