My boyfriends family is very private. Basically if you are not immediate family you arent included for dinner, board games, holidays, anything. I grew up in a home where we took in people we were close to and spent alot of time together. Esp being adopted i know that family isnt always about biological relations but people who love you. From friends, to boyfriends. I always take alot of time in making sure i get along with a mans family when i know we are in a serious relationship. But they are close minded, not even his grandfather can have his gf over for a meal. He says im selfish, and cant expect to just barge into his home. But i would never do that. I do things from bakin them cookies, inviting them on trips into the city, i just want to be involved. I love this man, and if i am going to spend a lifetime with him.. how can i know that they will only accept me once he gives me his name?
He never stands up for me.. bc he thinks thats how familys work..
HELP ME!!!!
2007-01-01
10:58:36
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