There is this guy that I play soccer with a lot. We talk all the time and we're pretty good friends. He has a really slutty girlfriend that flirts with other guys behind he back all the time. Recently I started to like him a lot. But what do I do to get him to like me? I doubt that'll ever happen. HELP!!!
2007-01-01 10:33:23 · 11 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't force attraction unfortunately. It is not a choice. If he's not attracted to you for who you are then he will miss out on what you have to offer.
2007-01-01 10:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. It will work out the way it should if you are yourself. Don't get caught up in trying to be someone else for someone you are interested in. You can only do that for so long and it isn't sincere. Relax and be the beautiful person you are. Don't worry about his "slutty" gf. Be the best person YOU can be.
2007-01-01 18:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. You like him but dont think he'll ever like you....I say take a chance and tell him that you like him. Find out his favorite desert (brownies, favorite cookies, things like that) and make him some.
Also, if he talks about his relationship with as you put "slutty girlfriend" tell him what you know but make sure you tell him that you are only telling him what you saw/heard becauseyou care.
Either way, take a stand, be strong and go for what you want.
2007-01-01 18:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by sweetthang16_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue being the friend the way you already are
if he is smart he'll finally see the gf for what she is and dump her
There is no way to get anyone to like a person
either it will happen or it wont
Until then, continue to be the friend
2007-01-01 18:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, hang out with him. tell him that there are many GOOD girls out there that will love him and that he should forget about them slutty girl. you can try to get close to him and then slowly let him know how you feel.
2007-01-01 18:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by doubleds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U cant , just look for another guy who is single. u can get yourself in alot of trouble if u try to hook up with someone who has someone else. good luck
2007-01-01 18:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres not much you can do to get him to like you. Just be yourself and try to be his friend. He may just prefer the slutty type...but dont try to become one yourself to get his attention! :)
2007-01-01 18:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him be, not a good idea to be with a guy like that
2007-01-01 18:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by H2O POLO BOY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk truthfully to him about it
2007-01-01 18:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by jj20903 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let them broke and make your move fast
2007-01-01 18:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by sweety84pie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋