I deeply care for my boyfriend and I know he’s passionate about me but he seemed withdrawn.He’s a great person so sweet & fun to be around but in the bedroom he’s quiet and likes ONLY to cuddle up to me - seeming really shy. I have no problem cherishing the pleasures of cuddling. Outside the bedroom everything was fine, in fact wonderful, but inside, he wasn’t telling me something. My frustration grew so I finally asked him seriously, if he was gay or a transvestite.
But instead he confessed that sometimes he likes to be treated like a kid, with rules and discipline similar to that in which a child receives. Such as, corner time, spankings, etc, which was embarrassing for him to tell me but asked that I participate, i.e. be the ‘mommy. He felt horrible when I hesitated and offered to call off our whole relationship because he thinks I can do better. I have been completely blindsided by this whole thing and I’m worried about the relationship and strain. Please give any help you can!
2007-01-01
10:23:40
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mary n
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