my best friends and i are known to have an extreme amount of ex boyfriends. we arent players or anything but we call ourselves looking for the right ones. i have never dated any of her ex boyfriends. we made it clear to each other that it is not cool to date each others exes. and i have stuck out with my end of the deal. recently she has started talking to a couple of exes of mine. usually the ones i have liked the most. even thought i was in love with but she has been talking to them and at first i thought no big deal they are just talking but they are starting to like her which i feel she may be doing more talking than needed. im worried she may start dating them and i dont know what to do. she has a boyfriend right now anyway but she just cheated on him a few times and im worried it may be with one of my exes. the ones im not completly over even though i to and with someone else and trying my best to forget them.
2007-01-01 10:26:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, friends don't do that to friends...period! Friends stick to their word, and they would never do anything like that. I suggest communicating to your "friend" about how you feel before you can jump to any conclusions here. She may be doing all this without knowing how exactly how you feel. But if she does know then it is obvious that boys are more important than your friendship.
2007-01-01 10:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Keep your head high. She's messing with your "sloppy seconds".
2. Yes, she broke her end of the "deal". So you've learned an important lesson in life: Don't put too much "stock" in people. They will let you down every time.
3. I thought the reason for your quantity was because of the absence of QUALITY. You said you're looking for the "right one". If you were still in love with some of these cats, why did you let them go? Sounds to me like you've grown so accustomed to "switching" at a constant rate that you'll never find the right one.
4. If #3 is still true, get over it and keep looking for YOUR "Mr. Right". Hope you find him...
2007-01-01 18:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by gabound75 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a new best friend. I had one of those and I wish I qwould have ditched her a long time ago. She was hung up on trying to be me and always dating my exes, it was really creepy. Soon she will try to move in on your current friends and boyfriends. Tell her to respect you or you won't be friends anymore.
2007-01-01 18:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see where you are coming from i also understand her to because I have done it and it has been done to me.
She will realize that she was wrong and if you two are best friends and it didn't work for you it is most likely not going to work for her either so you really have nothing to worry about
2007-01-01 18:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by prissymiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girl needs to be school that you under no circumstance are you to date a friends ex.My cousin's friend did the same to her, basically girls who do that wonder if you are a better person than them so the go for your seconds.Maybe she has low self-esteem and envy you on your confidence.
2007-01-01 18:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by meka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is deep. Even though some girls say one thing and do another. I have lost a lot of people in the kind of things because I would befriend them because of this thing. If your uncomfortable then let her know like hey you know!
2007-01-01 18:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by shauniemoma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind her of the agreement you all made. Ask her how would she like it if you went out with ____, one of her exes. Maybe if she sees it that way, she'll stop. She will if she's a friend worth having. If she doesn't stop, who needs enemies with a friend like her. Good luck!
2007-01-01 18:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's going out with your exes, then why worry? It's not like she's cheating with your current bf.
2007-01-01 18:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by Tally(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make deals about relationship with your friends you can't just tell them what to do. It makes everything worse. And secondly who cares! He's you EX you don't care about him anymore thats why you broke up with him!
2007-01-01 18:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by fbimostwanted101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it would have worked out then you would still be together - so just remember he's an ex for a reason!!!
find someone new!
2007-01-01 18:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋