Singles & Dating - 2 January 2007

HOW DO YOU KEEP YOUR SEX LIFE ALIVE AND WELL? ME AND MY GIRLFRIEND ARE NOT HAVING SEX AS OFTEN AS WE HAVE IN THE PAST?

2007-01-02 02:14:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-02 02:14:08 · 5 answers · asked by aparajoy c 1

There's this guy who likes me alot. The problem is: He's the brother of my cousins husband. My cousin married this guy and this guy has a younger brother. He's 26 and I'm 28. He knows I've never dated before nor have I ever been in a relationship with anyone. I recently told him my age yet he continues to like me; which I'm happy about The other problem is: is he in a way my cousin? I never thought about it until my friend brought it up and told me that he's my cousin indireclty since his brother married my cousin. Is that true? I need advice as to what am I suppose to do. He likes me alot and he shows it by texting me everyday and calling me to see how I'm doing. He also stated that he really likes me and won't do anything to hurt me in any way. He says he'll be patient until I'm ready to date. What should I do? Thanks everyone :)

2007-01-02 02:14:01 · 10 answers · asked by amy_s03 1

on Christmas night he calls me again and he said he wants me to go abroad and then his parents can allow him to marry me. I said going abroad is not a problem for me but it’ll take time but he is pressurising me to go soon. I don’t know what he actually wants. On Christmas night his words shows that he really wants me back, He was not saying all those just for sake of saying but he really mean it. But on 1 Jan he call me again he said that I forget him and marry with a more deserving boy. And that word pinches me and disconnected the call.
Now I don’t know what to decide. Either I have to go with my plans of going abroad and give a chance to live this relationship or to move on and start again. But this is true that I can never forget him. He is my soul mate and he know it too that nobody can love him more than me. But still he changes his mind every day about me. I want him to stand with me but he is not co-operating. What I have to choose. But I know this he loves me, and he will never able to forget me also but what to do now? May be my one wrong step can lead to end of this relationship.
One thing I know that I can’t fell in love again because loving someone is not a game that If I failed once or twice I can start it again to win. I can’t start all again with someone again. I don’t want to end this relation. What should I do? Because he is not co-operating.

2007-01-02 02:12:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know its his hobby, but it drives me NUTS, and the freaking x-box .. good lord, I swear i should just put a computer chip in my butt so that he'll spend more time with me lol - I just wish he put in more effort torwards our relationship,and want to want to do things with me , instead of me always being the one to ask him to do stuff and ripping him away from his computer cause 1/2 the time i think he wishs he was back on the pc when we are out..

2007-01-02 02:11:15 · 14 answers · asked by ~~*SexyCat*~~ 1

I wanted to know because it seems like it's always women who seem to be the ones considered needy in relationships...
I used to be needy before, but after breaking up with my ex, I became independent and just feeling awesome on my own, now I have this new boyfriend, and uh... He's VERY needy and clingy, not that I mind much (for now) because I totally understand where he's coming from... But... Honestly I have NEVER experienced something like this in my life! Never before I met a clingy man! All the BF's I had, the male friends I have, only complain about their needy women... So, I wonder, did I just find the one in the million??? O_O!

It's kind of ironic, but before, I used to dream about having a man like that, who wanted to be with me all the time, calling me all the time, etc... But.. Now, I can see why it is a bit annoying when someone is too absorbing... Well, specially when I was enjoying having all my time for me and not having to give explanations to anyone all the time..

2007-01-02 02:09:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

After being with someone for a while is it normal not to have sex near as much as you did when you first met?

2007-01-02 02:09:43 · 3 answers · asked by TNL 4

He flirts with me all the time like he still likes me but he has a girlfriend.
What should I do , should I just get over him

2007-01-02 02:09:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Women are you after my mind or my body.....?

2007-01-02 02:08:32 · 26 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4

its new years eve.we have to stay in this year. told him we would make the most of it-good food,a few drinks,have a laugh etc etc. planned it for a while,bought nice food etc etc

he's taken the mickey out of me for it all week but in a fun way.

when it came to new years eve,even though we live together i didnt really see him all day & he didnt really talk to me either-he even went food shopping- something which he hasnt done in months!!

after i put my daughter (not his) to bed i expected a bit of us time.

how wrong was i!! i have felt like things havent been right for a while and tried to tell him how i felt. he listened to what i had to say then went off to watch a dvd without me. came back down ( we didnt have food or drink) at around 11.30 then went back out of the room again to go on the pc.

i didnt really feel it was my place to say "come on, its new year in 5 mins" its not like he didnt know what day it was.

big ben chimed away, he came in after the the chimes

2007-01-02 02:07:57 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf went 80 days without smoking pot to pass a pee test. Which he did. Now he back to smoking and doesn't understand why I'm pissed off. I'm heart broken because he brought the New Year in stoned and I was once again alone. I told him to go, get his things and leave. He wants to smoke and have a "girlfriend". I told him to choose. We have been together for 2 years. I didn't realize how much nicer it was with him clean until this weekend. Was I wrong for doing that? Or can you have both?

PS I don't smoke, never have and never will.

2007-01-02 02:01:57 · 27 answers · asked by to_sassy4_u 5

Well, the problem is that I work a lot, I'm a nice girl, I have dates, but with my working program, cancelling datings, or being too tired .... guys are many times scared...What will you do if you were me? Tks.

2007-01-02 02:01:20 · 6 answers · asked by Your Boss :)) 1

My b/f and I have gone out (off and on) for the past 4 years but our sex drives are completely different. I am the horny one, wanting intimacy, sex, kissing, touching, cuddling etc. all the time. He has a take it or leave it attitude. At times, he is super horny but his moods are all over the place in regards to our sex life.

What can I do? squelch my sex drive? find a hobby that takes my mind off of being with him? masturbate more?(my arm is sore as it is). I will not cheat on him btw. so that is not an option.

Any recomendations from the men and women out there in cyberspace? I am always horny but my b/f's desire fluctuates sporadically and it's driving me crazy!

If you are in love with your partner, why not show them all the time? Should I just tune out and turn off? HELP!

2007-01-02 02:01:11 · 11 answers · asked by Meg 2

me and my bf have been having sex loads, hes not come up me. he hasnt been coming up me as he wants to wait until i have fully recovered from a miscarriage, but i want my body to be ok so i dont want to start any form of contraception. i also do want to get pregnant. do you think there is a chance i will be even though he hasnt come up me?

2007-01-02 02:00:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-01-02 01:59:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I made a resolution not to call my ex boyfriend ever again. Within two days into the new year, it is proving to be too difficult. We broke up years ago. All this long i was hoping he'll reconsider and come back, now i realise its never going to happen. I'm trying so hard to keep the distance between us but i'm failing. I go out with friends, try and date someone else, play sports, you name it... but when its time to sleep i find my self dialling his number, what do i do

2007-01-02 01:59:08 · 27 answers · asked by Sammy 2

I was in love with a guy but he betrayed me and that relation ended 3year back. Then 2year back I met another guy through net and we became friends. And slowly he said he like me and truly wants me in his life. I ignore his feelings but one year back I find myself that I too love him. He was serious with this relation and everything was going fine but that dream broken soon. His parents, his sister dislike me and after that nothing remains same in our relation. Meanwhile our family suffer through a tragedy which added more differences in our relation. His just start going away from me because circumstances changed. Then in September he calls me and said he doesn’t want to hurt me but he is helpless. He said the biggest thing which made him to stay away from me was my past relation, that I liked a man before him also. He always use this line” why I was not the first person in your life’. He said he wants to see me happy forever. I know he love me, the words he was saying was not lie.

2007-01-02 01:56:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have the most amazing sex with my current bf.. why does it bring it up so often, does he just want to hear me say how great he is?

2007-01-02 01:55:28 · 18 answers · asked by coco 2

I hate policemen, they pull me over once a month. They prevent people from drinking and driving (there is nothing wrong with drinking 2 beer and drive) They are corrupted. They are suppose to protect society but instead they pull over honest/true gentlemen like me. However, on the other hand chicks can't seem to get enough of policemen. Every chicks in their lifetime are attracted to policemen on time or another. Chicks spoil poilcemen, that's messed up. Chicks are crazy psycho who falls for policemen.

2007-01-02 01:55:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Drug Possession, domestic violence, and traffic problems

No one is a saint but I'm beginning to feel uncomfortable

2007-01-02 01:51:40 · 18 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3

after me and my boyfriend have had sex he always seems to come asking for more should i give him more or no?? help!!

2007-01-02 01:50:03 · 37 answers · asked by likewhoaitsashleymarie 1

i like a girl in my school and she knows i like her but i dont know if she likes me . i want to ask her out but im afraid that she may say no.

2007-01-02 01:48:55 · 10 answers · asked by darth vader 1

A lot of people tell me I have pretty eyes, but does that make me ugly? Whenever I meet a stranger they see me and say "you have really nice eyes"...that is kind of hurting me. Does that make the rest of my face unnatractive?

2007-01-02 01:44:41 · 23 answers · asked by Carpe Diem 1

why when a boy has a girlfriend they still look at other girls and what is going through their head.

2007-01-02 01:44:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-02 01:44:40 · 10 answers · asked by ramprasad 1

there is this girl i loved my whole life. we've been going strong for almost a year now. we spent this holiday vacation on our hometown and I've been visiting her on her parents house. The thing is, her parents liked me at the start but after a couple of visits on their house, they started to unlike me. I have done nothing wrong. Could be that I'm a silent type and shy.

my girlfriend was crying on the phone coz she heard that her parents didn't like me. well she's kind of a sensitive person that just don't want to hear bad things about me. what should i do from now?

we're both 21 yrs old

2007-01-02 01:40:50 · 7 answers · asked by one-of-a-kind 2

2007-01-02 01:40:46 · 6 answers · asked by ruth tee 1

I'm afraid to just come out and ask him. He makes suggestive comments to me in a joking way and he's asked me to move in and share his 2 bedroom condo as roommates. I'm afraid if I ask him directly it could ruin our friendship if he's not interested in me.
He doesn't have a girlfriend. Help!

2007-01-02 01:35:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

gal is interested in another guy after being with me for 1.5 months because this was a guy she couldn't get before (he's a player which had a few diff gals before) and he suddenly told her he has interest. She said the thing which made her try to work things out with me was because I was the nicest bf to her and I treated her right. But I think she broke up with me cause she's intrigued with being with him. We had huge arguments for a whole week on a recent overseas trip together. She tried to blame me for being suspicious and controlling her...when in fact I was suspicious for the right reasons. we had a falling out after our return but then talked it out after a few days to be friends. Yet when I asked her if there's a chance she said not now and don't keep my hopes up for the future. I know it can be a spur of the moment thing when she said it and also because she has that guy on the sidelines now. But do yall think I can win her back and how?

2007-01-02 01:35:14 · 5 answers · asked by Lost 1

2007-01-02 01:30:17 · 17 answers · asked by furrigee 1