I know that you may have loved or liked that person alot but its OVER...So its obviously not meant to be. Why does everyone ask questions like "How can I get my ex back" or "how can I get thier attention". The more you ask questions like that, the harder it is going to be for you! Back away a little bit and let them realize what they lost. Let it go and if they come back then it may have been meant for you!
2007-01-03 06:43:15 · 14 answers · asked by Tink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It takes time to get over them, its not going to happen in 2 days! But it will happen at its own pace...Just give it time.
2007-01-03 06:45:47 · update #1
AMEN..
For me when it's over it;s over he doesn't love me then i'll well i am not going to be crying my self for a guy that doesn't love me, I see it as a chapter in my life i went threw it went bad, learn from it and now let's go have some fun..
2007-01-03 06:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's hard to accept that the ideal you had of the person you were with is so drastically different that the reality of that person. So you bang your head against that wall over and over and over ... until you figure out that you are just plain hard-headed to be able to bang your head against a wall that long.
I guess it all depends on how successful you are at deceving yourself. I've been pretty good at it a couple of times. It seems totally silly in retrospect to hold out hope that people can be better than they, in fact, are. But having been there myself... ahhh well, that's how you learn--smile.
2007-01-03 15:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes breaking up is very hard to do, especially if you are really in love with a person..Sure its over physically but the love for a person never truly leaves and thats why breaking up (in some cases) is hard to do....Its called true love
2007-01-03 14:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you but its not as easy as you saying it!
i still think about my ex. I tired everything to get him out of my life. since i know his number by heart, sometime i want to call him. I don't want him back but there is some things unfinished! i want to pay back what he did to me! it just depend on who you are and how strong you are or how long it takes you to forgive your past and live the present!!!
so, i say don't judge them because its just the feeling have inside them and can't control!
2007-01-03 14:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people hold on for the "dream" and don't see reality staring them in the face.
2007-01-03 14:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry when I started to answer this I thought it was a question, sounds more like you answered your own question though, so my advice is worthless to you.
2007-01-03 14:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by crispcelerystick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because your used to be attached to this person and not having them there is really hard getting used to.it's hard having someone who you cared for just being gone and loving someone else.
2007-01-03 14:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph not me since I only love myself
2007-01-03 14:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, let them go... I have two amazingly beautiful ex-wives........ I love them both, I certainly don't want them back! Move on,,,,,,
2007-01-03 14:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by DWM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easier said than done
2007-01-03 14:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by icu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋