what do you do?

Question

HOW DO YOU KEEP YOUR SEX LIFE ALIVE AND WELL? ME AND MY GIRLFRIEND ARE NOT HAVING SEX AS OFTEN AS WE HAVE IN THE PAST?

Answer 1

Thats' just part of any relationship. Initially the sex life is high but after the honeymoon stage has ended then it quites down and has it's highs and lows. This is the stage where you should be learning more and more of each other and respecting each other for who you have chosen as a mate. Trust me your sex life will go through peaks and valleys but improve with love and comfort. Then you will be happy and grateful for the sex life you have been granted by both yourself and your partner. Trust me when I tell you your not alone with this situation and that we all go through it.

Answer 2

I am going to watch how I put this, because I have been reported for answering a question for sexual content. So, in our house, we call it "laundry". Just look at my name.

Laundry can get very very boring. And, when there are other issues in a relationship, laundry suffers. Look at your relationship, look at what has changed, and it will be directly correlated to the lack of laundry.

Girls need a dose of magic and spice in their lives. They like mystery and knowing that you have plotted, planned and schemed behind their backs. Because it shows that all day you were thinking about them. And, they are worth that.

I dont know if the two of you live together or not, or if there are children involved, but if there are, there is nothing sexier than a man who does things around the house. Men do laundry to unwind, women do laundry when they are already relaxed.

Many years ago, someone gave me a book to spice up my laundry. It was called "the great american LAUNDRY diet". (lol insert other word here). it showed different surprise angles, and planning and fun ways to do laundry. I highly recommend the book, it changes the way you look at things in the laundry department.

But try different things, talk about fantasies, and ask her what you could be doing different. Slow things down some, take your time. Give her loads of attention, and I am sure that if she loves you, laundry will just keep getting better and better!

Answer 3

Ummm.... Lets see. My husband and I do alot of different things. First off, we go out every other weekend to clubs and go dancing. We both think its pretty fun to see who can get the most numbers and talk to the most people... Seems silly, but its a real rush to feel that twinge of jealousy but to KNOW that nothing is going to come of it, and then to go home with eachother and get crazy. Role playing is fun, and sometimes we have friends over for strip taboo- Thats fun too. Just always enjoy eachother, I think enjoying eachother every chance you get is what keeps things lively. Have fun.

Answer 4

TRy to make her want sex. Pull her in bed after you.

Try to do somehtign that iwll make her want the sex you crave. If she doosent want to, then talk to her. There may be a reason. If she is cheating, go for another sex girl.

Good luck

Answer 5

You guys need to talk alot more then sex you never know even if you wear a condum it could drop and get her pregnant. Be more careful and try not to have as much.

Answer 6

That's good...it helps to spread in out and in between sessions because it makes your next copulation even that more sensual and intimate...like the first time experience! Way to go!

Answer 7

Try new/different places. Get out of the "old routine".

Answer 8

expand your sex life... bring in new partners... have a threesom... or foursome... or gang bang... try video taping your gf getting it from another guy and watch it together...

Answer 9

try new things instead of the same old stuff go to afun shop and just look and see if you find anything you like