We have had sex and he didn't get very hard or last very long. Worth another go or not?
2007-01-01 10:30:18 · 40 answers · asked by TellMeWhy? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im sure his "performance" problems were related to the stress of being in the world darts championship. Now that its out of the way there is a good chance he might hit the bullseye.
2007-01-01 10:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is a huge gap in the age range that could bring about more serious issues than sex. As a rule it is not the best to have an age gap of more than 7 years, because it just dosen't often work out on the love meter. Generally a relationship with that kind of a gap is more about money than love.
As far as the sex goes, he knows how much younger you are than he is and is probably a bit intimidated.
As far as it being worth another go, search your feelings and answer that one for yourself.
2007-01-01 10:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't come into this as my son is 18 and he is with a 32 yr old woman and they are the happiest couple i know. maybe your man feels a little scared and wondering if he is doing the right thing or feels he may let you down,he could even be thinking if he can satisfy you some men do have feelings too and maybe he needs more reassurance, talk to him tell him this is what you want and you can try the relationship and if it don't work out you cant say you both didn't try. i think its worth another go definitely.
good luck x
2007-01-01 10:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by kjw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love its not his age that does this , When guys get Turned on its all to do with the mind ,
Im 23 Years old and live a healty life style , Go to the Gym 2-3 Times a week and i play the field abit with ladys ,
When i go out and drink and bring ladys back to mine , Sometimes i just can't get Turned on at all and i feel really stupid as im really Floppy!
I think its all down to the mind , Because some girls i get in my bed make me really hard and sexy! Its really hard to explain,
It does'nt mean your not turning the guy on it might be that hes worried about how big his willy is and if your like it or not ,
Im not a very big guy around 6-inc and i sometimes wonder if a girl will like my man hood ! ,
Thing's to Remember is try to turn him on best you can , make him relaxed and then try something really sexy ,
Somethings i lov and ill tell you as it works for me :
I love a girl that talks Dirty ,also a girl that keeps her cloths on and will tease me for ages always works , also another thing that works is to take some of your cloths of slowly move the rest off as this really gets a guys mind thinking !
Anyway hope this helps as im sure alot of guys out find this but dont really talk about it.
2007-01-01 10:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid so, you want someone that will grow old with you not someone you have to nurse for half of your life. If he can't get it up now what do you think is going to happen 10 or 15 years from now. Viagra couldn't even help. You should find someone more your own age so as you can have something in common. And don't be in a hurry life always brings pleasures, you just have to be patient.
2007-01-01 10:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by thehil12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BTW, my girlfriend is answering this.
my boyfriend is 41 and I am 29 if anyone could answerer this it
is me. Well you seem very unsure from the beginning. Do you
have feeling for him or is this about sex? The first time you had
sex with him were you too just maybe not ready. As I mentioned
earlier I'm confused is this turning into a relationship and where
does he stand?
2007-01-01 10:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a relationship with the same age gap. It lasted 5 years and we are still friends. The sex was great, but sex is not everything. Give it a chance, it can work. E-mail me if you want to discuss more
Happy 2007/Good luck
2007-01-01 11:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by Ju-C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it another try. My girlfriend is 33, and I am 52, it just takes longer...
There is more to a relationship then just sex, you have to find out what you have in common, and see if a longer term relationship will work.
We have been going for 2 years, so i think it's possible, and worth trying.
2007-01-01 10:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother married a women with a child almost the same age as he is, and twenty years later they are still together and we all said it would never last. Two other brothers married people that had a more convential age gap and they have devorced now. So I guess the age gap doesn't really matter its what the relationship is biult on that matters.
2007-01-01 10:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing sex is a VERY important consideration for you (since you brought it up early) in all your relationships. If so, then it's not probably worth another go. If you liked anything about him apart from the sex, then go see him again.
2007-01-01 10:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by boink1202 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋